Go out with a "hidden psycho" of an Ex... you will appreciate being alone for a while. (Hidden Psycho = Someone who is calm and collective until the whole attachment thing comes into the picture and they go ape sh*t on you.)

Nah dude on a more serious note... when it comes to Ex's just ask yourself something... and ONLY ask it once... "Is it even possible to be as happy as you were before? Even then... is that "all" you want?" In surfer lingo... once the wave crashes and you have to swim out into the ocean again... the longer you keep wishing for that previous wave... the longer till you will get a new one.

Basically... life finds a way dude... however it is your job to make sure you haven't put anything in the way or have anything keeping you from moving forward.

Don’t worry about getting a date; if you try too hard they will think you’re too needy. Worse thing is if you jump in too soon and don’t think things thru you will only get hurt. You just need a hobby that keeps you busy and your mind off of women. When you are totally confident and at one with yourself you will become more attractive to women. That’s what they want, a self assured man with just a bit of the bad boy that peeks thru every once in a while.

Seriously my opinion is you need to get over the ex first before you consider bringing someone else into your life. If in fact you feel that you are over the ex honestly you would not make a post making the statement you want to meet other women but more or less if you don't there is a possible chance you may go back to the ex.

Maybe you did not mean for it to come across that way but that is how I see it. Total turn off if there is still a possibility they are thinking of going back to their ex. Just shows me they are not ready to move on, make sure you deal with your feelings there first then move on. JMO

It's true about being your own best friend. There is no game to play, mainly because you don't strike me as a game player.

I'll give you one peice of advice. Post a picture from a time when you were smiling. That's make a difference. Of course I'm not smiling in mine. But your frown makes ya look a little scary.

Enjoy yourself and enjoy others. I'm having a hard time allowing myself to get serious about someone. So I keep shutting 'em down. They aren't doing anything wrong. I just want to be sure about what I want and to make sure I'm with someone who cares as much for what I want for my life as he does for what he want s for his.

We'll see how far that goes. The closest I've gotten to a man like that came in a 23 year old package. Mmm. Not exactly fair play from God and the universe there.

Smile and flash your Amex Black Card . . . you'll get dates.



Or you could just be yourself and have a cute horse.



Bry

Heheheh heck give me the horse.........