How do you find the perfect person? People always say..I wish I could find the man/woman of my dreams. Tell ya what I think. The reason we don't is because we arent looking for it. When we go out "looking" for someone were looking at faces, bodies and clothes. The man/woman of our dreams are inside of all of that. 9 out of 10 times you will find a man/woman and they will be attractive on the outside, finding someone attractive on the inside and outside...now thats the hard part.


Live it up,
Billy

Bo Dereck

There is no such thing as a perfect person, whether male or female. We all have faults, it all depends on what you are willing to tolerate that makes it the person for you

Pehaps some are looking for fictional characters

I'm still looking for Mrs. Robinson

Love isn't being with the perfect person Love is seeing an imperfect person perfectly

I'll still take Bo

That is the hardest part

You don't 'find' them -- you happen upon them.

By expanding your network, expanding your independent wings, and looking outside of your fishbowl (geography) you will increase your chances of meeting the right person.

You are right -- there is more to the right person than appearance. Meeting someone while enjoying one of your hobbyies is the best bet! They will stimulate your mind and your pants!

How would I find the perfect person? Hmmmmmmm...let's see now...I wany a guy that....................................................................................................................................wants a gal like me. No pictures...no fantasy...no list....perfection would be a man that likes what he sees when he sees me. A man that likes what he feels when he is near me. A man that has no expectations of an unrealistic notion. A man that I will do the same for.

Kat

To borrow a quote from someone else;
its not about finding the perfect person, its about finding an imperfect person and loving them perfectly

Perfection is a myth, at least in my opinion. And if someone were truly perfect, I'd refuse to date them because the pressure would be too much for me to handle!

I've always thought that when you find the right one, you'll love them because of their faults, not in spite of them, and they'll do the same with you. It's our fallibility as humans that makes us interesting, and makes life less predictable.

So the "perfect" guy for me is going to be FAR from perfect

The perfect girl is in my imagination

don't you just love imaginary lovers

Perfect? *snort* Only in dreams... IMO, we should quit looking for perfection & focus on affection...

Gotcha, I know that "perfect" is as real as the tooth fairy and I am all about that. I commend you for that and your ideals, I do. I just am saying, from the different people I have talked to recently, not really me and my perceptions, that everyone seems to be "looking" for someone and I just think everyone complains that they're "not finding that right thing." And I just think they're looking for the wrong thing. Then when they find that wrong thing and when they find it, 9 times out of 10 they get stuck with that wrong thing because they're attracted to the outside and eventually say, "Well maybe eventually I'll grow on the inside." And down the road they're right where they started. Know what I mean?

And I believe you are DEFINITELY allowed to want that. That is no way wanting something unattainable. Unfortunately guys out there are just so strung up on ideals and unrealistic perspectives because they get stuck in relationships where, as I said people get with them because of attraction and not "whats inside" that a lot of the guys you're looking for are already taken. You'll find one eventually. Trust me!

I think he meant 'perfect' for him. I don't know that anyone buys into the idea of a perfect person.

Thanks for clearing that up for me...Exactly what I meant