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Topic: Apology not accepted.
Dragoness's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:48 PM

I watched Obama on Leno. I never watch Leno. I never even caught his comment. Guess it didn't occur to me he said something wrong. I did hear it...but I knew what he was saying. Has anyone here never used words that maybe you had wished you hadn't used? Good lord. I still hear the word "retarded used frequently"(and that repulses me to hear) by many that will jump on that one comment.

He did apologize for speaking without thinking.

I do it all the time. Put my foot in my mouth, I mean.

Kat



Like I said he had the grace to apologize if it offended anyone because he is a good man and doesn't want to be flip about anything.

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:52 PM
dragoness....i do agre with you....but playing devil's advocate for a second....an i'm sorry coming from a politians....doe sit mean much? could they be only saying sorry to keep up appearances?

again....devil's advocate only

he did a BIG oops when he said that....but i don't think he meant to be offensive....just came out wrong.

a case of the mouth moving faster than the brain....my brain is tired of catching up personally lol

Dragoness's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:59 PM

dragoness....i do agre with you....but playing devil's advocate for a second....an i'm sorry coming from a politians....doe sit mean much? could they be only saying sorry to keep up appearances?

again....devil's advocate only

he did a BIG oops when he said that....but i don't think he meant to be offensive....just came out wrong.

a case of the mouth moving faster than the brain....my brain is tired of catching up personally lol


I haven't seen yet one thing that gives me reason to believe he is being deliberately flip. When I see it then I will consider it.

I think it was great he agreed to appear on an everday show like he is one of us. He is being attainable and transparent like he said he would be.

If this is all they have to complain about we are doing good.


yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/20/09 10:03 PM


dragoness....i do agre with you....but playing devil's advocate for a second....an i'm sorry coming from a politians....doe sit mean much? could they be only saying sorry to keep up appearances?

again....devil's advocate only

he did a BIG oops when he said that....but i don't think he meant to be offensive....just came out wrong.

a case of the mouth moving faster than the brain....my brain is tired of catching up personally lol


I haven't seen yet one thing that gives me reason to believe he is being deliberately flip. When I see it then I will consider it.

I think it was great he agreed to appear on an everday show like he is one of us. He is being attainable and transparent like he said he would be.

If this is all they have to complain about we are doing good.




no....i don't think he was being flip either. i'm trying to say what others might say. it's just something i think about no matter who is in the office. i think about it with all politicans

Dragoness's photo
Fri 03/20/09 10:08 PM



dragoness....i do agre with you....but playing devil's advocate for a second....an i'm sorry coming from a politians....doe sit mean much? could they be only saying sorry to keep up appearances?

again....devil's advocate only

he did a BIG oops when he said that....but i don't think he meant to be offensive....just came out wrong.

a case of the mouth moving faster than the brain....my brain is tired of catching up personally lol


I haven't seen yet one thing that gives me reason to believe he is being deliberately flip. When I see it then I will consider it.

I think it was great he agreed to appear on an everday show like he is one of us. He is being attainable and transparent like he said he would be.

If this is all they have to complain about we are doing good.




no....i don't think he was being flip either. i'm trying to say what others might say. it's just something i think about no matter who is in the office. i think about it with all politicans


I do not generalize if I can help it so I try to give the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise. Like with Bush, I did not like him, did not vote for him but I gave him a chance to prove himself. he proved to be a sneaky, power hungry, inconsiderate to those unlike himself, waste of a good presidency who has taken this country to another level of low. But I gave him the benefit of the doubt at first.


yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/20/09 10:09 PM
i didn't vote for obama....but i don't want him to fail in his job either. i don't think he meant to insult people. it was an oops. brain fart if you will....and i have MANY of those.

Dragoness's photo
Fri 03/20/09 10:13 PM

i didn't vote for obama....but i don't want him to fail in his job either. i don't think he meant to insult people. it was an oops. brain fart if you will....and i have MANY of those.


Yea. Considering what Obama is up against it is amazing he hasn't pulled all his hair out and started mumbling to himself...lol He has a big big mess to try to straighten out.

