He is so far away,

He calls he says,

But no messages on machine,

Says he'll be right back,


Hear from him the next day,


Should I dump him....



And chalk it up to far aways don't really work?


Or what? No rilly!

No messages? No number on caller I.D.? Doesn't "come right back?"

What do you think?

LOL

dont have caller id

Not good

ya prolly right dallas

Sorry dear sounds like smoke up your skirt

Straight out, if he does not want you in his life, you are better off
without him. His loss. Help the universe by hearing its message, clear
him out of the way to make room for the guy in your life who is really
right for you. Sad and scary, yes, but love is not for sissies. Good
luck. MJ

has he ever offered you a call back #?

sounds like a bunch of hoohaa to me if ya do call just leave a message
at least if only to say sorry I missed you

yes green eyed he has..


but...it's all confusing to me.

well don't chalk it up to anything except that he doesn't care too much
or he'd be a lot more polite and a lot less rude long distance can and
does work and n/m you know who !!

whats n'm mean BG?

never mind = n/m

Hey it's his f*ckin loss anyhow tulip,here have a

If he cared about you he'd want to talk to you as much as you want to
talk to him. For a LDR to work you've got to have lots of communication.
Heck, for any kind of realtionship to work you've got to have
communication, it just takes a little more work when you're long
distance, and picking up a phone is not a lot of work. Some guys just
don't like talking on the phone that much, but if that's the case, he
needs to find someone closer. You can do better it sounds like to me.
JMO.

ya...that all sounds good...but maybe...just maybe... he is actually
busy.not all ppl have the luxury of being able to sit around all day
making calls or posting on a forum.you say he does get with you next
day,so maybe you give him the benifit of the doubt instead of letting
people tell you what an ass someone they have never met is.(one guys
opinion)

Guess it also depends are ya in contact by Im or e-mail daily. Some
people really don't like talking on the phone very much. So it really
depends if there is any other ways ya stay in contact. LDR can work out
and some have but it takes alot of work and trust for it too. But then
it really depends because if your confused by the way he does or is
acting then there are questions that should be answered. It also comes
down to it is this what you really want also. We must be sure within it
is what we want. Sounds as if you have unanswered questions and doubts
about the whole thing if so be straight with him and ask. Best to know
what ones intentions are up front. At least that is the way I feel. Some
are better off just being friends instead.

How much time does it take to pick up the phone, or to leave a message
if you miss someone.

And if you say you're gonna call right back, ya dang well better do it.
In order for any relationship to work you need to be a person who is
dependable, and does what they say they're gonna do.

Benefit of a doubt is fine, if it happens once in a while. But if it's
getting to be a pattern, doesn't leave much room for doubt.

trust me plz as a man...if a man calls you 8 times a day doesnt mean he
loves or cares for you more than someone who may only call 2 times a
week..and in fact my experience is that the man who calls 8 times a day
will stop all that once he gets what he wants(oldest trick in the book
of man,send lots of crap, call lots,get what you want, leave)as a man i
can honestly say that if he calls you at all and is far away from you
then he cares...why?...because what is his motivation beyond hearing
your voice at that point?nothing...he does it because he cares and
misses you.to create a call-to-love ratio is self destructive and will
do you no good.

um...................................