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If you don't truly have an honest relationship with the "great guy" it is not fair to him to keep him hanging out and maybe missing out on his "great girl".
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If you think there is real potential for long term success with the current guy, you should probably stick with him.
However, it sounds like you do not see yourself spending the rest of your life with the current guy. If you are fairly certain that the current guy is not the 'one', then you should tell him, so that you both can pursue other options. |
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How about you meet the guy online without the other knowing. If you click with the guy online then great, you can take a chance on starting a relationship with him or stay with the guy you've been dating. Your never going to know if you don't. I mean attraction is not really a choice. You cant make yourself feel that spark for someone. Best luck to you.
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I am sort of seeing a guy that lives a few hours away from me. He comes here on the weekends, and things are great, but we don't have a "spark" you know what I mean? He is a really great guy, and is great to me and my kids, but the chemistry just isn't there. Then there is another guy, from this site, that I've been talking to for about 6 months. He seems perferct for me. We agree on all the important things, and I am more and more intrigued every time we talk. We still haven't met in person, but I know things would be just as great as they are online and on the phone. Do I risk hurting the sweet guy that I'm with, and ruining that, to meet the guy on here? Or should I leave things as they are, and make myself understand that the grass isn't always greener? Advice please!!! Tell the guy you are seeing now you want some "time off" Then if you meet this Internet guy, and he is not all he is cracked up to be, you can always go back. Being a guy, I know how dumb we are, so I am almost positive, you can start right back where you left off with the mediocre relationship. |
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well some one is going to get hurt u cant avoid that it just depends how much u want to hurt some one. But u need to be honest to your self u have the right to be happy also. So in that good luck
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well you need to meet the other guy in person...and make your desition there......its hard but its the right thing for you to do..other wise you will always wounder.... I'd have to agree with this advice. Until you meet the second "online" guy, it would be premature to think of anything further. The guy may be a totally different in person. He may be even better thn you thought. But you won't know until you meet. |
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What if one of them finds out about all of it and just leaves?
Maybe they don't want to be dragged through the mud like that. That would throw a whole new kink into the mess. lol Really though, think how short life is, 2 guys wanting you isn't the worst thing you'll ever have to deal with. Some people go thru life never having anyone really want them. Just something to think about. |
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