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hehehehehehe...peace and hope.......Let's all hope for the best. that is a very very good idea... ![]() ![]() soo let's forgive one another ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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i would say that there are few true love relationships formed anywhere else as well. most people don't stay together for any real length of time. no matter where they meet.
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i would say that there are few true love relationships formed anywhere else as well. most people don't stay together for any real length of time. no matter where they meet. . . . that is sad to hear ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() and work towards staying together , ![]() ![]() ![]() by first taking our time when meeting someone ![]() and making sure ![]() ![]() ![]() to begin with ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Tue 03/17/09 10:47 PM
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() and from the painful experiences of others ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() oooooouuuuuccccchhhhhh Nessa....and very much ok now than before..... ![]() ![]() ![]() Ohhhhhh... Tessa...thank you dear... ![]() you are one of the people ![]() ![]() ![]() who came to my mind when i started this post ![]() ![]() ![]() I am soo glad that you are feeling better now ![]() ![]() ![]() and not hurting at all ![]() I hate it when my friends hurt ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() and from the painful experiences of others ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() oooooouuuuuccccchhhhhh Nessa....and very much ok now than before..... ![]() ![]() ![]() Ohhhhhh... Tessa...thank you dear... ![]() you are one of the people ![]() ![]() ![]() who came to my mind when i started this post ![]() ![]() ![]() oh geez...... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Of course i remember
![]() I may have a lot of friends ![]() but every one means so much to me ![]() and i try hard to remember each one's situation ![]() & the correspondence we have had ![]() |
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Edited by
misstina2
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Tue 03/17/09 11:58 PM
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Wed 03/18/09 12:28 AM
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Wed 03/18/09 12:37 AM
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I'm sooo tired...
![]() ![]() ![]() I can't even open my mail now ... ![]() and i have 14 letters waiting for me here ![]() and over 100 in my yahoo mail ![]() |
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I just wish I could use emoticons with such grace.
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There is never any guarantee that meeting someone will always work out, regardless of meeting them on the internet or in the flesh.Peoople will only let you know as much about them as they want you to know. Speaking of this at first hand; I have a friend who is currently going through a divorce after a 19yr marriage,( and had been seeing each other for some 4 years before marriage) he felt he knew his partner very well after so many years........WRONG!!! He fell ill last year and several trips to the doctor's discovered his wife has been trying to poison him and has been doing so for a good few months now. He also discovered she is having 2 affairs, one with a man over the internet ( cyber-sexterous) as well as sleeping with a female collegue of hers.I beg the question, do we ever get to know our partners?
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Edited by
Jess642
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Wed 03/18/09 05:13 AM
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There is never any guarantee that meeting someone will always work out, regardless of meeting them on the internet or in the flesh.Peoople will only let you know as much about them as they want you to know. Speaking of this at first hand; I have a friend who is currently going through a divorce after a 19yr marriage,( and had been seeing each other for some 4 years before marriage) he felt he knew his partner very well after so many years........WRONG!!! He fell ill last year and several trips to the doctor's discovered his wife has been trying to poison him and has been doing so for a good few months now. He also discovered she is having 2 affairs, one with a man over the internet ( cyber-sexterous) as well as sleeping with a female collegue of hers.I beg the question, do we ever get to know our partners? ![]() It's something in the water...that's EXTREME...but definitely something going on... I spent all of today (Wednesday).. with a couple who have weathered 25 years of marriage, plus the years of dating prior, who are now parting. There are no guarantees...ever. The whole pink fluffy romanticism that some profess on here feeds the illusion...and Bonny, you and I have both had first hand experience with that. Jaded? Nope, much more realistic with the internet/online romance thing... as well as realtime dating/romance. |
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![]() It's something in the water...that's EXTREME...but definately something going on... I spent all of today (Wednesday).. with a couple who have weathered 25 years of marriage, plus the years of dating prior, who are now parting. There are no guarentees...ever. The whole pink fluffy romanticism that some profess on here feeds the illusion...and Bonny, you and I have both had first hand experience with that. Jaded? Nope, much more realistic with the internet/online romance thing... as well as realtime dating/romance. far too often we see many long standing marriages and relationships fall by the wayside, some with fanciful excuses such as "we've out-grown each other" I've fallen out of love with him/her" I love him/her but no longer in love with him/her" What are some of us looking for? The funniest quote I heard from someone who was dating for over 5 years was " I don't feel my stomach knotting up whenever I think of you anymore!" Are we meant to feel this way forever? Surely it would have some adverse effect on our mental and phisycal health to go around feeling like this for the rest of our lives............. As for the experiences of online dating, well, that's another avenue I am not prepared to walk down in a hurry. |
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Wed 03/18/09 08:13 AM
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I just wish I could use emoticons with such grace. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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There is never any guarantee that meeting someone will always work out, regardless of meeting them on the internet or in the flesh.Peoople will only let you know as much about them as they want you to know. Speaking of this at first hand; I have a friend who is currently going through a divorce after a 19yr marriage,( and had been seeing each other for some 4 years before marriage) he felt he knew his partner very well after so many years........WRONG!!! He fell ill last year and several trips to the doctor's discovered his wife has been trying to poison him and has been doing so for a good few months now. He also discovered she is having 2 affairs, one with a man over the internet ( cyber-sexterous) as well as sleeping with a female collegue of hers.I beg the question, do we ever get to know our partners? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Wed 03/18/09 08:22 AM
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There is never any guarantee that meeting someone will always work out, regardless of meeting them on the internet or in the flesh.Peoople will only let you know as much about them as they want you to know. Speaking of this at first hand; I have a friend who is currently going through a divorce after a 19yr marriage,( and had been seeing each other for some 4 years before marriage) he felt he knew his partner very well after so many years........WRONG!!! He fell ill last year and several trips to the doctor's discovered his wife has been trying to poison him and has been doing so for a good few months now. He also discovered she is having 2 affairs, one with a man over the internet ( cyber-sexterous) as well as sleeping with a female collegue of hers.I beg the question, do we ever get to know our partners? ![]() It's something in the water...that's EXTREME...but definitely something going on... I spent all of today (Wednesday).. with a couple who have weathered 25 years of marriage, plus the years of dating prior, who are now parting. There are no guarantees...ever. The whole pink fluffy romanticism that some profess on here feeds the illusion...and Bonny, you and I have both had first hand experience with that. Jaded? Nope, much more realistic with the internet/online romance thing... as well as realtime dating/romance. I agree with you Jess ![]() ![]() I am not naive' or unexperienced in the harsh realities of life it is risky ...this thing we call life ![]() ![]() I hope that others heed these warnings too & are very very careful ![]() nothing is guaranteed, so all we can do is hope & pray for the best ![]() |
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I just wish I could use emoticons with such grace. ![]() |
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