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|  What are some signs that you are someone's option as opposed to being a priority?   | |
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      they stop talking to you,to talk to someone else,then right back to you when that dont work out.   | |
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      ignorence, "when no one then you attitude"
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| they stop talking to you,to talk to someone else,then right back to you when that dont work out.    that would be an a sign for sure   | |
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      yep had it happen a few times    how are you tina?   | |
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|  they are secretive with people about your relationship   | |
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      when they say there gonna call and they don't    | |
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| yep had it happen a few times   how are you tina?    sorry to hear thats happened to you   | |
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| when they say there gonna call and they don't    yes that would be a sign that you are not important enough to call   | |
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      if the person never wants to make plans. they stop by, call, or go out with you only at last minute. it might seem "spontaneous" but there might be something else there 
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| if the person never wants to make plans. they stop by, call, or go out with you only at last minute. it might seem "spontaneous" but there might be something else there  good point  welcome to mingle   | |
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      when they keep breaking dates that you have planned ahead of time.    | |
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| when they keep breaking dates that you have planned ahead of time.    yes that would make me think I was not a priority   | |
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| when they keep breaking dates that you have planned ahead of time.    yes that would make me think I was not a priority   Thank you. When they keep making plans with other people and tell you at the day before. FYI I'm going ------ with ----- on Saturday.       | |
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      when they let you know their calendar schedule a whole month ahead of time and all the weekends are full but with out you in it!    | |
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| when they let you know their calendar schedule a whole month ahead of time and all the weekends are full but with out you in it!    sounds like you need to make sure you are no longer just an option   | |
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      Wow misstina, I feel stupid....I guess I have been ..just someones option too.That would be the case, If I am the only one making an effort,huh?...
 Another lesson learned... Thank You   | |
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        misstina2
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        Mon 04/06/09 11:44 AM
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| Wow misstina, I feel stupid....I guess I have been ..just someones option too.That would be the case, If I am the only one making an effort,huh?... Another lesson learned... Thank You    If this thread helped you I'm glad  I've had this happen to me  you are not alone   | |
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      Yep! been there, done that. 
 Moved on to the center of the stage now. Lots happier! It's about being appreciated and wanted.   | |
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