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Topic: priority or option
misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 04/06/09 11:47 AM
Yep! been there, done that. Moved on to the center of the stage now. Lots happier! It's about being appreciated and wanted. thats true I'm glad to hear you are happy

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Mon 04/06/09 12:09 PM
OUCH does this hit home or what? Had just that going on they were my priority I was their option... guess what? I cancelled their options and told them to go scratch..... best thing I could of done. But when you heart rules its hard to wake up and smell the coffee.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 04/06/09 12:19 PM
If someone can't worship me, I have no time for them

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 04/06/09 12:23 PM
OUCH does this hit home or what? Had just that going on they were my priority I was their option... guess what? I cancelled their options and told them to go scratch..... best thing I could of done. But when you heart rules its hard to wake up and smell the coffee. yes and sometimes its hard to tell if you are a priority or option

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 04/06/09 12:24 PM
If someone can't worship me, I have no time for them dam straight Pats

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 04/06/09 12:26 PM
What are some signs that you are someone's option as opposed to being a priority? The way they act

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Mon 04/06/09 12:28 PM
When they don't ask you to rub suntan lotion on their back.........OH!!! Sorry! I was daydreaming!!!

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 04/06/09 12:34 PM Edited by misstina2 on Mon 04/06/09 12:41 PM
When they don't ask you to rub suntan lotion on their back.........OH!!! Sorry! I was daydreaming!!! I've never has someone rub suntan lotion on me might be silly but i'm looking forward to that one day

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 04/06/09 12:36 PM
If someone can't worship me, I have no time for them dam straight Pats

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Mon 04/06/09 12:38 PM
When they don't ask you to rub suntan lotion on their back.........OH!!! Sorry! I was daydreaming!!! I've never has someone rub suntan lotion on me might be silly but i'm looking forward to the oneday I think that.......Oh where does my mind go all the time?!!!! I find it hard to believe that you have never had someone, other than a parent, rub lotion on you!!!! But then yet.....i haven't either!!!! What a sad pair we make, huh?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 04/06/09 12:39 PM
When they don't ask you to rub suntan lotion on their back.........OH!!! Sorry! I was daydreaming!!! I've never has someone rub suntan lotion on me might be silly but i'm looking forward to the oneday

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 04/06/09 12:43 PM
When they don't ask you to rub suntan lotion on their back.........OH!!! Sorry! I was daydreaming!!! I've never has someone rub suntan lotion on me might be silly but i'm looking forward to the oneday I think that.......Oh where does my mind go all the time?!!!! I find it hard to believe that you have never had someone, other than a parent, rub lotion on you!!!! But then yet.....i haven't either!!!! What a sad pair we make, huh? my parents never did either oh well something I'll have appreciation for when that happens i'll admit that I've had offers

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Mon 04/06/09 12:43 PM
I found out I was just an option to a really good friend on Dec 31st. My Dad just passed away and I called to talk to them and of course it was New Years Eve and he would not pick up his phone. He did call me the next day but I am still really ticked off about it. Seriously, he knew that my Dad was very sick and Hospice was called in...I called his phone 4 times, he was a jerk!!!

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Mon 04/06/09 12:46 PM
When they don't ask you to rub suntan lotion on their back.........OH!!! Sorry! I was daydreaming!!! I've never has someone rub suntan lotion on me might be silly but i'm looking forward to the oneday I think that.......Oh where does my mind go all the time?!!!! I find it hard to believe that you have never had someone, other than a parent, rub lotion on you!!!! But then yet.....i haven't either!!!! What a sad pair we make, huh? my parents never did either oh well something I'll have appreciation for when that happens i'll admit that I've had offers One day you will find the "real love" you speak of......and then.......sigh

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 04/06/09 12:54 PM
I found out I was just an option to a really good friend on Dec 31st. My Dad just passed away and I called to talk to them and of course it was New Years Eve and he would not pick up his phone. He did call me the next day but I am still really ticked off about it. Seriously, he knew that my Dad was very sick and Hospice was called in...I called his phone 4 times, he was a jerk!!! sorry for your loss and for your friend not being there for you

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 04/07/09 05:40 AM
I found out I was just an option to a really good friend on Dec 31st. My Dad just passed away and I called to talk to them and of course it was New Years Eve and he would not pick up his phone. He did call me the next day but I am still really ticked off about it. Seriously, he knew that my Dad was very sick and Hospice was called in...I called his phone 4 times, he was a jerk!!! sorry for your loss and for your friend not being there for you

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Tue 04/07/09 07:58 AM


TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Tue 04/07/09 08:01 AM
I tend to be the afterthought

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Tue 04/07/09 08:03 AM
What are some signs that you are someone's option as opposed to being a priority? I don't think that the same signs apply for everyone, as everyone's circumstances are different. With that in mind, if someone says that they will do something and then consistently let you down then you're probably not a priority to them.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Tue 04/07/09 08:29 AM
What are some signs that you are someone's option as opposed to being a priority? I don't think that the same signs apply for everyone, as everyone's circumstances are different. With that in mind, if someone says that they will do something and then consistently let you down then you're probably not a priority to them. true