Topic: Suddenly not interested?
MahanMahan's photo
Wed 03/18/09 06:15 AM
Edited by MahanMahan on Wed 03/18/09 06:15 AM
Like the Portuguese say; "Such is life!"

It's happened to me too. Just move on... No need to dwell on it.


MahanMahan's photo
Wed 03/18/09 06:19 AM

carebear19622's photo
Wed 03/18/09 06:22 AM
happens to me every time grumble

Cooleststud's photo
Wed 03/18/09 06:24 AM
Edited by Cooleststud on Wed 03/18/09 06:26 AM

That's my problem, I hold alot from my past relationships to the next


Its hard not to. If you keep getting cheated on you dont automatically trust the next person.

Its a fuc.ked up world that loves to fuc.k over the good guys and keep the assholes and bit.ches happy.

MahanMahan's photo
Wed 03/18/09 06:30 AM
Yep. Totally feel you on that one. Been cheated on before, and you're right, it makes it a real challenge to be cool and trusting with the next person. But.... you just gotta... as I learned the hard way.

Here's a picture of my last girlfriend, I used to tie her up in the backyard or in the closet when I'd go to work... Somehow after about a month she escaped and I haven't seen her since.

So I've decided that in my next relationship, I'm going to be totally trusting again, and see how that goes!


Cooleststud's photo
Wed 03/18/09 06:34 AM
Thats funny, it made me laugh for a minute.

prisoner's photo
Wed 03/18/09 06:42 AM
:smile: welcome to The Brave New World technology has caused us to give up our INDIVIDUALITY,it has also caused us to become more anti-social than anytime in history be seeing you

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:13 AM

I do say **** it. I just wish that I could find someone........


Truthfully when a person is looking the hardest you will get zero results. Relax let things flow naturally, when you least expect it is when it will happen.

BL4766's photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:31 AM
yes, ive had this happen.............
REALLY SUCKS.........its ONLY RIGHT that the a person be REAL enough to SAY to you whats goin on....Its NOT RIGHT to just leave someone "hanging", not knowing what the hell just happened!!!! they CLAIM to be REAL, true, & all that crap......yet they pull one of the LOWEST things possible ever, on you.............if someone loses interest, or whatever..........BE GROWN ENOUGH TO SAY SO!!!!!! it IS HARD, especially if you've grown very fond of them, to GO ON.......but in the end..........ITS THEIR LOSS!!!! we can only HOPE that someone THEY REALLY LIKE does the SAME DAMN THING back to them.......see how THEY like it!!!flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:59 AM
Just move on.. You will find the right one.. If not try to have some fun in between.. god bless

Duffy's photo
Wed 03/18/09 08:22 PM
rare email from a woman u love> consider urself lucky she isn't packing ur brat.
hi romee howz things?:wink:

romee's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:53 PM
LOL i'm pretty good duffy how about you.:smile:

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:03 PM
"POOF"! I am farticus!

no photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:06 PM

Stud,

Have had this happen. No way to know exactly why they pulled away but I never chase. If they are interested, they know how to find you. If not, their loss, right. It is confusing though but I'm new at this too.laugh


exactly...well put! :smile:

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:07 PM


I do say **** it. I just wish that I could find someone........


Truthfully when a person is looking the hardest you will get zero results. Relax let things flow naturally, when you least expect it is when it will happen.


YOu know, to tell you the truth, sometimes when I get someone just showing a lot of interest, talking about stuff way beyond dating and planning to far ahead and I feel I've been kinda pushed to say yes or no, then I begin to worry, because she isn't out to be with me, or loving me for who I am, but it ends up about being a financial support and nothing else. I'm not saying I wouldn't help and pay bills etc. I'm saying that she is looking for an ATM machine that gives out money for little favors. I had too much of that in the past few years and it's the worst feeling when it turns out to be that way, because my love is not returned.

nyprpapi01's photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:14 PM
I'm the type of guy who is NO NON SENSE. I live a life where I tell a woman if you don't want me tell me, BUT this never works out so just like those signs you have been GIVEN/EXPERIENCED you have to take it upon yourself and say F*ck it, you lost on something GREAT, time to move on and move on to the next BIG THING.

Just be a MAN and do what you have to do that is necessary to live your life.

Tanzkity's photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:38 PM
I will have to tell you here real life kicked in and she probably liked you but that was just the internet and she moved on........it happens all the time......why I say this because I have been one of those women who has done that........It sounded good in the beginning and you all clicked but she figured (like i have) damn this is just the internet I cant take someone seriously off the internet.......it happens and you should be glad then now you can focus on women who take these dating sites seriously..............

MahanMahan's photo
Thu 03/19/09 12:54 AM

I will have to tell you here real life kicked in and she probably liked you but that was just the internet and she moved on........it happens all the time......why I say this because I have been one of those women who has done that........It sounded good in the beginning and you all clicked but she figured (like i have) damn this is just the internet I cant take someone seriously off the internet.......it happens and you should be glad then now you can focus on women who take these dating sites seriously..............


It's all good and dandy... but one Dear John letter, a farewell email wouldn't kill you, would it?

Why do you just leave them hanging... wondering what happened or what went wrong?!


SharpShooter10's photo
Thu 03/19/09 01:22 AM

So I'm greatly confused..... and maybe everyone else or someone can help me out.

What is the deal with writing someone all the time, haveing great conversations, getting to know each other, finding that you have a lot in common, trade numbers, text, talk on the phone, laugh your as.ses off together, talk for hours..... Then, all of a sudden....

Nothing.

No more mail. No more texts, Doesnt answer the phone or return a voicemail.
No courtesy to say, hey I'm not interested in taking this any further with you, or I dont want to talk anymore.

I'm not the stalker type that calls and leaves tons of messages.
I dont send crazy texts.
I dont keep asking why she isnt responding.
I respect her, treat her how every girl wants.

What The Fuc.k?

I'm looking for male and female advise.

Have you had this happen to you?
Have you done this to someone?

Am I suppose to play the stupid fuc.king retarded game of cat and mouse, trying to find out whats going on?
it just be that way sometimes drinker

Cooleststud's photo
Thu 03/19/09 08:44 AM
Its just fuc.ked up !!