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/20/09 10:14 PM
pfft....i'm on pain meds right now....so i'm not even thinking straight lol

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Fri 03/20/09 10:19 PM
I heard it the way he meant it. He was saying he was so bad he needed help. That he probably looked ridiculous doing it. So he compared it to special olympics people needing help. As opposed to people who actually know how to bowl. I am one of those special needs people. I need special attention when bowling. I need taught how to hold the ball to how to throw it...to not falling on my ass. My 2 year old grandson bowled better than me!

I still say I heard nothing to make me feel he was at all being ill willed. Just human.

Crap...everytime they show that shot of Bush hacking a lugee(how do you spell that)? it makes me sick. I can't stand to see people spit. Eeeeuuuuwwwwwww...


This is just one little thing being made into something it is not.

I am glad it wasn't me that said it...I would probably still be walking around ignorant of the fact I had said a "no no".

I didn't even realize it was a big deal til this morning when I was watching the news. I was like "what???"

Kat

Kat

nogames39's photo
Sat 03/21/09 11:00 AM
Here is the thing, yes, I wish to put this guy down as incredibly dishonest and rude, inconsiderate person.

But, should I lower myself to do that? Not over my honor.

He said he felt like in special olympics. So what? I have said that before myself! It is normal for humans to reprimand ourself softly by saying we did very bad, and comparatively that we did as stupid do.

Unfortunately, I can not use this to show Obama as bad. This is nothing. This is made to be an elephant, when it is really a fly.

Get real already.

no photo
Sat 03/21/09 11:03 AM
for many years I was a coach for a special olympics team. I dig those kids

I didnt hear the comment he made but it's kinda rude and demeaning. but at the same time there are soooo many people looking for the slightest thing to pounce upon to bash Obama. Just like they did Bush a couple years ago. same story different chorus

in the end its not a big thing and the sky really isnt falling

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Sat 03/21/09 11:10 AM
Agree. I can totally understand you working with those kids, and loving them for how much they do and desire.

I just don't see this connected to anything. I am sure Obama did not held an image of an actual kid in special school, when he said that.

We say things like that all they long. "I am retarded today"...""I feel dumb" ...."I can't remember, isn't it too early for Alzheimer?"....

You really think bad of retarded people? Or those born with a weak brain? Or those sick? Of course not!

These things mean nothing, but that one is disappointed with himself.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/21/09 11:15 AM

for many years I was a coach for a special olympics team. I dig those kids

I didnt hear the comment he made but it's kinda rude and demeaning. but at the same time there are soooo many people looking for the slightest thing to pounce upon to bash Obama. Just like they did Bush a couple years ago. same story different chorus

in the end its not a big thing and the sky really isnt falling


very true....it was nothing more than the mouth before the brain.....we have all had those moments. and it's easier to see the people doing it on TV...but it happens to everyone.

it is same story different chorus....it happens....it was an oops

Lionfish's photo
Sat 03/21/09 11:23 AM
It was in poor taste and he admitted as much himself.

Let's now sit and sweat over this for a month, because it's not like the economy isn't booming and all isn't well.

no photo
Sat 03/21/09 04:08 PM

Here is the thing, yes, I wish to put this guy down as incredibly dishonest and rude, inconsiderate person.

But, should I lower myself to do that? Not over my honor.

He said he felt like in special olympics. So what? I have said that before myself! It is normal for humans to reprimand ourself softly by saying we did very bad, and comparatively that we did as stupid do.

Unfortunately, I can not use this to show Obama as bad. This is nothing. This is made to be an elephant, when it is really a fly.

Get real already.


I can only speak for myself here, but I don't believe I said he was a "bad" person. So yeah, let's get real. It was in poor taste, and as it may be nothing to you, it was "something" to other folks.


talldub's photo
Sat 03/21/09 04:50 PM

bad bowler or not....anyone that has been around special olympics don't think it's funny AT ALL.

it's insulting them. they are very proud of their achievements

Actually, I think it's a funny thing to say. I volunteer with Downs Syndrome people and my younger brother competed in the Special Olympics when it was held in Ireland. One of Ireland's top comedians does huge amounts of work with Downs Syndrome kids and he used it in a sketch. The media got up in arms about it so he invited the society along to see his routine, they issued a statement the next day to say that it wasn't offensive. People make fun of things all the time, it's how we deal with life. Mentioning something isn't necessarily a big attack on it. It's like a phrase that I use "I'm sweating like a paedophile in a Barney suit". Do I find paedophiles funny? No. But the image itself is.

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