Just curious, what is the criteria? even if it's not me I don't care about that.

I've been trying to figure that one out for over two years here now!

My best guess is: THEY don't even know what they want!

women acoss the board are different. hense we all want different things. I don't think that geographic location really stipulates what a woman looks for in a man.

my guess is it is a rub board stomach, a lexus or porche or jaguar, a two flat condo, and a 1500 per week allowance for there wardrobe and they will not settle for anything less. So here I sit typing this while those guys are out with them.


hint: this is a test...

Ahah! I knew it Women in General are completely becoming Narcissistic Selfish Assholes

Not all of them though, those that are not are the ones I want to meet.

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlematch.aspx?cp-documentid=18728048&gt1=32023

So do you require a man to own a car, a condo or house, a savings and an weekly allowance for your fun and beauty care?

car- depends on the living situation, if you live in the city. Its not a deal breaker, public transportation and walking I'm good with, but in the burbs. you better have wheels I am not going to be chauffer all the time.

cando/house- it really depends on someone's age and their financial situation for living quarters.

allowance- my closet. my clothes. my money. if someone wants to buy me something because it looked like I would like it, or for a birthday or Christmas or something, I won't throw it back at them. but my closet. my clothes. my money. I don't need an allowance to go shopping.

and if someone ever tries to tell me I have an "allowance" for anything, he's out the door. I work; I do not expect, nor want, to be a kept woman.

That was my experience with women while living in chicago

I think Women in Chicago including myself pretty much want the same things as men do....

-A person who has good values instilled in them.
-A job
-A home they call their own
-A person who can communicate well with others and their partner
-A person who will want to have a commitment and follow through with it when the tuff times roll in.
-Who also has a passion for life
-who has hobbies and other interests besides their partner
-who understands about a equilibrium that must be maintained throughout a lifetime relationship.
-chemistry and attraction.

all the other things are perks and comproimses!


so there you have it in my opinion we all want the same things.

Geographic locations definitely make a difference in a conformist world. For instance; in Chicago a lot of girls like skinny guys with full sleeve tattoos and thick black glasses. In California the majority would want a buff beach bod with long hair. In New York; money, period.

The social norm that people feel pressured to conform to differs between regions. I'm sure in the south; if you like Chicago music and not country; you'd be an outcast. You can take the person out of highschool, but you can't take the highschool out of the person. The world is cliquey.

I completely agree with you plus the loyal and respect to eachother. Plus understanding the meaning of happiness. Understanding that everyone has flows and isn't perfect but its how you adjust to them. Not trying to change the other person but communicating.

It really depends on every girl.

Me personally I want a wild guy - tatooed, rainbow hair, makeup, good taste in music - pretty much the mirror image of myself in a sense.

Of coarse, I never get what I want :(