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Do you consider yourself a giver? or a taker? in relationships, in life ..
Which one rocks your world? 
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Hiya Fade and Good morning!
I am definitely a giver - always have been and always will. I enjoy doing for others and seeing others happy. |
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I've always found that the better the relationship, the more I will give. Once the relationship starts to sour, the desire to please declines.
Although we all want nice things done for us as well, I've always found it difficult to accept, and feel sort of embarassed about taking. That, however, doesn't mean that the partner shouldn't at least make an attempt, so at least the other can sense their effort. |
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Hiya Fade and Good morning! I am definitely a giver - always have been and always will. I enjoy doing for others and seeing others happy. Hey Meg .. I hear one of our bad girls if off suspension too .. lol Where the heck IS that thread? (you'd think I'd keep track, heck I created it  )
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Hiya Fade and Good morning! I am definitely a giver - always have been and always will. I enjoy doing for others and seeing others happy. Hey Meg .. I hear one of our bad girls if off suspension too .. lol Where the heck IS that thread? (you'd think I'd keep track, heck I created it )
I am glad she is out of the "pokey"...lol. I have been looking for it also, I wanna bounce! |
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Both giving does wonders!!! I love your picture! 
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Thank you! You are very photogenic yourself
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I've always found that the better the relationship, the more I will give. Once the relationship starts to sour, the desire to please declines. Although we all want nice things done for us as well, I've always found it difficult to accept, and feel sort of embarassed about taking. That, however, doesn't mean that the partner shouldn't at least make an attempt, so at least the other can sense their effort. Great on both points Lisa. It's funny .. maybe being a mom of 5 and always in giving mode, causes me to think that way regularly. I too have trouble 'taking' but my kids have been so incredibly generous to me in their love and kind actions that I've really grown to enjoy their devotion. With a relationship, I usually don't think about taking, just want to please. 
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Both giving does wonders!!! I love your picture!
Who's picture sweets .. |
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I am totally a giver. I love to see peoples faces when I make their day by doing something extra special for them without them knowing I was going to do it.
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I am totally a giver. I love to see peoples faces when I make their day by doing something extra special for them without them knowing I was going to do it. that's very sweet .. and I'm sure appreciated eh? |
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I've always found that the better the relationship, the more I will give. Once the relationship starts to sour, the desire to please declines. Although we all want nice things done for us as well, I've always found it difficult to accept, and feel sort of embarassed about taking. That, however, doesn't mean that the partner shouldn't at least make an attempt, so at least the other can sense their effort. I can agree with this, with one exception.. If I sense the relationship going sour,I want to know why? Did I do all I could to make it work?After that, I guess you know the end is near.And then as it's stated "the desire to please declines" |
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I am totally a giver. I love to see peoples faces when I make their day by doing something extra special for them without them knowing I was going to do it. Ok my mind went south 
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i give and take equally...i believe in equality
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I'd like to think I'm a giver. But I think I it's a bit imbalanced for me. Taking a little could probably do some good
♥Pathos♥ |
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I've always found that the better the relationship, the more I will give. Once the relationship starts to sour, the desire to please declines. Although we all want nice things done for us as well, I've always found it difficult to accept, and feel sort of embarassed about taking. That, however, doesn't mean that the partner shouldn't at least make an attempt, so at least the other can sense their effort. I agree with this completely. |
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I think the losing interest to 'bless' definitely comes with the feelings barometer ..
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being a Cancer I would have to say a giver. Not material eather. It comes from the soul, and the heart. not the wallet
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being a Cancer I would have to say a giver. Not material eather. It comes from the soul, and the heart. not the wallet Best way to give for sure .. |
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My mother has always said that if you can't give something of yourself, strait from your hear and cheerfully, don't give it at all.
I agree, she is very wise. |
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