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Topic: Another reason sexual preds should never be let out
longhairbiker's photo
Mon 02/23/09 10:21 AM
I got f*cking tears rolling outta my eyes of anger and disappointment in you people and your lack of human qualities and commitment and compassion. I've climbed 5 14,000 foot mountains. I've been shot twice in combat. I've been around the planet twice. I've had challenges most people dream of or fear. The hardest thing I've ever had to do is volunteer time to abused children. To have a small 5 year old sexually abused child tell you a story will give you empathy and strengths you never knew you had. To spend time with them- to show them not everyones bad, to teach them they are good and they are strong. To educate them in everything from cooking, self defense, to motorcycles, to quantum physics and bring out their talents. To helping them heal from their past- getting over guilt, fear, and shame that a small child should never experience. Its the toughest most emotional challenge I've faced. Should try it sometime. It will change you forever.

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 02/23/09 10:26 AM

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...thank you. We are taking action and making a difference.

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 02/23/09 10:42 AM
Bikers against child abuse. We need some tough guys on our side.

Want2B5ft's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:03 PM
I have zero tolerance for sex offenders. My sister was molested as a child and raped at 16. My daughter was sexually assaulted 2 years ago.

Divorced ex when I caught him in my other daughter's room!

My sister was murdered in '95 by a sex offender that was on parole. Turned out to be quite the con man. 7 different aliases and families - that didn't know about each other until my sister's murder investigation. The guy had even paid someone so he could adopt her daughter - which he used and abused for years.

He committed suicide - one less scuzbag to worry about!

Work is another issue - I have to maintain my composure - must be able to compartmenatlize and keep personal stuff out of it. I am just glad that a safety window separates me from them!

I could go on...sigh...but, I won't.

Zero tolerance here!

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Mon 02/23/09 12:34 PM

I got f*cking tears rolling outta my eyes of anger and disappointment in you people and your lack of human qualities and commitment and compassion. I've climbed 5 14,000 foot mountains. I've been shot twice in combat. I've been around the planet twice. I've had challenges most people dream of or fear. The hardest thing I've ever had to do is volunteer time to abused children. To have a small 5 year old sexually abused child tell you a story will give you empathy and strengths you never knew you had. To spend time with them- to show them not everyones bad, to teach them they are good and they are strong. To educate them in everything from cooking, self defense, to motorcycles, to quantum physics and bring out their talents. To helping them heal from their past- getting over guilt, fear, and shame that a small child should never experience. Its the toughest most emotional challenge I've faced. Should try it sometime. It will change you forever.


LHB, I lived it for eight years on a daily basis. So I know from experience the hell those kids have gone through. And I do volunteer my time to help kids that went through what I did. It's hard, cause not only do you want to try and take away all the hurt these kids had to endure, and try to instill in them a sense of self worth after having their innocence taken away, but at the same time, it's a challenge to myself to deal with all the emotions every time I have to share my experiences.

On top of that, we have the challenge of those people that believe that child molesters and child abusers have constitutional rights and will fight to the end to let them keep those rights. Not to mention that every time advocates against child abusers like me get a step ahead in getting harsher laws, there is always someone knocking us back two steps if not more wanting to lessen the punishment because in their eyes it's too cruel and harsh. Amazing how the guy/gal that was beating their kid half to death or raping the child didn't think they were doing anything harsh and cruel!

It's almost like a losing battle. We fight everyday to help those kids that are victims and do everything we can to protect our children and others from becoming a victims, we fight to get the laws changed and to get people to try to understand what these kids go through so they can help support the cause, only to be beaten down by a system that only works half-azz, or sometimes doesn't even work at all!

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