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Topic: priority or option
misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:01 AM
:heart: What are some signs that you are someone's option as opposed to being a priority?:heart:

OrangeCat's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:02 AM
they stop talking to you,to talk to someone else,then right back to you when that dont work out.drinker

therapy30's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:03 AM
ignorence, "when no one then you attitude"

misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:04 AM

they stop talking to you,to talk to someone else,then right back to you when that dont work out.drinker
flowerforyou that would be an a sign for sureflowerforyou

OrangeCat's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:05 AM
yep had it happen a few times flowerforyou

how are you tina?flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:06 AM
flowerforyou they are secretive with people about your relationshipflowerforyou

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:06 AM
when they say there gonna call and they don't sick

misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:06 AM

yep had it happen a few times flowerforyou

how are you tina?flowerforyou
I'm doing fineflowerforyou sorry to hear thats happened to youflowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:08 AM

when they say there gonna call and they don't sick
flowerforyou yes that would be a sign that you are not important enough to callflowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:08 AM

Jonaman's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:09 AM
if the person never wants to make plans. they stop by, call, or go out with you only at last minute. it might seem "spontaneous" but there might be something else there

misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:12 AM

if the person never wants to make plans. they stop by, call, or go out with you only at last minute. it might seem "spontaneous" but there might be something else there
flowerforyou good pointflowerforyou welcome to mingleflowerforyou

Jungian101's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:17 AM
when they keep breaking dates that you have planned ahead of time. frustrated

misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:19 AM

when they keep breaking dates that you have planned ahead of time. frustrated
flowerforyou yes that would make me think I was not a priorityflowerforyou

Jungian101's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:22 AM


when they keep breaking dates that you have planned ahead of time. frustrated
flowerforyou yes that would make me think I was not a priorityflowerforyou

Thank you.

When they keep making plans with other people and tell you at the day before. FYI I'm going ------ with ----- on Saturday. frustrated frustrated frustrated

Jungian101's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:23 AM
when they let you know their calendar schedule a whole month ahead of time and all the weekends are full but with out you in it! frustrated

misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:27 AM

when they let you know their calendar schedule a whole month ahead of time and all the weekends are full but with out you in it! frustrated
flowerforyou sounds like you need to make sure you are no longer just an optionflowerforyou

no photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:39 AM
Wow misstina, I feel stupid....I guess I have been ..just someones option too.That would be the case, If I am the only one making an effort,huh?...

Another lesson learned...

Thank Youflowerforyou


misstina2's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:43 AM
Edited by misstina2 on Mon 04/06/09 11:44 AM

Wow misstina, I feel stupid....I guess I have been ..just someones option too.That would be the case, If I am the only one making an effort,huh?...

Another lesson learned...

Thank Youflowerforyou


flowerforyou If this thread helped you I'm gladflowerforyou I've had this happen to meflowerforyou you are not aloneflowerforyou

Jungian101's photo
Mon 04/06/09 11:45 AM
Yep! been there, done that.
Moved on to the center of the stage now. Lots happier!
It's about being appreciated and wanted. :smile:

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