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Topic: There's no room for doubt?
tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 03/22/09 07:46 AM
Honesty is so very important! Without it you leave room for doubt! With that a relationship whatever kind can't grow! So be honest! Very true OP! Sorry for the children's posts, I hope that didn't scare you off of the forums!

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sun 03/22/09 07:47 AM
Yes, I apologize for the brutal honesty that you were asking about.

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Sun 03/22/09 07:50 AM
OK, how did a nice little post about honesty turn into the battle of sexes?

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Sun 03/22/09 07:51 AM
OK, how did a nice little post about honesty turn into the battle of sexes? lol...it's just one of those days whisper

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sun 03/22/09 07:53 AM
Honesty is so very important! Without it you leave room for doubt! With that a relationship whatever kind can't grow! So be honest! Very true OP! Sorry for the children's posts, I hope that didn't scare you off of the forums! So people that disagree or have their own opinions and say something that strikes a nerve are children?

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 03/22/09 07:57 AM
Let's see.... Women wear makeup to make themselves appear prettier than they really are. Women wear high heeled shoes to make themselves appear taller than they really are. Women wear push-up bras to make their tits appear bigger than they really are. But they want an "honest man". Ironic, ain't it? I DON'T!!! See???? No makeup and I didn't lie about my height and the boobs.... well, WYSIWYG!!! I think sometimes people THINK they are being truthful, but tend to rephrase and adjust truths when they see someone they want. I don't think they always mean to do it. Some are just players outright, but there are a lot of lost hurt lonesome people. One thing I learned lately is to NOT ANSWER a man when he asks, "What are you looking for in a man?". That is a clue that they will try to be Gumby for me.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sun 03/22/09 07:59 AM
One thing I learned lately is to NOT ANSWER a man when he asks, "What are you looking for in a man?". That is a clue that they will try to be Gumby for me. Yes, most women prefer their man to be Pokey.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 03/22/09 08:01 AM
One thing I learned lately is to NOT ANSWER a man when he asks, "What are you looking for in a man?". That is a clue that they will try to be Gumby for me. Yes, most women prefer their man to be Pokey. TRUE THAT!!!!! But not octopokey and not right away for this gal!!!

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 03/22/09 08:04 AM
Honesty is so very important! Without it you leave room for doubt! With that a relationship whatever kind can't grow! So be honest! Very true OP! Sorry for the children's posts, I hope that didn't scare you off of the forums! So people that disagree or have their own opinions and say something that strikes a nerve are children? I was joking. And oh how often us seasoned posters forget how we appear to newbies.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 03/22/09 08:05 AM
Let's see.... Women wear makeup to make themselves appear prettier than they really are. Women wear high heeled shoes to make themselves appear taller than they really are. Women wear push-up bras to make their tits appear bigger than they really are. But they want an "honest man". Ironic, ain't it? I DON'T!!! See???? No makeup and I didn't lie about my height and the boobs.... well, WYSIWYG!!! I think sometimes people THINK they are being truthful, but tend to rephrase and adjust truths when they see someone they want. I don't think they always mean to do it. Some are just players outright, but there are a lot of lost hurt lonesome people. One thing I learned lately is to NOT ANSWER a man when he asks, "What are you looking for in a man?". That is a clue that they will try to be Gumby for me. I just say, 'tingles' that way Im honest and they cant turn it into what you suggest. ..oh, and i think the aforementioned comment was a generalisation, so Im sure the poster knows that there are women who do not do those things. Since I don't date women, I wouldn't know their strategies at that level.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Sun 03/22/09 08:07 AM
not touching this with a ten foot pole.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sun 03/22/09 08:09 AM
I wear makeup, not much, but I do wear it. However, I don't wear it to make myself pretty or to hide my face. Rather, I wear it to enhance what I already have. I wear high heels. Not to make myself taller, but rather I like the way that I walk when I wear them. It's definitely a more feminine walk than when I wear my Sketchers. When he wakes next to me in the morning, he gets to see what I look like. There's no deception.

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Sun 03/22/09 08:11 AM
Makeup and wearing high heel shoes are a very far stretch in the realm of being dishonest. Some people just like to look nice. I'm calling BS on your BS.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sun 03/22/09 08:12 AM
Let's see.... Women wear makeup to make themselves appear prettier than they really are. Women wear high heeled shoes to make themselves appear taller than they really are. Women wear push-up bras to make their tits appear bigger than they really are. But they want an "honest man". Ironic, ain't it? ahhh...but isn't that what we like ? I know I do...

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sun 03/22/09 08:12 AM Edited by Unknow on Sun 03/22/09 08:12 AM
The truth of the matter is that honesty often doesn't matter. Any time I start talking with a potential date I tell them I'm short, poor, quirky, and cranky as hell. I go out of my way to hit them with reality and most prefer to ignore it. They make up their own version of me in their fantasy addled brains.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 03/22/09 08:13 AM
I wear makeup, not much, but I do wear it. However, I don't wear it to make myself pretty or to hide my face. Rather, I wear it to enhance what I already have. I wear high heels. Not to make myself taller, but rather I like the way that I walk when I wear them. It's definitely a more feminine walk than when I wear my Sketchers. When he wakes next to me in the morning, he gets to see what I look like. There's no deception. Wow, I so do not miss wearing heels like I used to have to as "Suzy Banker". And I've had so many mishaps while wearing them, it sure wasn't always "sexy"!!! You'd have to have been there to see those mishaps. And, I remember having to stand in them for too long and wishing I could yank them off due to discomfort. I envy women who can do it. Gosh, I remember a paif of stilettos my husband bought me to wear to his Christmas party. OMG!!! Talk about an ankle waiting to break!! Yeah, that was for him, not me.

KimmiM Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 1694	Sun 03/22/09 08:14 AM
The truth of the matter is that honesty often doesn't matter. Any time I start talking with a potential date I tell them I'm short, poor, quirky, and cranky as hell. I go out of my way to hit them with reality and most prefer to ignore it. They make up their own version of me in their fantasy addled brains. Mmmm I have a fantasy about you Loo...

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Sun 03/22/09 08:14 AM
The truth of the matter is that honesty often doesn't matter. Any time I start talking with a potential date I tell them I'm short, poor, quirky, and cranky as hell. I go out of my way to hit them with reality and most prefer to ignore it. They make up their own version of me in their fantasy addled brains. I've had that happen to me too Mitch. "NOOOOOOOOOOO, you're not fat." Ummmmmm,yes, I am! I don't get that.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sun 03/22/09 08:17 AM
The truth of the matter is that honesty often doesn't matter. Any time I start talking with a potential date I tell them I'm short, poor, quirky, and cranky as hell. I go out of my way to hit them with reality and most prefer to ignore it. They make up their own version of me in their fantasy addled brains. Word.

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Sun 03/22/09 08:24 AM
I usually keep my makeup artist on standby for a date. That way she can transform me into a totally different face in just a few minutes. When I wash it off I can barely recognize myself.