Topic: KTSmilin passed away 2/22/09
Want2B5ft's photo
Mon 02/23/09 11:43 AM
I am saddened to hear of your tragic loss. May she rest in peace and may you find comfort in the love and memories that were shared. I know about the gaping hole that is ripped in your heart when losing someone tragically and unexpectedly. Hold on to your faith and find comfort that she is in a much better place . . . and will be waiting to be reunited with her loved ones. flowerforyou :cry: brokenheart


MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:07 PM

Just in case we missed someone, we wanted to take a moment to say thank you for being a part of our mom's life. She passed away last night at 10pm. She was in an accident and was pronounced dead upon the scene. Our apologies for informing you in this manner. It is our hope that our mom touched your life in a very special way. She was a strong woman, with a huge heart, and an awesome personality! She will truly be missed by many. She leaves behind her parents, an older brother, a younger sister, and many nieces and nephews. She leaves her three sons, two daughter in laws, two grand children, and one on the way. We know that she leaves behind many true friends, including you. As you know, she had a dear love for God that showed in her. It is our desire that if you know the Lord, that you continue to love and serve Him. If you don't, we know that she would want you to find Him. Live life for Him as to be able to see and meet her on the other side! She will never leave us, we know that she has gone before us & is watching over both you and us as we speak. Please take a minute today to listen to, 'When I Get Where I'm Going' by Brad Paisley in rmemeberence of her. We will be leaving her profile up for a short while before deactivating it to give everyone a chance who knew her to be informed of her passing. Take care, and God bless all of you! Love, her family
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Fade2Black's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:07 PM

Just in case we missed someone, we wanted to take a moment to say thank you for being a part of our mom's life. She passed away last night at 10pm. She was in an accident and was pronounced dead upon the scene. Our apologies for informing you in this manner. It is our hope that our mom touched your life in a very special way. She was a strong woman, with a huge heart, and an awesome personality! She will truly be missed by many. She leaves behind her parents, an older brother, a younger sister, and many nieces and nephews. She leaves her three sons, two daughter in laws, two grand children, and one on the way. We know that she leaves behind many true friends, including you. As you know, she had a dear love for God that showed in her. It is our desire that if you know the Lord, that you continue to love and serve Him. If you don't, we know that she would want you to find Him. Live life for Him as to be able to see and meet her on the other side! She will never leave us, we know that she has gone before us & is watching over both you and us as we speak. Please take a minute today to listen to, 'When I Get Where I'm Going' by Brad Paisley in rmemeberence of her. We will be leaving her profile up for a short while before deactivating it to give everyone a chance who knew her to be informed of her passing. Take care, and God bless all of you! Love, her family




So very sorry to hear of your loss .. altho she did not post in the forums I am sure others knew her.

It is great we know where she was going and that you know too. Nice you are using this avenue to get that message out.

God bless you. Judy

KTsmilin's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:08 PM
Our family wanted to let everyone know, "thank you so much for all the support, prayers, thoughts, and beautiful comments." Know that all this is very comforting to the family. Greatly appreciated! God bless all!

LAMom's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:25 PM
Love & Light :heart:


KTsmilin's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:35 PM
Edited by KTsmilin on Mon 02/23/09 12:42 PM
Our mom was a single lady for a while, and us three boys of hers are extremely close to her. I don't think I have ever known a closer family than ours. We helped our mom get onto this site, along with some of her friends. Many of the friends that she has on this site are NOT new friends, but friends that have moved from here. Not to say that there aren't some new ones. Some of these friends do not have numbers where we could contact them immediately. One in particular she was very close to, and we are anxiously waiting his response as we are wanting him to be a pallbearer and have his flight taken care of. For you, this may be weird, for us, it is a tragedy that we are trying to deal with in the best manner that we can. You obviously didn't know our mom! She was an incredible lady who will be remembered and honored! As for your explaination of the password, well besides the purple folder that she keeps here with all her passwords to various things because she would forget them (LOL!!!), mom never logged out of sites, so all you have to do is pull up mingle, and BAM, you're on her site! Same thing with her myspace. lol Something us boys knew. Not that we owe you an explaination, but you can keep all your rude comments to yourself, as they really are not appreciated at this time! (This post is in regards to the young man who stated that this is weird & awry! )

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:45 PM
There tends to be, on dating sites, a bit of skepticism. We apologize to the family if your feelings were hurt by the poster who questioned your motives.

