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How do you balance self-acceptance vs. the drive to grow and improve yourself?
On the one hand, it’s a good idea to accept yourself for who you are… faults and all, right? But on the other hand, isn’t it also a good idea to set goals and aim for something even better than what you already experience now? How do you resolve this conflict? Any thoughts? |
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There IS no way to resolve the "conflict", as there really IS no such thing. It's all just a state of flux- one will supersede the other, and vice versa.
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i use laziness and procrastination. i don't accept who i am, but i keep putting off the desire to work on changing due to the desire to lay around.
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Right now, I am the sum total of this life's experiences..... next week I will be the sum total of this life's experiences, next year I will be the sum total....etc etc...
there is no constant, other than acceptance....growth is perpetuating. for 27 easy payments of $9.99 I can show you the way to enlightended dating for the self accepted growth people... |
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Right now, I am the sum total of this life's experiences..... next week I will be the sum total of this life's experiences, next year I will be the sum total....etc etc... there is no constant, other than acceptance....growth is perpetuating. for 27 easy payments of $9.99 I can show you the way to enlightended dating for the self accepted growth people... is there a one on one training course that i can take? . . . |
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Sun 04/19/09 12:42 AM
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I'm driving towards self acceptance but have the metric system in the way because Jess is helping me with that and telling me it's not her problem.
The drive to improve myself is about 2 kilometers away because sometimes I forget that it is in my back pocket and "miles" don't count. |
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Right now, I am the sum total of this life's experiences..... next week I will be the sum total of this life's experiences, next year I will be the sum total....etc etc... there is no constant, other than acceptance....growth is perpetuating. for 27 easy payments of $9.99 I can show you the way to enlightended dating for the self accepted growth people... is there a one on one training course that i can take? . . . That's extra, and involves a 22 hour flight, crossing 6 time zones, to Brisbane, Australia, a two hour flight to Bundaberg, then an hour and a half drive to Agnes Water.... classes start at 8 00 am sharp... 
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I'm driving towards self acceptance but have the metric system in the way because Jess is helping me with that and telling me it's not her problem. The drive to improve myself is about 2 kilometers away because sometimes I forget that it is in my back pocket and "miles" don't count. I love you!  
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I'm driving towards self acceptance but have the metric system in the way because Jess is helping me with that and telling me it's not her problem. The drive to improve myself is about 2 kilometers away because sometimes I forget that it is in my back pocket and "miles" don't count. I love you! That's YOUR problem.......you genious-fool! I LOVE YOU TOO....and THAT'S MINE! |
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Right now, I am the sum total of this life's experiences..... next week I will be the sum total of this life's experiences, next year I will be the sum total....etc etc... there is no constant, other than acceptance....growth is perpetuating. for 27 easy payments of $9.99 I can show you the way to enlightended dating for the self accepted growth people... is there a one on one training course that i can take? . . . That's extra, and involves a 22 hour flight, crossing 6 time zones, to Brisbane, Australia, a two hour flight to Bundaberg, then an hour and a half drive to Agnes Water.... classes start at 8 00 am sharp... is it a 2 full day weekend course or more of a full semester of 1 hour semi weekly encounters? is there a practical lab environment or is it purely academic and theoretical? . . . |
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Just Love
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Right now, I am the sum total of this life's experiences..... next week I will be the sum total of this life's experiences, next year I will be the sum total....etc etc... there is no constant, other than acceptance....growth is perpetuating. for 27 easy payments of $9.99 I can show you the way to enlightended dating for the self accepted growth people... is there a one on one training course that i can take? . . . That's extra, and involves a 22 hour flight, crossing 6 time zones, to Brisbane, Australia, a two hour flight to Bundaberg, then an hour and a half drive to Agnes Water.... classes start at 8 00 am sharp... is it a 2 full day weekend course or more of a full semester of 1 hour semi weekly encounters? is there a practical lab environment or is it purely academic and theoretical? . . . it's a lifetime sentence......full experimental theoretical intervention, complete with bunsen burners and distillation... |
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sounds like fun. i'll work on getting the money together.
from what i've read, you currently have a student that you're working with. your class schedule is full, correct? . . . |
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Actually he is the Professor....
I am the student....his protege... gawd help the lot of us....  
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it's a lifetime sentence......full experimental theoretical intervention, complete with bunsen burners and distillation... sounds like a try for grammatical 2nd guessing of a junkie trying to make moonshine in science class....in theory LAME but short notice 
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Actually he is the Professor.... I am the student....his protege... gawd help the lot of us.... i'm sure the two of you take turns teaching and learning. . . . |
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it's a lifetime sentence......full experimental theoretical intervention, complete with bunsen burners and distillation... sounds like a try for grammatical 2nd guessing of a junkie trying to make moonshine in science class....in theory LAME but short notice It's ok, it's where my mind went too, as soon as I saw the curly glass tubing, i was makin' whisky!!!! 
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Actually he is the Professor.... I am the student....his protege... gawd help the lot of us.... ****...I'm way out of my realm....you b!tch....CONGRATS!!!!!  
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Actually he is the Professor.... I am the student....his protege... gawd help the lot of us.... i'm sure the two of you take turns teaching and learning. . . . hahahaha.....must be my turn soon then.....I'll tell him that. 
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Actually he is the Professor.... I am the student....his protege... gawd help the lot of us.... ****...I'm way out of my realm....you b!tch....CONGRATS!!!!! you and me both there wonderboy, you and me both!!! I soooo love extreme sports!!!!!!!!!
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