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Topic: Wanting to Meet Someone
leahbabez's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:09 AM
Hey,
Just a thought: I'm only looking for a man or woman who can put a smile on my face, who likes to cuddle, and isn't just in it for looks. (Had to put that because some people say this in their first message: Damn you are hot). I really think that is shallow. I'm only looking for someone that I can click with and become friends with and who is looking for the same thing.
Why is this so difficult?

TBRich's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:10 AM
People are afraid of intimacy?

leahbabez's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:11 AM
It seems that way.

74Drew's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:12 AM
not me

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:13 AM
Would it make you feel better if somebody said you weren't "all that"?

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Tue 02/24/09 09:15 AM

Would it make you feel better if somebody said you weren't "all that"?
laugh laugh laugh laugh Ohhhhhhhh I just spit out my tea!!!laugh

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Tue 02/24/09 09:15 AM
Well, if you're batting for both teams, I don't see why you should have a problem...I mean...looks like you've doubled your odds, sooooo.....

DvDstyle's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:15 AM
haha im not laughing at what you said, im laughing at the fact you call yourself mr. music

scoundrel's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:16 AM

Would it make you feel better if somebody said you weren't "all that"?


Chalk up another one.
drinker

RKISIT's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:16 AM

Would it make you feel better if somebody said you weren't "all that"?
drinker good pointdrinker

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:18 AM

haha im not laughing at what you said, im laughing at the fact you call yourself mr. music


Something you want to say, son?

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Tue 02/24/09 09:18 AM
It's not that hard. Be picky though. There are idiots. I just wish I could meet someone with which to have an inteligent conversation with. Not to many people out there you can do that with.

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:18 AM
Are you related to that David Caruso guy in CSI Miami?

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Tue 02/24/09 09:19 AM

Hey,
Just a thought: I'm only looking for a man or woman who can put a smile on my face, who likes to cuddle, and isn't just in it for looks. (Had to put that because some people say this in their first message: Damn you are hot). I really think that is shallow. I'm only looking for someone that I can click with and become friends with and who is looking for the same thing.
Why is this so difficult?



Because people think this is a one-stop shop for having their immediate-gratification needs filled --

Because people don't take the time to realize that the person on the other end of the screen is a real human being, with feelings and hopes and dreams and fears and likes and dislikes --

Because people tend to be shallow and thoughtless and self-absorbed and oblivious to anyone else's reality....


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Tue 02/24/09 09:21 AM
Edited by quiet_2008 on Tue 02/24/09 09:22 AM

haha im not laughing at what you said, im laughing at the fact you call yourself mr. music


snort


I'm laughing at the fact that anybody calling himself dougie would say something like that

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Tue 02/24/09 09:21 AM
no nt at all difficult...

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Tue 02/24/09 09:26 AM


haha im not laughing at what you said, im laughing at the fact you call yourself mr. music


snort


I'm laughing at the fact that anybody calling himself dougie would say something like that



Even better...his Yahoo SN is gatorboypimp...sounds like he be 'rasslin wit da ho's...he da man!

leahbabez's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:26 AM
I definitely was not meaning I was all that. ;p
And, I just meant that people shouldn't just wonder about that. There is so much more to me! I have a very cheerful/bubbly personality and like to have fun but not too much. I am young with many goals that i'm going for.
Maybe you should re-read what I said.
Thanks,
Tyleah

SacramentAl's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:43 AM

I definitely was not meaning I was all that. ;p
And, I just meant that people shouldn't just wonder about that. There is so much more to me! I have a very cheerful/bubbly personality and like to have fun but not too much. I am young with many goals that i'm going for.
Maybe you should re-read what I said.
Thanks,
Tyleah


My problem is I'm constantly being judged for my looks so it's been extremely difficult for me to talk to people, let alone form relationships. Are you willing to ignore someone who isn't necessarily attractive? I mean, this is a slippery slope since people are wanting concessions but aren't willing to make any themselves. But from what you've said, you and I seem to want the same thing, just someone to be happy with, and befriend. I know that kind of thing is only shared by the minority but we aren't extinct yet.

speedbug72's photo
Tue 02/24/09 09:45 AM

I definitely was not meaning I was all that. ;p
And, I just meant that people shouldn't just wonder about that. There is so much more to me! I have a very cheerful/bubbly personality and like to have fun but not too much. I am young with many goals that i'm going for.
Maybe you should re-read what I said.
Thanks,
Tyleah


i was going to say somthin, but now i feel i have no room to speak.

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