You might want to peruse this thread while you are here .. Your mom lived this:


Called 'Everybody dies' .. under General

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/207301

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:47 PM
"Somebody should tell us, right at the start of our lives, that we are dying. Then we might live life to the limit, every minute of every day. Do it, I say! Whatever you want to do, do it now! There are only so many tomorrows." (Pope Paul VI ) ....

CARPE DIEM !!!!



Again .. so sorry for your loss. flowers

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Mon 02/23/09 06:38 PM
Love and light to you as you deal with this tremendous loss in your lives. flowerforyou :heart: :heart: flowerforyou

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Mon 02/23/09 06:51 PM
Edited by michiganman3 on Mon 02/23/09 06:52 PM
Sorry for your loss. It must be a very difficult time for all of you.
What a strange idea, having to go online and explain that a death has occurred to the online community that she was part of.
There is a lot of jokin' and smoking going on here at Mingle, but the loss of one affects us all.
Reminding us that tomorrow has no guaranty,
we thank you and our prayers are with you.


Not Gone, just gone ahead.

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Mon 02/23/09 06:54 PM
I didn't have the pleasure of knowing your mother. I am terribly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.flowerforyou

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Mon 02/23/09 06:55 PM
My deepest condolences for your loss I will pray for your familyflowerforyou

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Mon 02/23/09 06:56 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss... my thoughts and prayers go out to your family..

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Mon 02/23/09 07:03 PM
So sorry for your loss... you are in my prayers..


longislandangel's photo
Mon 02/23/09 07:29 PM
:heart: Love
:heart: lives
:heart: on...
may the beautiful memories of your mom's love
comfort you and your family now and always...
My deepest sympathy to you all:heart:

Redshirt's photo
Mon 02/23/09 07:32 PM


May God's Peace be with you.

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Mon 02/23/09 07:35 PM
Much blessings to you all...flowerforyou

Marie55's photo
Mon 02/23/09 10:07 PM
I didn't have the pleasure of meeting your mom but I am so very sorry for your loss. She sounds like she was an incredible lady. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

My dad died in November and the Brad Paisley song you mention is one I chose to play at his funeral too.

It sounds like she has left you with lots of good memories, concentrate on the good times and memories. Take care. Again, I am so sorry for your terrible loss. flowerforyou flowerforyou

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Mon 02/23/09 10:18 PM

Yit-gadal v'yit-kadash sh'may raba b'alma dee-v'ra che-ru-tay, ve'yam-lich mal-chutay b'chai-yay-chon uv'yo-may-chon uv-cha-yay d'chol beit Yisrael, ba-agala u'vitze-man ka-riv, ve'imru amen.

Y'hay sh'may raba me'varach le-alam uleh-almay alma-ya.

Yit-barach v'yish-tabach, v'yit-pa-ar v'yit-romam v'yit-nasay, v'yit-hadar v'yit-aleh v'yit-halal sh'may d'koo-d'shah, b'rich hoo. layla (ool-ayla)* meen kol beer-chata v'she-rata, toosh-b'chata v'nay-ch'mata, da-a meran b'alma, ve'imru amen.

Y'hay sh'lama raba meen sh'maya v'cha-yim aleynu v'al kol Yisrael, ve'imru amen.

O'seh shalom beem-romav, hoo ya'ah-seh shalom aleynu v'al kol Yisrael, ve'imru amen.



English
Magnified and sanctified be G-d's great name in the world which He created according to His will. May he establish His kingdom during our lifetime and during the lifetime of Israel. Let us say, Amen.

May G-d's great name be blessed forever and ever.

Blessed, glorified, honored and extolled, adored and acclaimed be the name of the Holy One, though G-d is beyond all praises and songs of adoration which can be uttered. Let us say, Amen.

May there be peace and life for all of us and for all Israel. Let us say, Amen.

Let He who makes peace in the heavens, grant peace to all of us and to all Israel. Let us say, Amen.

speedbug72's photo
Mon 02/23/09 10:21 PM
:angel: Rest In Peace KT smilin :angel:


i did not know of her but im sure she was a good person to many, sorry to hear of the loss.

may the great gates embrace her soul in love an peace. may the ppl that are finding them selfs with out her b consoled and find peace in one day all gods children eventualy meet again .

" I WALK THROUGH THIS VALLEY OF SHADOW WISHING FOR BREATH.
FINDING MY SELF AMONG DEATH
ALONG COMES A LIGHT SHOWING THE PATH
I FIND MY SELF THANKFUL FOR EVERY BREATH "