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Topic: Age differance
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Tue 04/21/09 10:39 AM


Age is a factor!
This comes up all the time and everyone has various opinions.
I cannot see myself being interested in a guy in hiis 20's and If I saw a 30+ year old going after my 18 yo daughter...He would have problems!
Same note If I saw a woman my age going after my 21 yo son I would have to question her mental capacity.
Sex is sex and no doubt could be fun with any age person. But I want someone with life experiences and someone who is in the same place as me.
If I had to worry about clubbing and that stuff again I would go nuts.
Besides those guys never want to share the PS2!


I would share your concerns if a person twice my sons age was dating him, to a point! I think there comes a point when u have to let your child choose for him/herself. Also look at it this way if a 35yo is dating a 21yo now then when the 35yo is 60 the 21yo would be 46, doens't sound so much of a gap then does it? As to mental capacity I dunno? Isn't it possible that 2 ppl can be attracted to each other even with a age gap? So long as they are both of the age of consent and able to give it mentally I don't see a huge issue, excpet for the younger guy hogging the PS2 haha


Thats not the age group we are referring to.
40 - 60 yos have life experiences to share at 18 - 30's still have lots of learning to do.
And yes you can be mature for your age but there is still a big difference in young and old.
To each his own I was just saying how I feel about it.
I will keep my PS2 to myself! Well not really my kids play it all the time :)

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Tue 04/21/09 10:44 AM
Sometimes it is fun to drive a newer car. The older one have worn out springs and cushions that sag. The headlights aren't as bright and the crome is fading. The wax is peeling the tires are cracked. Take it for a spin, you never know until you try.

Ravendancer

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Tue 04/21/09 10:52 AM

Sometimes it is fun to drive a newer car. The older one have worn out springs and cushions that sag. The headlights aren't as bright and the crome is fading. The wax is peeling the tires are cracked. Take it for a spin, you never know until you try.

Ravendancer

Good analogy... Hope you have Allstate.. Youngins are hard on cars!

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Tue 04/21/09 10:56 AM


Sometimes it is fun to drive a newer car. The older one have worn out springs and cushions that sag. The headlights aren't as bright and the crome is fading. The wax is peeling the tires are cracked. Take it for a spin, you never know until you try.

Ravendancer

Good analogy... Hope you have Allstate.. Youngins are hard on cars!


Yeah but can they fly!

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Tue 04/21/09 11:03 AM
I've dated two guys with a 15+ age difference and it totally went to hell. More than likely because he was betting on my naivety to not catch what was wrong with him/both of them. My longest relationship has a 6 year difference and it went relatively well. There was a huge reason why they were still single at their age and worst of all they were miserable. I need a guy who has his life going for him and needs someone to share it with, not someone who needs "fixing"

I'm dating a guy two months older than me now and it's the best relationship I've ever had. we do have differing opinions but it's not polar opposites. i like knowing that we're going to experience things together instead of my man already lived through it.

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Tue 04/21/09 11:07 AM

I've dated two guys with a 15+ age difference and it totally went to hell. More than likely because he was betting on my naivety to not catch what was wrong with him/both of them. My longest relationship has a 6 year difference and it went relatively well. There was a huge reason why they were still single at their age and worst of all they were miserable. I need a guy who has his life going for him and needs someone to share it with, not someone who needs "fixing"

I'm dating a guy two months older than me now and it's the best relationship I've ever had. we do have differing opinions but it's not polar opposites. i like knowing that we're going to experience things together instead of my man already lived through it.


I respect your choice!

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Tue 04/21/09 11:07 AM

I've dated two guys with a 15+ age difference and it totally went to hell. More than likely because he was betting on my naivety to not catch what was wrong with him/both of them. My longest relationship has a 6 year difference and it went relatively well. There was a huge reason why they were still single at their age and worst of all they were miserable. I need a guy who has his life going for him and needs someone to share it with, not someone who needs "fixing"

I'm dating a guy two months older than me now and it's the best relationship I've ever had. we do have differing opinions but it's not polar opposites. i like knowing that we're going to experience things together instead of my man already lived through it.


flowers flowers
Good Luck on your new relationship!

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Tue 04/21/09 03:12 PM
I think its of more importance to know what Almighty God thinks. Ask Him for His opinion:heart:

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Wed 04/22/09 08:28 AM

I think its of more importance to know what Almighty God thinks. Ask Him for His opinion:heart:


I think God doesn't see age, only ppl. Jehovah is love and wants love for us no matter what the age.

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Wed 04/22/09 10:40 AM
I am thinking about checking out some younger guys(not too young). I guess if the person makes you happy and treats you right then go for it.

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Sat 04/25/09 07:58 AM
my thoughts exactly

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