How does someone get over a forced rejection? This guy Kyle(married, pretended he was single)came over one time and we'd been emailing for awhile and I fell for him hard. I use to(not now though.)put my heart into it right away, and that's what happened and now my heart is broken and I can't get over him. How does someone pick up the pieces and get on with their lives???

i dont know if this is the right way to get over it but dating worked for me

this is why i dont date.

<-- very disenchanted with people

but in terms of the hurt, you just have to hurt. it sucks, but you wont hurt forever. stay sober and busy.

hope it gets better

you just do, you cry about it, feel bad about it, feel betrayed about it, then you get over it.

Consider yourself lucky that you dodged that bullet. Take time to lick your wounds a bit...then suck it up & move on... We've all been through it & it ain't easy...but the pain doesn't last forever...just a lil tough luv from Phuque...

Ive been hurt many times and the only thing you can doo is pick yourself up and put the past behind you and try again. There are alot of other people that would love to get to know you. Be strong and try to smile

He came over once and your heart is broken?

some people don't

some people spend the rest of their lives smoking the pity pipe and never move on

you can decide not to be one of those people or don't. It's up to you

that's what i was thinking also...............

*singing* Where do broken hearts goooo...

Push toward
The light
Push toward
The light
Push toward
The light

You'll heal

sounds like your giving birth to a table lamp

how much did you invest emotionally in this guy you met one time? Alcohol helps....

fIRST AND FORMOST YOU CAN. iT IS GOING TO BE HARD BUT YOU TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME. IT'S OK TO CRY BUT WIPE YOUR EYES AND START ALL OVER AGAIN. LEARN TO BE BY YOURSELF FIRST, ENJOY YOU.

Just get yourself rip-roaring drunk and get it out of your system.

Living with integrity means:


Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships.

Asking for what you want and need from others.

Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension.

Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values.

Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.

First of all, you cry your eyes out. Then you suck it up and acknowledge that you deserve better. He lied to you and you don't need that kind of guy. It sounds like it was a very brief "affair" with a lying cheating jerk. Perhaps you fall too easily in love because you feel something is missing from your life. I would advise that you take time to learn to love you--solitarily. Respect yourself and treat yourself well. Don't go looking for someone, anyone, to fill some hole you have in your heart. Fill the hole yourself. It's only when you are whole that you can choose a better class of male and learn true love.

You don't get involved with a married man, granted he pretended he was single, but you ultimately found out he wasn't, cut your losses and skeedaddle.

Rejection is the biggest thing that affects most of us as humans.....its part of life unfortunately.

The secret is to remind urself that everything happens for a reason, even if we cant see it at the time.

It was better happening early on before u got too emotionally involved, and maybe this experience will be the one that changes ur outlook regarding wearing ur heart on ur sleeve?

Call Dr. Jarvic