Ok, go easy on me, I'm new at this. But any suggestions on wording would be appreciated... This is why I am single, I don't know how to talk to men, or flirt, or any of that. Also, my hair is about 3-4 inches longer now, and I wear it either straight or curly. This pic was taken about August. I know I need new pics, just waiting for someone to take them for me. Thanks

Your profile is alright...you tell it like it is, and that's all anyone can ask. You might want to include a picture that shows you rface, but htat's about the only problem that I see. Wait until you start receiving responses before you worry about flirting and all that. You'll either connect with someone, or not! Don't sweat the details.

It looks Mahvelous.. One suggestion though.. If you plan on talking in the forums.. (what are those?).. Eliminate the distance on where someone has to live to send you email, and the age restrictions. You can put that info in your paragraph. On the top right corner of this, and every page, it says "Community". ie... Forums, with different topics to read.. Join in, it's fun, and 100 % calorie free.


Oh, and Welcome to Mingle. Y'all come back now, y'hear?

At least you got pics Thats more than a lot of people

After reading your profile ,I asked myself"What am I doing in California,I should be in Lousiana seeking a real person like this one" GOOD WORK ! ! Its good to know that there are real down to earth women left on this planet

You write, "Only if you'r serious about getting to know me as a person, not as a Friend with Benefits....I would like to have a lasting relationship with someone not afraid of commitment, or of the L word."

I think that sends a message of baggage and bitterness. I'd lose that text.

I would also get a better picture in which you can see how pretty you are.

Thanks everyone. I do have to get some newer pics taken. I did have long hair back in July, but cut it off, now trying to grow it back out. So, it's a bit longer than in the pic, and wildly curly, LOL. Guess that comes from being born and raised in Louisiana. I do have some with the long hair, and will try to get this on this afternoon. As for the getting to know me, and fwb, line, I guess I do have a little bit of reserve, because I've never done the online dating before, lol. How do you tell people not to contact you if that's all they're interested in, nicely? Guess I could replace that line with "I drive a TRUCK,ya skeered"? LOL. Thanks again everyone. I hope to gain bunches of FRIENDS< and maybe find a diamond in the rough.