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Topic: Red flags
coz1976 Joined Sun 07/13/08 Posts: 1196	Fri 04/03/09 07:23 AM
and of course, republican.... Hey! I am still on that republican/democrate fence! Nothing wrong with some republicans! I knew that would get someone's attention.... Ya know how they say the few ruin it for the many? That's my dating experience with republicans. I'm certain they are not all narrow minded judgmental overly religious ignorant men. I'm sure! yeah i'm not

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Fri 04/03/09 07:25 AM
and of course, republican.... Hey! I am still on that republican/democrate fence! Nothing wrong with some republicans! I knew that would get someone's attention.... Ya know how they say the few ruin it for the many? That's my dating experience with republicans. I'm certain they are not all narrow minded judgmental overly religious ignorant men. I'm sure! at least when your drowning me let me catch a grasp of air

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 04/03/09 07:26 AM
This is interesting as well as humorous

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Fri 04/03/09 07:27 AM
you guys are cool... be smart... keep it up and if you came out of a bad situation you could use your experiance to learn and help another person... someone will talk bad about another person and use the poor me thing against their ex just to gain trust or make you think you can get them out of their missory and be better than the last one .... these guys jump from woman to woman never satisfied and it is a cycle that they dont break they will find fault in every woman... they will make you feel worthless.....

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Fri 04/03/09 07:27 AM
This is interesting as well as humorous you are

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Fri 04/03/09 07:28 AM
If you had a bad experiance dating or in relationships do you know what to look for in a new one and if so what are your red flags that you know the person is not worth you time...?? I dated this cute girl years back. We went out to a movie that I had to travel 40 minutes to get to. All seemed well. In the time it took me to drive home, she had left me 6 messages. I was really tired so I took a shower and went to sleep. She called and woke me up for work, 3 minutes before my alarm went off!! During the course of the next day, she left me over two dozen messages relaying every little thing she did. It freaked me out so much that I never called her back and rarely answered calls for 2 weeks. I call that a Flaming Red Flag. It's too bad, before the calls, I really liked her.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Fri 04/03/09 07:28 AM
you guys are cool... be smart... keep it up and if you came out of a bad situation you could use your experiance to learn and help another person... someone will talk bad about another person and use the poor me thing against their ex just to gain trust or make you think you can get them out of their missory and be better than the last one .... these guys jump from woman to woman never satisfied and it is a cycle that they dont break they will find fault in every woman... they will make you feel worthless..... And before one the guys jumps in.... yes, there are women that do it too!

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Fri 04/03/09 07:30 AM
Extreme emotions/behaviors of any sort Possessive natures Talking about abuse in a past relationship on their part Moving to fast in a relationship Calling constantly The way they treat others in a relationship/friendship, is a definite indication of how they will eventually treat you! Emotional abuse of any kind Jokingly abusive Emotional outbursts lol...the list goes on and on

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 04/03/09 07:30 AM
Ohhh I left out the gamers. There are two kinds. First, I need to say the problem with gaming is that someone always loses. Second, if you are a MMORPG player, there is a chance you are, well, that you might have issues preventing a healthy relationship. Third, some people game in that they follow unwritten rules, such as not calling until the third day or the sex on the third date... whatever. Then, these SAME folks always bytch and moan and whine and complain that they hate drama and game players.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Fri 04/03/09 07:30 AM
If you had a bad experiance dating or in relationships do you know what to look for in a new one and if so what are your red flags that you know the person is not worth you time...?? I dated this cute girl years back. We went out to a movie that I had to travel 40 minutes to get to. All seemed well. In the time it took me to drive home, she had left me 6 messages. I was really tired so I took a shower and went to sleep. She called and woke me up for work, 3 minutes before my alarm went off!! During the course of the next day, she left me over two dozen messages relaying every little thing she did. It freaked me out so much that I never called her back and rarely answered calls for 2 weeks. I call that a Flaming Red Flag. It's too bad, before the calls, I really liked her. WOW! That's nuts!

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Fri 04/03/09 07:31 AM
you guys are cool... be smart... keep it up and if you came out of a bad situation you could use your experiance to learn and help another person... someone will talk bad about another person and use the poor me thing against their ex just to gain trust or make you think you can get them out of their missory and be better than the last one .... these guys jump from woman to woman never satisfied and it is a cycle that they dont break they will find fault in every woman... they will make you feel worthless..... And before one the guys jumps in.... yes, there are women that do it too! hey now why do you have to be using my lines

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Fri 04/03/09 07:31 AM
Ohhh I left out the gamers. There are two kinds. First, I need to say the problem with gaming is that someone always loses. Second, if you are a MMORPG player, there is a chance you are, well, that you might have issues preventing a healthy relationship. Third, some people game in that they follow unwritten rules, such as not calling until the third day or the sex on the third date... whatever. Then, these SAME folks always bytch and moan and whine and complain that they hate drama and game players. What's MMORPG player?

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Fri 04/03/09 07:33 AM
Ohhh I left out the gamers. There are two kinds. First, I need to say the problem with gaming is that someone always loses. Second, if you are a MMORPG player, there is a chance you are, well, that you might have issues preventing a healthy relationship. Third, some people game in that they follow unwritten rules, such as not calling until the third day or the sex on the third date... whatever. Then, these SAME folks always bytch and moan and whine and complain that they hate drama and game players. Dang it now your giving me a complex can't you use some one else as an example

dawnyhi Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 1543	Fri 04/03/09 07:34 AM
a person who just let an ex go will take out all of the bad stuff in that relationship on you...he or she will expect you to fix them

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 04/03/09 07:34 AM
MMORPG Massive Multiplayer Online Role Playing Game Examples: WoW (World of Warcraft) Everquest (AKA EverCRACK)

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 04/03/09 07:35 AM
Chuck, honestly dear, you haven't been here for awhile and I pick on you all the time.... you just don't see it!

ADiamond Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 2375	Fri 04/03/09 07:37 AM
if a womans adam's apple is unusually large....I consider it a red flag

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Fri 04/03/09 07:38 AM
MMORPG Massive Multiplayer Online Role Playing Game Examples: WoW (World of Warcraft) Everquest (AKA EverCRACK) Ah Yeah! Okay. I agree there!

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Fri 04/03/09 07:38 AM
Chuck, honestly dear, you haven't been here for awhile and I pick on you all the time.... you just don't see it! now I have to spend all dayreading all your post see what you do too me

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Fri 04/03/09 07:39 AM
And before one the guys jumps in.... yes, there are women that do it too! hey now why do you have to be using my lines I guess I am just on the ball today!