Topic: WHAT IS REAL LOVE
77skybird's photo
Fri 09/29/06 03:49 PM
what is real love. Is really that feeling that you found your soulmate
or is inffatuation?

Jimi366's photo
Fri 09/29/06 03:51 PM
Real love happens when the "magic" wears off,
the infatuation over, you see the person for
who really are and you decided to stay
with them anyway. That's what I've found
true love to mean.

ysrider's photo
Fri 09/29/06 03:57 PM
Damn, that was well said. I agree. True love is the stuff that keeps
you with someone through hard times. When a disagreement won't make you
run away. When you see all the real parts of someone and even if they
are flawed or imperfect you like them anyway. This is why I've always
said it is valuable to spend quite a bit of time with someone before you
consider it to be "the real thing". So you time to find out if there is
still fire when the magic of infatuation wears off.

no photo
Fri 09/29/06 04:07 PM
Real love is when you can't stand to be away from each other 24/7 and
that's after you get to the person well and is now living with him or
her far an year or two. Real love is when you can share everything with
your mate and know that they wouldn't be gross out by it. This is real
love and not infatuation or stalking but that's another story for
another time:)

FariesDoFly's photo
Fri 09/29/06 04:08 PM
Like my friend says Real love is when you can burp and fart in front of
him and he'll challenge you back haha i thought it was the best thing
i've ever heard!

netuserlla's photo
Fri 09/29/06 05:01 PM
There are alot of ways to define true love. Many people have tried
through poetry, songs and such, But I think that true love can even be
plutonic. When sexual relations become envolved in the relationship too
early, It can really screw the relationship up, because the chemical
embalence of the brain starts viering toward a different direction. It
changes the way that people think. Some people think that after the
first time that they are sexual active with a person, that they are in
love. That is just a false feeling based on the over sensitive feelings
that they have recieved. True love is unconditional. In other words,
They love the person no matter what, and cain't see spending the rest of
thier life without them. With true love, you believe that you were born
into this life to spend the rest of your life with this this person.

sweetlilmamita22's photo
Fri 09/29/06 05:05 PM
I myself never really knew the true meaning of love until i had my kids.
Love is such a strong feeling that comes instantly in most cases. For me
it was right away when i felt the first movement from my children. Love
is such a wonderful thing. When u love someone u just know it in ur
heart.

netuserlla's photo
Fri 09/29/06 07:27 PM
Yes. This is another example of true love, because it is
unconditional.

PublicAnimalNo9's photo
Sat 09/30/06 08:26 AM
real love is putting the seat down afterwards lol.
Seriously tho..real love is like true friendship: you know everything
about the other person and still like(love) them anyway.

lionsbrew's photo
Sat 09/30/06 11:41 AM
real love is changing each others diapers in your old ages

newfiegirl5's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:56 AM
there you go.. that is good concept of love..