Do you find that you are more motivated and productive when in a relationship?

I feel that I am.

Yea breaking the wallet...She is great at it

All facet's of my life are much more inspired when I'm in a relationship. Hence, my boredom.

I am actually more productive when I am alone ...Don't know why either

No way

That's when I get lazy

Love wears me out!

When I started dating my last girl I dropped 70 pounds and my grades went way up. Then when it was over I kinda slid back down and got lazy. So if anyone would like to motivate me... come on down.

no, I seem to become less motivated and productive

I have become very comfortable being single, if I find someone or not life still goes on.

Ive been single since 98 and the way it looks ill be single way longer than that ,Oh well what can i do?...

inspires
it lets you get hope where there is none
it builds you up
it brings out the best you can be
makes you free
it is unending

True....
it also blind sides you with a big "f**k you" and leaves you alone at night thinking.."WTF????"

Oooh sounds like my marriage

don't try to burst my little happy bubble now haha

Depends on what phase the relationship is in.

I can be significantly more inspired and productive in the early stages of a relationship.

Once things go sour, and I'm in the middle of battling the attempts at goat conversion, I find the relationship is more of a deterrent to creativity than anything.

The men I tend to chose end up trying to make me feel less to make them be more. I am better off alone.

I found motivation and the desire to better myself more each day. to build myself and her up and become more than one person alone could be. To take the advice and counsle of my mate and intigrate it into my life in an effort to not just be an individual but part of a team.

abbot and costello are funy. yet singly are not so enjoyable. so it is with marrage for me.

not to say that im a slob and all that single. I just feel a distinct lack direction in my goals for life.

Relationships basically suck the life out of me. They take up time. So, of course I get more done as a single person. I don't have to babysit a man.

Just thinking about this, it is a sad thing when we feel we need other to motivate us to be productive...

If living and life was all about others to get us off the couch
to be more than we are, then the world is screwed.

When we have no self motivation and are non-productive it shows how depended we are on others to push us along, sometimes others get tired of being the motivator because it becomes in the end a nil productive non paying job.

Many not all, if they see one as being a non self-motivator or nil productive they avoid them like a bad smell.

People who are self generated to being productive are the ones most other people prefer to associate with for the long run.

In a GOOD/HEALTHY relationship what happens all production is half by each being motivated to do their half of anything and everything.

Good Relationships are Wonderful to have....but I'm a productive, motivated and, most importantly, independent person regardless. That's just who I am

I'm productive alone and in a relationship. My accomplishments and goals are a bit different when I'm in a relationship. But I'm happiest when I'm productive. Alone, I accomplish a lot of my own goals and projects. In a relationship, I focus more on "us" and "our" goals as a couple. And I like to choose goal-oriented men with a lot of energy and stamina--someone who can make love most of the night and still get up early and dig in the garden with me all day. Who needs sleep?? We'll get enough rest when we die. LOL