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If you had a bad experiance dating or in relationships do you know what to look for in a new one and if so what are your red flags that you know the person is not worth you time...??
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if a womans adam's apple is unusually large....I consider it a red flag
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OOh I think I will sit this one out & observe
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I never learn from my mistakes.
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OOh I think I will sit this one out & observe
me too |
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One thing we don't think of at the bringing of relationships, is the amount of money spent or given. This can be a red flag. Sometimes it isn't obvious. Sometimes it doesn't appear that they are trying to impress or draw you in. They may make it appear like fancy dinners once a weekend and trips are a normal part of their life, when it very much might not be. Beware. Sometimes, the simple things are much better in life.
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Edited by
dawnyhi
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Fri 04/03/09 07:13 AM
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One thing we don't think of at the bringing of relationships, is the amount of money spent or given. This can be a red flag. Sometimes it isn't obvious. Sometimes it doesn't appear that they are trying to impress or draw you in. They may make it appear like fancy dinners once a weekend and trips are a normal part of their life, when it very much might not be. Beware. Sometimes, the simple things are much better in life. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA thank you.... and if they buy women gifts they are doing it alot that is a lure like a preditor would use....at the end they have this big talley of what you owe but manage to take everything you have... even your dignity and make other people think you are the bad one.... this is a BIG one |
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sometimes a gift is an expression of caring about some one...I bring a gift almost every time I see some one... One thing we don't think of at the bringing of relationships, is the amount of money spent or given. This can be a red flag. Sometimes it isn't obvious. Sometimes it doesn't appear that they are trying to impress or draw you in. They may make it appear like fancy dinners once a weekend and trips are a normal part of their life, when it very much might not be. Beware. Sometimes, the simple things are much better in life. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA thank you.... and if they buy women gifts they are doing it alot that is a lure like a preditor would use.... |
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Yes, I know what I really want in a partner and will not settle.
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One thing we don't think of at the bringing of relationships, is the amount of money spent or given. This can be a red flag. Sometimes it isn't obvious. Sometimes it doesn't appear that they are trying to impress or draw you in. They may make it appear like fancy dinners once a weekend and trips are a normal part of their life, when it very much might not be. Beware. Sometimes, the simple things are much better in life. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA thank you.... and if they buy women gifts they are doing it alot that is a lure like a preditor would use....at the end they have this big talley of what you owe but manage to take everything you have... even your dignity and make other people think you are the bad one.... this is a BIG one Yes, it can just be a nice jesture as another poster said. However, if can also be a way for an abuser to lure someone in. It can be one sign of a potentially abusive relationship, if the gifts are in excess and truly beyond one's normal means. |
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I agree with Tanya, grand gestures or overly romantic actions are a huge NO NO.
Other red flags: Children with multiple parents, no marriages. Lots of jobs, no career. Drinking regularly. Vacations are all to casinos. Wishy-washy behavior Talking about prior relationships in any sort of detail. Workaholics or workoutaholics. Jesus or God addicts. More obvious ones tend to be: on parole or house arrest, no driver's license, protection orders, drug addiction, delusional or psychotic, and of course, republican.... 
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talking bad about women... high expectations..... being brutally honest...
true love is someone who helps you build yourself up and you help build them up |
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Oh yea
I always look for that 'ring mark!! Or those private cell phone calls Or that lack of intrest in sex |
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and of course, republican....
Hey! I am still on that republican/democrate fence!  Nothing wrong with some republicans!
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They move FAST a true relationship takes time....at least 6 months....
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and of course, republican....
Hey! I am still on that republican/democrate fence! Nothing wrong with some republicans!
I knew that would get someone's attention.... Ya know how they say the few ruin it for the many? That's my dating experience with republicans. I'm certain they are not all narrow minded judgmental overly religious ignorant men. I'm sure!
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OOh I think I will sit this one out & observe
me too mi tres |
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I agree with Tanya, grand gestures or overly romantic actions are a huge NO NO. Other red flags: Children with multiple parents, no marriages. Lots of jobs, no career. Drinking regularly. Vacations are all to casinos. Wishy-washy behavior Talking about prior relationships in any sort of detail. Workaholics or workoutaholics. Jesus or God addicts. More obvious ones tend to be: on parole or house arrest, no driver's license, protection orders, drug addiction, delusional or psychotic, and of course, republican....
i'm gonna write all that down. 
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and of course, republican....
Hey! I am still on that republican/democrate fence! Nothing wrong with some republicans!
I knew that would get someone's attention.... Ya know how they say the few ruin it for the many? That's my dating experience with republicans. I'm certain they are not all narrow minded judgmental overly religious ignorant men. I'm sure!
Yeah, repub man can be like that!
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I agree with Tanya, grand gestures or overly romantic actions are a huge NO NO. Other red flags: Children with multiple parents, no marriages. Lots of jobs, no career. Drinking regularly. Vacations are all to casinos. Wishy-washy behavior Talking about prior relationships in any sort of detail. Workaholics or workoutaholics. Jesus or God addicts. More obvious ones tend to be: on parole or house arrest, no driver's license, protection orders, drug addiction, delusional or psychotic, and of course, republican....
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