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Topic: simple question
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Fri 02/27/09 07:22 AM
Ok, so an example of "less" for me would be settling for someone who has no goals in life. No desire to better themselves or try new things.

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Fri 02/27/09 10:05 AM

ok let me put it this way so if you had a list of 10 qualities that you want in a person and you met someone who only had 8 of the qualities would that person be considered a potential "just settling"victim or would you consider to continue seeing them, if of course its mutual.


oh cribbage is a pretty cool game to :smile:


Hmmm... okay so basically what you are saying here is that would I be willing to COMPROMISE my idealistics of my PERFECT MAN (nobodys perfect but according to my standards of perfect... whew) just to SETTLE for being in a "RELATIONSHIP"? NO THE HECK WAY LOL for example, why would I date a man that gets SKUNKING DRUNK? ... I do welcome ADVERSITY as far as race and/or cultural differences, hobbies, because I am always up for learning something new... I know ONE thing for sure, WE would difinately have to believe in the same GOD... btw CRIBBAGE? wanna get BEAT? LOL...

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Fri 02/27/09 10:44 AM

if your single and picky, is that why your single cause you won't settle for less,well explain what the hell is less?bring it pitchfork


Im single because the women im attracted to are not attracted to me, or they live too far away. Money has an awful lot to do with it also. My typical day is wake and bake, a few chores, and lots of riding. Most women want sucessflul men who chase the allmighty dollar, and I quit doing that many years ago. I still work, but only enough to eat, pay rent, and ride. I wouldn't trade my free time for all the money in the world. Im single because im me, and I havn't met my local, laid back, scooter ridein tomboy yet.

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Fri 02/27/09 11:17 AM


if your single and picky, is that why your single cause you won't settle for less,well explain what the hell is less?bring it pitchfork


Im single because the women im attracted to are not attracted to me, or they live too far away. Money has an awful lot to do with it also. My typical day is wake and bake, a few chores, and lots of riding. Most women want sucessflul men who chase the allmighty dollar, and I quit doing that many years ago. I still work, but only enough to eat, pay rent, and ride. I wouldn't trade my free time for all the money in the world. Im single because im me, and I havn't met my local, laid back, scooter ridein tomboy yet.


I wouldn't trade my free time for all the money in the world... YEAH ME TOO!

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Fri 02/27/09 11:21 AM

ok let me put it this way so if you had a list of 10 qualities that you want in a person and you met someone who only had 8 of the qualities would that person be considered a potential "just settling"victim or would you consider to continue seeing them, if of course its mutual.


oh cribbage is a pretty cool game to :smile:



8 out of 10?

It would depend on which 8.

Some are more negotiable than others.

Some are absolutes, and some have a little elbow room.






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