hello

i honestly don't know if i will ever meet my perfect soulmate. i haven't been very successful in exchanging ideas lately. this is who i am. i am a bit intense whether i am discussing music or just having a conversation. some ladies don't prefer an intellectual guy. i get it. no problema. this whole concept of photos really breaks me apart. i've posted some of my personal black & white landscapes online. was it a mistake? i don't consider myself photogenic either. i'm usually trying to conceal my face. handsome or not, i am not your typical guy. so i suppose i am just not good enough for some women. it's sad actually. i think i'd make a decent partner. anyhow, that's just me. the alternative guy with a blue mood. thanks for perusing this message. if u do decide to investigate further, it would be cool to leave me some constructive feedback. thanks again.

"the stars are closer to the earth
than u preceive"

Just wanted to say Hi and Welcome to the site!!

There are alot of really great people here- just relax, post on the forums and let everyone get to know you!!

Have a great day!

welcome

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Tammy

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Tammy

Hello and welcome. Please feel free to be yourself, I am positive that you will fit right in here with us. Post the pic(s) you are comfortable with and hopefully soon you will be more comfortable in sharing about yourself.

We are all very different, that is a good thing.

Again,

Welcome!

Myra

Welcome, I am kind of new here too. I feel your pain so to speak. I don't know if I will ever find my soulmate either. I haven't been having the best of luck on here myself. I know that there are women hwo appreciate an intellectual guy, because I am one of them. I'm not your typical woman either lol... I don't feel I'm very photogenic, but I do try and post some of the better pics I have of myself... You should maybe try to post some of you, too. From what I can tell of the "reverse"? photo, you look just fine. And don't worry about the women who you think you aren't good enough for, although I feel the same about myself sometimes. You just gotta forget those people, because if they think they are too good for you, the reality of it is they don't DESERVE you. I think I'd make a decent partner too, but am trying to hold out for that one special guy that sees the things in me that the others don't. I wish you the best of luck finding that special someone

April

it is most freeing, to pose the thoughts and belief's one has of "other's", in the reverse, asking oneself of the same things, coming from the perspective of other's thinking the same???

would a stalemate exist if all other's thought as self???

in other words, if everyone, all people thought the same as i do, what would the present state of thought or intent be???

this easily unlocks the knowing one needs to find, to free oneself from the prison of self feeling alone and not understood???

the one that does this, has no lack of friends, and willing partner's appear everywhere, then comes the greater of full disclosure as friends, seeing equally what two together want, after ONE has reached out first to understand the other, and not to be understood???

the wisest will have the hardest time being understood, so it is wisest to seek first without return for investment, to understand all other's first???

the one that reaches out first, caring not about what understand itself, but seeking to understand all other's, soon has to limit it's "friends", peering thru the haze of many that wish to be friends, seeing in all equality and fairness, one's own limitations of caring for other's as itself for those it deem as friends???

peace

Hello and welcome :)

Hoping you find all you seek and a little something you didn't expect ... just to keep it interesting...

Welcome

Welcome to you as well April