Gotcha, I know that "perfect" is as real as the tooth fairy and I am all about that. I commend you for that and your ideals, I do. I just am saying, from the different people I have talked to recently, not really me and my perceptions, that everyone seems to be "looking" for someone and I just think everyone complains that they're "not finding that right thing." And I just think they're looking for the wrong thing. Then when they find that wrong thing and when they find it, 9 times out of 10 they get stuck with that wrong thing because they're attracted to the outside and eventually say, "Well maybe eventually I'll grow on the inside." And down the road they're right where they started. Know what I mean?