Topic: Ladies (primarily): I need your faminine advise! ! ! | |
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I have a friend - a fairly good looking single man. But I cannot explain him How should he behave when women are starring at him - without scaring them away...
I mean, he is often catching the unfamiliar women starring at him in the public places - parks, stores, busses, etc. And he doesn't understand What is he supposed to do: - node and/or smile back? (in passive inactivity) - wave at her? (which will embarrass her for sure!) - treat the stare as an invitation to make a move - approach her and strike up a conversation...)? - look back at her and walk away. . . Im interested in the female opinion, mainly, but guys are also welcome to post their takes on the subject! Thanx to all of you! |
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Edited by
Dragoness
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Fri 03/27/09 11:09 PM
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If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it.
I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them. |
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i smile politely and nod if i get that lucky. doesn't happen much though.
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If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it. I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them. |
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Yeah, I know what u mean... But haven't u ever wondered if a stare could result in a LaFS - Love at First Sight? ? ?
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Do what all men do.......smile and come over!!!
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If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it. I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them. and where do you see them? |
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If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it. I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them. I would look even if I was attached, all humans look at other attractive humans, it is nature. I do not pick a man to date based on his looks. So if I am admiring how handsome he is, I do not think to myself "I need to date him because he is handsome". A polite smile will suffice. I will smile back. If he comes over to talk to me and I like what I hear I may consider him as more than eye candy. Looks do not dictate love at any level. |
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If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it. I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them. and where do you see them? LOL...all over. Grocery store, Home Depot, parks, dog parks, businesses, on the street, at restaurants.... |
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If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it. I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them. and where do you see them? LOL...all over. Grocery store, Home Depot, parks, dog parks, businesses, on the street, at restaurants.... Ok...guess I need to hang out at those sort of places |
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If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it. I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them. I would look even if I was attached, all humans look at other attractive humans, it is nature. I do not pick a man to date based on his looks. So if I am admiring how handsome he is, I do not think to myself "I need to date him because he is handsome". A polite smile will suffice. I will smile back. If he comes over to talk to me and I like what I hear I may consider him as more than eye candy. Looks do not dictate love at any level. |
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If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies.......
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If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies....... WOW I want some of that |
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If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies....... WOW I want some of that |
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If a man is very attractive and I am looking at him and he catches me doing it, a smile back is always nice. I would not want him to read any more than that into it. I look at attractive men all the time but that doesn't mean I want them. I would look even if I was attached, all humans look at other attractive humans, it is nature. I do not pick a man to date based on his looks. So if I am admiring how handsome he is, I do not think to myself "I need to date him because he is handsome". A polite smile will suffice. I will smile back. If he comes over to talk to me and I like what I hear I may consider him as more than eye candy. Looks do not dictate love at any level. If a 700 lb man is capable of being in public which would be rare and he looked me and came over to talk I would definitely talk to him. He would not be consumed by his looks which makes for better conversation. |
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If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies....... WOW I want some of that Do you take credit????? |
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I would look even if I was attached, all humans look at other attractive humans, it is nature. I do not pick a man to date based on his looks. So if I am admiring how handsome he is, I do not think to myself "I need to date him because he is handsome". A polite smile will suffice. I will smile back. --> If he comes over to talk to me and I like what I hear I may consider him as more than eye candy. Then you confirm that a stare should be treated as an invitation? |
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If you look at a guy for more than 4 seconds they come running like puppies....... But anything less than 3 seconds is considered nothing more than a glance. I'm lucky to even get two seconds. |
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I would think that if he smiles at the woman, and she smiles back, there would be no harm in approaching her and saying hello. However, it's not a given that it's an invitation. I think every situation is different.
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