so i have yahoo and have had it for like 10 years. regardless... i have many a friend on there.

a friend popped up a bit ago and i said hi... they said hi back which is odd for them because we are the insult twins to each other... so getting just a hi back made me think something was wrong.

so i asked.

nothin.

like nothin at all?

nothin okay?

just weird for him.

so as we talked.. i realized... its not him.

its his creepy girlfriend.

so i called her out. and she responded with "stay out of his life" boom and logged out.

WTF!?

okay ... so i'm guessin i should report this to him. i saved the convo just because thats soo weird. but i mean... i dunno. he really likes her alot.

thats soo unnerving though. if some guy i was dating tapped into my yahoo i'd be INFURIATED!!!

what do you think?

what would you do if you were me?

turn her in? suck it up?

what about if you found out if your sig other tapped into your IM?

Wow! I would definitely say something to him. Chances are, he doesn't know and should. She sounds like an immature, insecure girl and needs to get over the fact that he has friends of the opposite sex.

turn her in and tell him...who wants some nut case

i was in shock. i mean wow. psycho.

sounds like she is crazy !

Marry him

Bust her out to him. Then let him deal with it, what ever way he
chooses. He may get mad at you- but thats the chance you take.

I would want to be told- if someone was doing that to me.
I would be pissed!
They certainly would not remain my boyfriend after that.
This is a trust issue, and control issue.
I would not tolerate it what so ever.

Definitely let him know you do not appreciate having someone impersonate you on the IM. If she gets her way intimidating you, you lose this friend. If you piss off your friend by telling on his girlfriend's immature deception, you'll lose this friend.
But, he'll KNOW better with whom he is dealing and that's all you can do.

i shot him an email with the convo transcript. i'll let you guys know what kinda response he has.

He should definately know. I had an ex tap into my Yahoo. It is a total invasion of privacy.

Bust her Dano !

This has happened to me in the past. It was my so talking to my friends, I didn't appreciate it and didn't tolerate it.

Just hope that she doesn't intercept the convo email.... definate red flagger.....just hope she doesn't have any duct tape and depends in her trunk.....

personally If I was with someone else and she was my S.O. then I would be deleting profiles where ever I had them. As for my friends on these sites? like here mingles or yahoo. that you talk with? hey there is a phone for that. Some people just can not accept that you have "outside friends".

OH EM GEE i didn't even think about that!

shoot.

i'll send him a text and tell him to call me.

its soo wrong and weird i mean what kind of human being does that kinda crap?

keep it safe for now

odds are she's jealous of you. any idea why this could be?
maybe he talks about you alot?

odds are she's crazy....its a common trait (sadly)

best of luck though


be brave little toaster

its because i'm bodacious. nothin i can do about that. god gave me hotness and i can only use it for good. with great hotness comes great responsibility.

honestly he and i are just friends. nothin more. we aren't attracted to each other. as a matter of fact.. like i said.. we are the insult twins with each other. :p

good call on reporting her

honestly platonic relationships are EXTREMELY rare among friends

there's a good chance he's given the bat-sh|t-crazy chick reason to suspect that he likes you.

now i question his motives for our friendship. :( that wasn't sposed to happen...