good question, and i'm not sure of the answer. i loved each of my
men...well. with a whole heart...but i guess i never again lost
control. my mind ruled my heart, from the point of ben's loss.

even my marriage was dulled, as compared to ben...maybe it burned so
brightly it used it all up?

years later...healed...i wonder. i do believe that every relationship,
romantic and otherwise...they add up in our psyche and influence how we
shall feel about anyone new that we might meet. not necessarily on a
conscious level...but you can't just disregard your past.

I think one can have many true loves through their life.
Now, in THAT or ANY person's mind,,,LOVE is seen very differently, as my
own heart see's LOVE.
But to say only ONE LOVE ever found through life,,,,,:NO", I have felt
LOVE in two women and look forward to finding and falling again to my
THIRD LOVE through life,

Are WE to believe that their is but ONE true soul and HEART that FEELS
the SAME as our own??

Well stirred up feelings I see..except we all have a different feelings
for some reason , it all equals the same, except we derive
differently..just how could we be so sure of ourselves..where does that
certainty lay....a heartache and a pounding heart that calms down after
awhile.., then unceratinty , then love and pounding again..it seems
never ending yet you yearn for the passionate side..the bliss and
sensual hold..and then love ..does this all make sense..where does it
begin and where may it end..maybe a stroll by the sea will clear your
senses..............

“Love is meant to be calm...” I agree Jess, it’s a warm stillness in
the center of our being. I believe it’s always there, we just experience
it to the level we allow it to express itself. That’s why I separated
it from euphoria.


Certainly lulu, experiences to add layers to us and how we respond in
the world depends on how we deal with those layers. And I for one do not
want to disregard my past, there have wonderful learning’s there, pain &
all.

agreed, wholeheartedly.

once you can let go of the pain...and just take the lessons...it's even
better, at least for me. like in my marriage...good and bad...but i'm
carrying forward the positive.

when i was younger, i was all for the roller-coaster...calm couldn't
hold my attention. now...not necessarily calm...but i'm all for
stability.

I'm not sure, I don't know.......

Op we never stop loving and learning about the process.




JMHO

I never stop loving .....besides do you know how many brands of liquor
there are out there?

i have love juice

with each relationship the love is different, for some it runs deeper
then in others. Just once I want to experience a true love before I
depart from this world, not asking for much...I think that is what all
of us want....it's just a matter of finding it or it finds us.

What Jess said

you do know that you may have already?

= guys...

I believe we love several different ways and times in our lives!

Yes we can love more than once in our lives. I believe the true love
kind- is the best friend one...

hello yall 25 yrs and then over ok loves great but it can go sour to

love: chemical reaction in the brain closely related to eating large
portions of chocolate, easily cured by marriage

hehe

i dont believe it , but it sticks in my head.

You sure that isn't just the chocolate sticking in your head?

Hi just2friends,

I like that definition. That reminds me, I'm almost out of Reese's...
:)

SheNerd :)

The love of my life is just that.

I will never love anyone the same way.

It has changed the way I want to love. Without boundaries or
restrictions and without any conditions.

It is perfect.

Love is not limited,I have 2 women and i love them very deeply.
There is nothing i wouldn't do for them.The way i see it i owe them lots
they gave birth to my kids,they take care of my house but most of all
they put up with me

How mant poeple are in the world rightnow? thats how many times I love.
Now if you mean lust, I lust for any beautiful lady that catches my eye.
BUT I release that lust with only one lady at a time, and not with just
a one night stand ro anything like that. It has to be a lady I can
respect and appreciate, as well as lust for.

As far as love, I love every single person on earth.