So on my way from work today i seen to girls trying to change a tire on the side of the road so i decided to turn back and help them.Well they was flirting i was flirting and they was telling me so much about them selfs i was like hmmmm should i ask them if there single maybe go out for lunch or something.Well i didnt i let them pass after i change there tire wierd thing is..it was stareing at me in the face they told me that they where room mates and that they are teacher's.I was thinking at first hmm is this a sighn that they are single or are they just flirting because im helping them.

So right when i was done changeing there tire i asked them are ya guys going out tuesday they said no we have to teach.So in my car i have these Miller lite headbands for Saint Patrick's day and they took them they said wow you are so nice and that this great deed will be great for a year.I said NP glade i could help and smile walked in my car i felt just stupid inside that i didnt even try to ask if they where single.I'm lost any more inside.


All said all of the sudden im afraid of rejection.

Huh?

I would have done exactly the same thing!!

Rejection will happen time & time again, it's just the way it goes, don't worry about it

For a second, I thought this was going to be about some new demented sick porn film.....

No sorry for all the miss spelling im eating my lunch before it gets cold hehe.

okay i understood only every 4th word in that but...

it happens hon.

think of it this way...

you did a great thing for some stuck chickadees and if it were meant to be... you'll run into them again. if not, you know at least that your flirtable. ;p

and being flirtable is a start.

why be afraid of rejection?

believe it or not, women get hit on every day by different men and they barely think twice about the guys they "reject". they don't think you a freak or anything, it is just a flattering occurence at the time and then they move on with their day.

so basically the worst that can happen is that the girl moves on with her day flattered that you thought her attractive, and the best that can happen is that you make a new friend and possibly a blossoming relationship. so next time just go for it and always be respectful and polite.

hope this helps.

Weman

llamas

Llamas are sexy

so are sunsets!!!

so are marshmallows

Tasty

So are grapefruits.

Thanks.But for some reason and i never had this problem is im afraid of rejection.There teacher's im a Miller rep >.< that did kinda worrie me.She goes well im gonna tell me kids at school how you change my tire..Jokeing i said back ya tell them the beer man changed your tire lol sigh.

2 teachers, roomates...Do you not realise what could have happened here?!?!?! lol :sigh:

But, yea, in life, you never know if you don't try.
And women find assertiveness attractive...at least I do. You gotta stand up tall and proud, confident and say, this is what I want, are you interested? Shyness is cute and all, but, I want a man that's gonna go for what he wants and fight for it, not wait for me to make a move. But, that's mainly because I like to wade through all the bull**** and be blunt and honest. I expect the same from others.
So, next time, flex your muscles, bite your lip, and throw it out there, lol.
Worst that can happen is a no, and than you can as the girl above me so eloquently put, move on about your day and not think twice about it.
Sometimes the best things in life are worth fighting for, (even if you're only fighting with yourself), lol. :)

Ya i really screwed up today..and trust me i feel it.

shoot first, ask questions later.

You probably did the right thing even though you would have liked to ask one of them out. It was nice of you to do a nice thing without an ulterior motive. You made a better impression on them I'm sure than if you have perved them!