So, I'm fresh out of a five-year relationship... what the hell do you do to start over?

It doesn't... for me anyway!

HOW fresh out a relationship? cuz if you aren't ready to move on- its just not worth it right now-

just take you time- take time for yourself right now- figure out what you want and who you are now that you are single- have fun- don't worry about "dating"

when you are ready just go slow- start everything out as friends- be casual- let it "flow" when it is supposed to happen it will- everything happens in its own time- in the meantime- have fun- enjoy the site and join in on the forums- its a great place to meet and chat with everyone

Thanks! We've technically been split for six-months and I'm tired of being alone. I absolutely don't want to jump into anything serious, but defintely someone to go out and hang with. "get my groove back" as the expression says.

What seems to be working for me, is... remembering I am a wonderful person, re-connecting with myself, and working on personal growth... I know it sounds corney, but it's working wonders... :) Oh, and meeting new people!

START WITH MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.