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Topic: Am I being played?
tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Mon 04/30/07 01:10 PM
what do ya mean according to plan??

simplyupsidedown Joined Wed 02/28/07 Posts: 55	Mon 04/30/07 01:16 PM
listen to your gut.

devin112 Joined Wed 10/25/06 Posts: 3592	Mon 04/30/07 01:17 PM
MY GUT GRUMBLES AT ME,MUST MEAN I AM HUNGRY LOL.

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Mon 04/30/07 01:20 PM
I guess the first question is this..how far away is he? Do you really like him enough to keep investing your time in him? Does he give you a good reason why he doesn't come back and why he doesn't talk to you till the next day? There are so many questions that you really need to be asking yourself...do you have plans on meeting him? It seems like you don't trust him already, thats not good

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Mon 04/30/07 01:30 PM
food for thought ty.................hm........

newguy Joined Thu 08/31/06 Posts: 1379	Mon 04/30/07 08:21 PM
Trust is important to have in any relationship. It builds as the relationship grows. Now if you find out that he is only yanking your heart strings for some twisted purpose then you just let me know honey........my arms are always open for you.

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Mon 04/30/07 08:24 PM
awwwwwwwwwww ty charlie

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Mon 04/30/07 08:25 PM
you live even farther ng!

newguy Joined Thu 08/31/06 Posts: 1379	Mon 04/30/07 08:30 PM
I got a feeling you'd be worth the trip to want to meet in the near future. That is if it dosen't workout with your other freind here. Hope he's reading this.....

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Mon 04/30/07 08:30 PM
sounds like you are being played. there are signs that mean married or involved with someone else. for instance the hours he calls, text messaging instead of calling, or calling and saying can I call you right back and not calling etc

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Mon 04/30/07 08:33 PM
ty nurjoyce and ng it isn't working charlie.. it hasn't been that long that we have been chatting anyway.

newguy Joined Thu 08/31/06 Posts: 1379	Mon 04/30/07 08:35 PM
hey joyce....what's up girl? Your right but then again...we don't know his circumstances either. I try not to be so quick to judge without hearing the other side of the topic.

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Mon 04/30/07 08:37 PM
well perhaps he is married he is still new to me. still getting to know each other.

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Mon 04/30/07 08:38 PM
Hey Newguy I donot judge either, however there are signs plus I think that if someone really wants to date you- he would be able to talk to you on the telephone without interuptions some time or another.

newguy Joined Thu 08/31/06 Posts: 1379	Mon 04/30/07 08:39 PM
sorry to hear that kim......you debating on dropping him or what? Man if he's reading this he better "CRAP OR GET OFF THE POT!"

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Mon 04/30/07 08:40 PM
yes I was thinking the same ng.... and you have an excellent point nj

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Mon 04/30/07 08:42 PM
Anyone that wants something will make the time for whatever it is...Since you do not have a lot invested in this- I would pass it by. I mean if you are doubting this early then what is it going to be like later?

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Mon 04/30/07 08:45 PM
I agree nj been doing alot of thinking today it is early in the game......sorta speak...ty

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Mon 04/30/07 08:46 PM
your welcome just donot want to see you get hurt

massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Mon 04/30/07 08:48 PM
I'd say, be more direct in confronting him on it, make sure he knows how his apparent flakiness looks to you. Some people just hate talking to answering machines.