Beauty is relative to the observer, I'm with a very beautiful lady right now and she has one hell of a personality. But what I think is beautiful could be someone else's 'butt ugly'. She thinks I'm hot, that right there proves that point!

I've dated guys who are drop dead gorgeous (to me) -- who have also been intelligent, and with great personalities!

Everything is subjective anyway. As long as a person is giving themselves the best in seeking a mate -- and what they deserve -- the value of looks and personality are only up to the beholder!

I want the whole package! I can't date someone that I'm not drooling over even at his worst (sick, drunk, moments of stupid, etc); I can't date someone that isn't intelligent, funny, and kind.

There isn't 'one end or the other of the spectrum' for me.


Queen Lyrics:

I want it all, I want it all, I want it all, and I want it now!
I want it all, I want it all, I want it all, and I want it now!

hehehehehehehe So you are dating a delusional chick who ain't been taking her meds? Good for you man!!!! (hehehehehehe...sorry fear...but, I can't help but shoot the bullets you hand me bro)

Congrats.

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmm lol


THE truth, my duck is a drake,
I just did not want to spoil your image
that you had of my duck.... lol

LOL your imagery is getting me worried
as I cannot imagine the poor duck being
%%^^^&&& then having to be plucked
and becoming the Sunday Roast.... lol
(cause it died under the pressure)

WELL to have an arm sprouting from the foreward
I cannot see it enhansing the foreplay except
if one zipped their trouser fly near their nose.... lol

I am sure that you are a well rounded gent
and makes a great effort to make each girl feel
comofortable in their skin while in your company.

YOU show and demostrate you are confident about your looks
that is fine, it is too nice to see that some like who they
are and how the look... yet there is always those who do not!!

LOL...this thread is not about me
giving up my picture... lol
but
to learn from others views, most
here all had positive input, most
did not care about the shell of the person
but rather valued the pearl within them.

FACT is there are good-looking people
and there are also so called ugly people...
if each valued themself with a positive,
knowing and accepting themself as they are.
there would be very few blank spaces here...

andddddddddddddddddd
maybe my picture tooo... lol

NOW I am geting worried about my duck
going to leave town and put duck into hiding...lol

I like you...

I would shovel elephant poo with you doll...

I have a magnet on my fridge that says..."Fall in love with your eyes closed".

See the inner beauty, fall in love with the WHO of someone, not the WHAT.

External beauty? or an inner light that shines so bright, it creates the outer beauty also?

Give me one of those..I am not one for fancy wrapping paper at the best of times, and besides, the wrapping paper eventually dissolves... but the gift...the gift! is forever.

Wait a damned minute!!!!! Your duck is a drake?!?!?!?!?!


Well.....I can't be too indignant about that....there was that night of tequila shots...I swear the duck didn't tell me it was a drake until after I had f**ked it really hard....but, in my defence...the duck enjoyed it! Sh*t happens.

I hear ya....I hate condoms too!

Thank God for inner beauty!

I believe that looks fade

Inner beauty can last forever

JMO

I like what you said, in a earlier comment of mine i wrote this...

If we were to be blinded every-time we met strangers
and stayed that way until both meet 4-times,
what non-visual image would we have of them phyically
and what impression would they leave upon us,
just by the exchange of words and tones of voice.

I wonder if one would still feel the same about them
after they gained their sight, when to find that the other
does not fit into their "personal image requirements"....

If one answers it would matter, then looks do matters!

If one answers it would not, then beauty was skin deep!

I read that post of yours...hence my post. It's how I am... I find the more I know someone, the more beautiful they become....they are just ordinary people, no matter whether generically attractive or not, but once a level of intimacy is created, they become profoundly beautiful.

That is very true...until the groping begins.

I am not sure if you were ever feeling someone up in the dark and found an unexpected wart...and thought to yourself.."Oh man, I hope that is a wart and not a tick!"

Well that's another way of looking at it...

I think someone can "THINK" their beautiful and because they are so vain about it, it makes them ugly. I think humble beauty is what is the most beautiful...You don't go seeking the compliments because you are secure enough within yourself that it doesn't matter. I think at least for me people that toot their own horn are the most insecure.

Krupa and Dan both are two different ends of the spectrum, Krupa is confident in an arrogant way, but that is what draws people to him. And if complete honesty are at work herw...I would not look twice at Krupa for he is not my type, (whatever that is also speculative) But his personality and his confidence make me adore the socks and everything else off him

Dan is a humble amazing man. He really doesn't think he is good looking and he totally is, and not only that his caring and character and sharp wit and sense of humor make him stand out big time.

When I started the matchmaking thread it was all on this premise...What you may think is your type can get completely blown out of the water...They would say Debbie why did you match me with this person...she/he is not my type...Just get to know I would say and then see...Of course they were perfect for each other but it took getting past the outer beauty to see the amazing gem inside.

I would also get letters all the time, thanking me for matches because again, they would not normally get to know based on looks, and now are best friends. Also for me again. I have never been attracted per say to bald men...But on mingle I have gotten to know many and now I am so drawn to bald men...go figure huh....So I think a lot of people need to throw away what "THEY" think is their type and look at each individual as just that.

Yes, this is true! BUT, they must have some outward attraction (on even the smallest level) in order to catch your attention. Your affection for them might grow stronger because they have a lot of inner beauty -- but the magnet must come first.

I plan to fall in love so we can grow old and wrinkled together

For a moment, only a moment, though
putting all of this aside and my DUCK
I find you entertaining and have
a delightful manner that becomes you.

You have made this topic in parts
both interesting and too helped break
down the seriousness of the subject
and that is a good thing, it gave balanced
to this shared conversation...

You are very likeable.

I too would like to thank the others
for their contribution too.



Gone to find DUCK....

Dang it!!!!

I was hoping all the chicks here would fall for some smooth talking...a couple of mixed drinks and a Rohypnol....I really need to work on my approach.

yes there have been many that have had both

the sad thing is that way to often they let the knowledge of the beauty get in the way of the once was great personality