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Topic: Ladies (primarily): I need your faminine advise! ! !
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Fri 03/27/09 11:04 PM
I have a friend - a fairly good looking single man. But I cannot explain him How should he behave when women are starring at him - without scaring them away...
I mean, he is often catching the unfamiliar women starring at him in the public places - parks, stores, busses, etc. And he doesn't understand What is he supposed to do:
- node and/or smile back? (in passive inactivity)
- wave at her? (which will embarrass her for sure!)
- treat the stare as an invitation to make a move - approach her
and strike up a conversation...)?
- look back at her and walk away. . .

Im interested in the female opinion, mainly, but guys are also welcome to post their takes on the subject!

Thanx to all of you!

Dragoness's photo
Fri 03/27/09 11:08 PM
Edited by Dragoness on Fri 03/27/09 11:09 PM
If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.

I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them.

coz1976's photo
Fri 03/27/09 11:18 PM
i smile politely and nod if i get that lucky.:smile: doesn't happen much though.ohwell

Adamal29's photo
Fri 03/27/09 11:40 PM

If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.

I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them.
Why would you not want them to read into it any more than that? Isn't that the point of smiling at him? Or are you not single?

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Fri 03/27/09 11:47 PM
Yeah, I know what u mean... But haven't u ever wondered if a stare could result in a LaFS - Love at First Sight? ? ?

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Sat 03/28/09 12:16 AM
Do what all men do.......smile and come over!!!bigsmile

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Sat 03/28/09 12:25 AM

If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.

I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them.


and where do you see them? :tongue: laugh

Dragoness's photo
Sat 03/28/09 12:30 AM


If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.

I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them.
Why would you not want them to read into it any more than that? Isn't that the point of smiling at him? Or are you not single?


I would look even if I was attached, all humans look at other attractive humans, it is nature.

I do not pick a man to date based on his looks. So if I am admiring how handsome he is, I do not think to myself "I need to date him because he is handsome". A polite smile will suffice. I will smile back. If he comes over to talk to me and I like what I hear I may consider him as more than eye candy. Looks do not dictate love at any level.

Dragoness's photo
Sat 03/28/09 12:31 AM


If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.

I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them.


and where do you see them? :tongue: laugh


LOL...all over. Grocery store, Home Depot, parks, dog parks, businesses, on the street, at restaurants....:wink:

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Sat 03/28/09 12:32 AM



If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.

I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them.


and where do you see them? :tongue: laugh


LOL...all over. Grocery store, Home Depot, parks, dog parks, businesses, on the street, at restaurants....:wink:


Ok...guess I need to hang out at those sort of places laugh laugh

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Sat 03/28/09 12:35 AM



If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.

I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them.
Why would you not want them to read into it any more than that? Isn't that the point of smiling at him? Or are you not single?


I would look even if I was attached, all humans look at other attractive humans, it is nature.

I do not pick a man to date based on his looks. So if I am admiring how handsome he is, I do not think to myself "I need to date him because he is handsome". A polite smile will suffice. I will smile back. If he comes over to talk to me and I like what I hear I may consider him as more than eye candy. Looks do not dictate love at any level.
But still, it's that initial good looks followed by the smile that would start it off. If a 700 pound woman smiled at me, and thought I was staring at her (and probably am because of her enormous size), I don't care how sweet she is ...then I hope see doesn't read any more into it. But that is off subject. Sorry.

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Sat 03/28/09 12:39 AM
If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies.......noway laugh noway

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Sat 03/28/09 12:41 AM

If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies.......noway laugh noway


WOW I want some of that drool

rofl rofl rofl

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Sat 03/28/09 12:47 AM


If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies.......noway laugh noway


WOW I want some of that drool

rofl rofl rofl
I will show you how..........for $19.99 plus tax!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh

Dragoness's photo
Sat 03/28/09 12:50 AM




If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.

I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them.
Why would you not want them to read into it any more than that? Isn't that the point of smiling at him? Or are you not single?


I would look even if I was attached, all humans look at other attractive humans, it is nature.

I do not pick a man to date based on his looks. So if I am admiring how handsome he is, I do not think to myself "I need to date him because he is handsome". A polite smile will suffice. I will smile back. If he comes over to talk to me and I like what I hear I may consider him as more than eye candy. Looks do not dictate love at any level.
But still, it's that initial good looks followed by the smile that would start it off. If a 700 pound woman smiled at me, and thought I was staring at her (and probably am because of her enormous size), I don't care how sweet she is ...then I hope see doesn't read any more into it. But that is off subject. Sorry.


If a 700 lb man is capable of being in public which would be rare and he looked me and came over to talk I would definitely talk to him. He would not be consumed by his looks which makes for better conversation.

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Sat 03/28/09 12:59 AM



If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies.......noway laugh noway


WOW I want some of that drool

rofl rofl rofl
I will show you how..........for $19.99 plus tax!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh


Do you take credit????? laugh laugh laugh

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/28/09 01:04 AM
surprised

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Sat 03/28/09 08:23 PM

I would look even if I was attached, all humans look at other attractive humans, it is nature.

I do not pick a man to date based on his looks. So if I am admiring how handsome he is, I do not think to myself "I need to date him because he is handsome". A polite smile will suffice. I will smile back.
--> If he comes over to talk to me and I like what I hear I may consider him as more than eye candy.

Then you confirm that a stare should be treated as an invitation?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 03/28/09 08:53 PM

If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies.......noway laugh noway


But anything less than 3 seconds is considered nothing more than a glance.

I'm lucky to even get two seconds.

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Sat 03/28/09 08:53 PM
I would think that if he smiles at the woman, and she smiles back, there would be no harm in approaching her and saying hello. However, it's not a given that it's an invitation. I think every situation is different.

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