Topic: would you consider dating someone...
PATSFAN's photo
Thu 04/16/09 09:46 AM


I will be getting divorced Tuesday April 21st:banana:


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Thu 04/16/09 09:48 AM


I will be getting divorced Tuesday April 21st:banana:



Hey! That's me & Phuque2's 1yr anniversary of knowing eachother!




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Thu 04/16/09 09:48 AM



I will be getting divorced Tuesday April 21st:banana:


Let's Celebrate PATS , it's my Birthday too drinker drinker drinker


drinker the celebrating continues, Happy Birthdaydrinker :banana:


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Thu 04/16/09 09:51 AM
Edited by boonedog on Thu 04/16/09 09:54 AM

I will be getting divorced Tuesday April 21st:banana:




So pats....I guess we can call this happy D-DAY......laugh laugh laugh



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PATSFAN's photo
Thu 04/16/09 09:51 AM

NOOOOOOOOO F-ing way. Not if they were the last man on earth. I also will not be the first person a divorced guy dates.

My standard response:

You need to end your marriage before you start another relationship. I do not care if it is only a legal definition, use this time to get over your marriage and be ready to meet someone new. No married person is ready to date, in my opinion. I don't want or need anyone in my life who is still enmeshed in a relationship. A new person will not help you get over the last person, and I hope you settle your divorce amicably and amenably. I am not interested in married or separated men. Good luck.



laugh Yes, after 4 years I still pine for her...Notlaugh

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Thu 04/16/09 09:53 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Thu 04/16/09 09:54 AM


NOOOOOOOOO F-ing way. Not if they were the last man on earth. I also will not be the first person a divorced guy dates.

My standard response:

You need to end your marriage before you start another relationship. I do not care if it is only a legal definition, use this time to get over your marriage and be ready to meet someone new. No married person is ready to date, in my opinion. I don't want or need anyone in my life who is still enmeshed in a relationship. A new person will not help you get over the last person, and I hope you settle your divorce amicably and amenably. I am not interested in married or separated men. Good luck.



laugh Yes, after 4 years I still pine for her...Notlaugh


Ha, your situation and Lily0923, you both had special circumstances.

I'm talking people that file for divorce and then go online three weeks later.

Oh, and not pining, but rather bitter anger and unresolved problems in general. Comparing everyone to their spouse, that sort of thing...

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 04/16/09 09:54 AM


I will be getting divorced Tuesday April 21st:banana:




So pats....I guess we can call this happy D-DAY......laugh laugh laugh




:banana: This is true, I think I will hire a limo & have photographer for this occasionlaugh laugh

boonedog's photo
Thu 04/16/09 09:55 AM
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beautyfrompain's photo
Thu 04/16/09 09:56 AM
No noway

jacethechippy's photo
Thu 04/16/09 02:03 PM
My opinion on it would be that. There getting divorced for a reason. If they truly feel there heart is to be for someone else, its not working out or whatever thats why there breakin up. There dating or meeting new people because they want something new and no they dont want to go back. Marriage isnt just a piece of paper. Its everything around and within that couple and when somebodys getting divorced clearly that isnt the case anymore.

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Thu 04/16/09 02:45 PM
When I was separated my answer was "Sure, why not?
My divorce itself took 6 months and that was over a yr ago.
Feb.2008

Now from where I am at now............
I would say no.

Friends for lunch, coffee dates, church picnics and pot-lucks might have been a better route for me.
Did I myself follow this path?

I did not.

And I paid for it.

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Thu 04/16/09 04:06 PM
Absolutely NOT. Separated is still married. I don't even want to date someone who is recently divorced. He needs time to reclaim his life and emotions. And I don't want to get involved in this journey which he needs to do alone. I don't like being the rebound girl.

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Thu 04/16/09 04:07 PM

that is separated pending a divorce


I wouldn'thuh

BABCHI's photo
Thu 04/16/09 04:16 PM

I am divorced ...can I have that drink on you......laugh laugh laugh



LOL good to hear your not seperated....lol

BABCHI's photo
Thu 04/16/09 04:17 PM

that is separated pending a divorce


Is that not a legal way of saying :
I can play around?

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Thu 04/16/09 04:35 PM
I have been seperated for over a year. We have property to be sold, that in this economy is not happening very fast. We have not seen each other in over a year though we talk once in a while about the property. She has someone else in her life. I have gone out with other ladies since, of which a couple have been seperated as will.
I don't think one can say no to seperated people for dating. And I don't think most seperated people are using it as an excuse to cheat on their spouse. I think you have to look at the situation of the person you are interested in dating. Not just say no, as you just might really be missing out on that special relationship.

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Thu 04/16/09 04:38 PM
No. That would just be too complicated for me.

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Thu 04/16/09 04:40 PM
Edited by ProteinGirl on Thu 04/16/09 04:44 PM

I will be getting divorced Tuesday April 21st:banana:


Awesome!!!!
I have to wait until August 10th.

I'm separated. But I HAD to leave.

I consider myself well divorced.

I would also date someone that's separated. But NOT living with.

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Thu 04/16/09 04:41 PM
yes i can date someone that is seperated ....i have been seperated for two yr ....:wink:

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Thu 04/16/09 04:42 PM
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