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Topic: TIME LOST
FreeToB's photo
Sat 04/11/09 08:29 AM

:smile: thread lightly be seeing you


OK

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Sat 04/11/09 08:31 AM

I have to agree that personal questions only become personal when one chooses to make them so. Having said that, "choice" is one of the last sanctuaries of privacy. The two go hand in hand.

So choosing to regard a question as too personal is perfectly acceptable.


I totally agree with what you said.

Having "choice" grants us the priveledge
to respond or not.

Regard a question as too personal is perfectly acceptable,
but it too hinges on how ones gets their point across...





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Sat 04/11/09 08:33 AM
Ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight? Feel free to choose whether you wish to respond.

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Sat 04/11/09 08:38 AM
Edited by Miss_No_So on Sat 04/11/09 08:40 AM


I come here because I have no life, no friends, nothing else to do but look at a computer screen and live vicariously through it.


I thought almost exactly the same thing my friend. I knew that I had friends but I seldom, if ever, called them or visited. And when they call I just usually cut it short. I basically imposed that lonliness on myself without even defining it as such. Friends can cause you some heartache and trouble...but it's worth it I think.

I had a MAJOR heart attack last Sunday and I told the EMS guys that if they were going to like, jam a needle in my heart, to go ahead and let me die. I didn't care. And I REALLY didn't. But they worked hard on me and, obviously, I lived. That even though the head of cardiology said that he had never ever seen anyone survive the two 100% and 2 90% blockages that I had in my main coronary arteries.

Since then, so many people that I had even forgotten were my friends have come by, called me, sent me cards..and one of my less sensitive biker friends brought me a gun cleaning kit (wire brushes on rods) to help me keep my arteries scrubbed out. Bastard! lol

I meet a LOT of people out ad about every day and make a lot f aquaintances that I never call back or see again. But after this, I believe I'm going to start calling, and just telling people that I'd like to get together again. Most are just like me...closed in that recursive loop of daily life and just not breaking the routine, and would love to have a new friend. So think of it like this, the more people you befriend, the more friends you have. I'm going to be trying to get all I can..even if it means all those computers, cars and appliances to fix for free. It's worth it. :)

Theres a certain something to be said for human contact too. Who doesn't feel the need to hug someone that we havn't seen in years or who just came from a war zone? We can SAY all we like to someone and hear all we like, but human contact is a primary need.






This was a worthy read, I loved this part
Theres a certain something to be said for human contact too. Who doesn't feel the need to hug someone that we havn't seen in years or who just came from a war zone? We can SAY all we like to someone and hear all we like, but human contact is a primary need.

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Sat 04/11/09 08:43 AM

Ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight? Feel free to choose whether you wish to respond.



NO, have not.
I responded and it did not hurt...lol

FreeToB's photo
Sat 04/11/09 08:44 AM


Ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight? Feel free to choose whether you wish to respond.



NO, have not.
I responded and it did not hurt...lol


be seeing ya. lol


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Sat 04/11/09 08:50 AM
IF any have taken notice and I hope you have,
to realize how the topic subject has lost
motion and taken on another direction....

This is what true real dicussions are about,
to allow the topic to become something
different, but remains just as interesting.

Thanks to all who have contributed so far...
I am enjoying where this is and going.

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Sat 04/11/09 09:17 AM

Ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight? Feel free to choose whether you wish to respond.


Yes I have, and it's not something to be taken lightly or dicided opon without serious thought. It is not for the faint of heart.

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