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I also know that you cannot find something worthwhile when you are not looking.
I disagree with this. Saying that you cannot find something worthwhile when you aren't looking isn't true at all. Many people, in the process of looking, wind up coming off as desperate or unhappy with their lot in life. It's when you accept who and what you are, even if that means accepting the fact that you are going to be single for a while, that you will come across that one person that you feel is " worthwhile ". If you aren't happy with who you are, and you actively seek out someone, chances are you won't be happy with what you sought out for an extended period of time. it's only when you are happy with yourself, that the worthwhile comes along and makes your life that much better. |
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I also know that you cannot find something worthwhile when you are not looking.
I disagree with this. Saying that you cannot find something worthwhile when you aren't looking isn't true at all. Many people, in the process of looking, wind up coming off as desperate or unhappy with their lot in life. It's when you accept who and what you are, even if that means accepting the fact that you are going to be single for a while, that you will come across that one person that you feel is " worthwhile ". If you aren't happy with who you are, and you actively seek out someone, chances are you won't be happy with what you sought out for an extended period of time. it's only when you are happy with yourself, that the worthwhile comes along and makes your life that much better. Your point is understood.... but if you ARE happy with yourself, know what you want, and put your best foot forward you can LOOK as opposed to being FOUND. I havve come to learn that being FOUND has proven in my life to be my biggest mistakes. I have decided to grab the bulls by the horns and take control of that. |
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Yep...and take it easy on us girly men shorty...hehehehehehe I know, you are only six one...you can't help it that you are short honey. heheheheheehehehe haaaaaaaaah! you got jokes!!! a girlie man is under 5'8" and less that 150 lbs the same ones that hit on me and want me to dominate them... usually more like 5"3-5'6" ~ at one time, it was amusing... now - not so much - it's played. simmer down their, soldier you only have an inch on me! lol You could stack them..... soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo twisted!!!!! that is wrong on so many levels! LMAO!!!! |
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Both Baby.....both.... so then my response would have to be ~ awwww shucks... and WHACK! Right upside the head... lol |
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You do realize that this will all work out if you and I make out like horny teenagers......(Pretty sure that was on Doctor Phil so we should probably go with it)
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You do realize that this will all work out if you and I make out like horny teenagers......(Pretty sure that was on Doctor Phil so we should probably go with it) That was Dr. Ruth!!! |
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Wait a second! Mirror..you got friends? hehehehehehe...I had to do it bro. |
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What if a person is married and on the dating site? I will not even acknowledge that with a response. What if they are just on here for friendship? Yep, this is a social site and a dating site. No! It can't be?! Yes, it's true. Here's a tissue. I'm one of them. |
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Wait a second! Mirror..you got friends? hehehehehehe...I had to do it bro. Mirror has many friends. |
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Wait a second! Mirror..you got friends? hehehehehehe...I had to do it bro. Mirror has many friends. Yeah....wink wink...that is true! (We gotta keep him humble baby) |
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Wait a second! Mirror..you got friends? hehehehehehe...I had to do it bro. Mirror has many friends. Yeah....wink wink...that is true! (We gotta keep him humble baby) |
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Wait a second! Mirror..you got friends? hehehehehehe...I had to do it bro. Mirror has many friends. |
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