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Topic: priority or option
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 04/07/09 06:49 PM


woodford Joined Fri 03/27/09 Posts: 176	Tue 04/07/09 06:58 PM
constant comments about how bussy they are. Im sorry but when your interested in someone you always seem to find time even if its stealing time to text "i miss you" in the restroom at work. hmm, that sounded gross but Im sure you understand. or, conversation that is not full and exploritive of who the other is AND who you are. an exchange on one persons part yet no offer of who they are is a huge sign to me that the investment of self is not there so I may be an option.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Tue 04/07/09 07:06 PM
constant comments about how bussy they are. Im sorry but when your interested in someone you always seem to find time even if its stealing time to text "i miss you" in the restroom at work. hmm, that sounded gross but Im sure you understand. or, conversation that is not full and exploritive of who the other is AND who you are. an exchange on one persons part yet no offer of who they are is a huge sign to me that the investment of self is not there so I may be an option. I agree good post

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 04/07/09 07:24 PM
constant comments about how bussy they are. Im sorry but when your interested in someone you always seem to find time even if its stealing time to text "i miss you" in the restroom at work. hmm, that sounded gross but Im sure you understand. or, conversation that is not full and exploritive of who the other is AND who you are. an exchange on one persons part yet no offer of who they are is a huge sign to me that the investment of self is not there so I may be an option. well said

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 04/07/09 07:29 PM
What are some signs that you are someone's option as opposed to being a priority? When the contact drops off when they are on line.. Also when a guy tells me they are going to call and have a lame excuse as to why he didn't. I refuse to be anyones Option

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Tue 04/07/09 07:35 PM
What are some signs that you are someone's option as opposed to being a priority? When the contact drops off when they are on line.. Also when a guy tells me they are going to call and have a lame excuse as to why he didn't. I refuse to be anyones Option me either

JimmyTheGent Joined Wed 03/25/09 Posts: 1111	Tue 04/07/09 07:39 PM
Always busy when I call. Then call me when you have nothing better to do. Piss on that. Dodge me twice and I'm done with you.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Tue 04/07/09 07:43 PM
Always busy when I call. Then call me when you have nothing better to do. Piss on that. Dodge me twice and I'm done with you. yeah on to the next

JimmyTheGent Joined Wed 03/25/09 Posts: 1111	Tue 04/07/09 07:45 PM
Right on, sister!

woodford Joined Fri 03/27/09 Posts: 176	Tue 04/07/09 08:17 PM
most definatly I agree that no one should put themselfs in the position of door mat to another. EVERYONE is unique and special and deserves more than second prize and a thanks for playing hear is your play at home board game.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 04/08/09 04:50 PM
What are some signs that you are someone's option as opposed to being a priority? When the contact drops off when they are on line.. Also when a guy tells me they are going to call and have a lame excuse as to why he didn't. I refuse to be anyones Option

Roweanne Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 437	Wed 04/08/09 05:01 PM
When he tries to avoid being in public with you, then introduces you to a nice-looking lady that he is OBVIOUSLY very friendly with by saying that you're a friend that he helps out once in a while. Talk about a kick in the emotions!!!

Def03 Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 910	Wed 04/08/09 05:03 PM
When he tries to avoid being in public with you, then introduces you to a nice-looking lady that he is OBVIOUSLY very friendly with by saying that you're a friend that he helps out once in a while. Talk about a kick in the emotions!!! Ouch

Roweanne Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 437	Wed 04/08/09 05:06 PM
Yeah, and he wondered after he moved to Florida (from Pittsburgh) why I wouldn't move down there to be with him. Imagine that!

Def03 Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 910	Wed 04/08/09 05:08 PM
Yeah, and he wondered after he moved to Florida (from Pittsburgh) why I wouldn't move down there to be with him. Imagine that! Bravo to you

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 04/08/09 05:14 PM
Yeah, and he wondered after he moved to Florida (from Pittsburgh) why I wouldn't move down there to be with him. Imagine that! someone will love you the way you deserve no one should be an option

Roweanne Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 437	Wed 04/08/09 05:18 PM
Yeah, that's been quite a few years ago, but in context I was reminded. I've definitely moved on.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 04/08/09 05:21 PM
Yeah, that's been quite a few years ago, but in context I was reminded. I've definitely moved on. thats good moving on is a new beginning