are there any other single mums OR dads out there who can't find some1 wether the reason being you have no time,or no body wants a partner who has children,shyness,insecurity,or in my case no1 wants a relationship with me as i don't work,don't drive and have 5 children and my first grandchild due in august..id like to hear from anyone...thankyou..xxx

well in my case no one wants a relationship with me because im too damned nice,honest and loyal not because that I'm a single mom

i can relate to that,im a giver and very laid back for some reason men arent into that....being a ***** gets you everywhere i think..going from experience,my friends who are alot louder and *****y are luckier in love than i am..x maybe i should learn to growl or something...GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR hehehe

I have 2 kids.. but my girlfriend and me take of kids...

have 2 kids.. but my girlfriend and me take care of kids and all

Well being seperated ,with the kids on the weekend and working 9-5 is the best i get for my kids. Weekends usually for going out to meet people comes to a standstill for me unless there not here :( I find then makin time during week for the other half if theres someone around :)

It is possible to find someone even if you have kids- don't give up- you just have to be patient- it is true that most men run the opposite direction when they find out you have children and heaven forbid you have a child with special needs- they put a turbo booster on their butts so they can run faster-- but it is possible-

You have 5 kids and a grandchild on the way? Unbelievable!!!- you are stunning!!- you just have to have faith that the right man is out there for you- When you are really ready he will present himself. I know it sounds hokey but its true- I have a special needs child and I had given up on any sort of relationship- and then I met him!!!!! on HERE!!! yeah i know- on the internet? but its true!!! Just don't give up- just be happy being you and when the time is right- you will meet the perfect man for you.

heck, i've got no kids, no ex-wifes and i've still got no one that wants me. at least no one that will admit to it.


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wow thats really good to hear well done you,i try to keep my chin up but it does get awfully tiring,thankyou everso much for your compliment it made me smile..
it is very difficult meeting people i do go out at weekends but the people i usually come across are intoxicated and its not my ideal idea of meeting some1..
ive tried the gym and various other things to meet more people to but no luck so decided to try dating via the internet.x

if i lived across the pond i'd ask you for a date.


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hey i have no problems with single moms, and well it doesn't r eally iritate me if you dont work or drive, my ex fiancee was like that, granted that is not the reason we broke up, but hey single moms are hotties

hotties? really?

hehe well ive had a few odd messages on here one of which was a man who decided to tell me he wont be emailing me as i have children and they repulse him!!! which was rather odd as it was out of the blue and there was no other contact made b4 then!!!
just goes to show how shallow people can be..another asked rather personal questions then said he would date a single mum but only if he didnt have to have any kind of contact with my children!!! gosh there are some funny ppl out there...x

well i think you're beautiful. kids or no kids.


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thankyou very much drew thats very kind of you...xx

you're very welcome.


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Elizabelt is smokin hot any way you look at her. I have both an ex wife and a 15 year old baby girl so i know what your saying,like some people look at us as has beens and left overs.

thankyou very much..it doesnt mean anything though when you blatantly have some1 telling you they wouldnt like to date you because you have children lol....makes me feel like a leper hehehe and angry too because i have alot to give..even my exes would agree with me there..some people make me laff so...hehe

I seen your profile and all i can say is im sure glad i didnt have to be your ex and get over you,ouch