that is a very very good idea... I don't want to hold grudges ,


soo let's forgive one another and move on okay ???

i would say that there are few true love relationships formed anywhere else as well. most people don't stay together for any real length of time. no matter where they meet.



. . .

that is sad to hear and yes, there is some truth there



but i do know of couples who have been together a long long time


so let's hope for the absolute best


& strive to make our lives different than the surveys say


and work towards staying together ,


by first taking our time when meeting someone


and making sure that we are with the right one


to begin with

Ohhhhhh... Tessa...thank you dear...


you are one of the people

who came to my mind when i started this post


I am soo glad that you are feeling better now


and not hurting at all


I hate it when my friends hurt

oh geez...... thank you for remembering me....

Of course i remember


I may have a lot of friends


but every one means so much to me


and i try hard to remember each one's situation


& the correspondence we have had

can't deny that I've found love may not make perfect sense but I'm going to give it all I have whatever it takes

I am soo happy for you Miss Tina ...


Have you told everyone online yet ??



i won't say anything else until you do


and you know I wish You


and Him the very best that life has to offer

most know not sure if he wants to be named i guess well see when he reads this

I'm sooo tired...

I can't even open my mail now ...

and i have 14 letters waiting for me here

and over 100 in my yahoo mail

well, it is a true blessing that only you two can share with everyone


so that is entirely up to you , when you want everyone to know



and thank you soo much for letting me in on the magical secret

I just wish I could use emoticons with such grace.

There is never any guarantee that meeting someone will always work out, regardless of meeting them on the internet or in the flesh.Peoople will only let you know as much about them as they want you to know. Speaking of this at first hand; I have a friend who is currently going through a divorce after a 19yr marriage,( and had been seeing each other for some 4 years before marriage) he felt he knew his partner very well after so many years........WRONG!!! He fell ill last year and several trips to the doctor's discovered his wife has been trying to poison him and has been doing so for a good few months now. He also discovered she is having 2 affairs, one with a man over the internet ( cyber-sexterous) as well as sleeping with a female collegue of hers.I beg the question, do we ever get to know our partners?

It's something in the water...that's EXTREME...but definitely something going on...

I spent all of today (Wednesday).. with a couple who have weathered 25 years of marriage, plus the years of dating prior, who are now parting.

There are no guarantees...ever. The whole pink fluffy romanticism that some profess on here feeds the illusion...and Bonny, you and I have both had first hand experience with that.

Jaded? Nope, much more realistic with the internet/online romance thing... as well as realtime dating/romance.

far too often we see many long standing marriages and relationships fall by the wayside, some with fanciful excuses such as "we've out-grown each other" I've fallen out of love with him/her" I love him/her but no longer in love with him/her" What are some of us looking for? The funniest quote I heard from someone who was dating for over 5 years was " I don't feel my stomach knotting up whenever I think of you anymore!"

Are we meant to feel this way forever? Surely it would have some adverse effect on our mental and phisycal health to go around feeling like this for the rest of our lives............. As for the experiences of online dating, well, that's another avenue I am not prepared to walk down in a hurry.

hahahaha Kyle...



with a little practice you could get really good at it, too ...

Wow...Dear Bonny Miss... that is a sad story to hear...

Sounds like something I've seen on Forensic or FBI Files

There is no rhyme or reason for that kind of crazy behavior

I agree with you Jess and even though i do have hope in real love


I am not naive' or unexperienced in the harsh realities of life


it is risky ...this thing we call life & love even more so


I hope that others heed these warnings too & are very very careful


nothing is guaranteed, so all we can do is hope & pray for the best