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Topic: How often do you want to see your significant other?
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Fri 02/20/09 10:56 AM
How often do you want to see them? Is it needy to want to see them like 4 days a week?

redhead44613's photo
Fri 02/20/09 10:59 AM
I see mine everyday now. which is great so far.

Its not greedy at all to want to see them 4days a week..well it always depends how long you been together.

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Fri 02/20/09 11:00 AM
I dont think so........but it just depends on the situation. Sometimes that isnt feasible.

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:01 AM
I want to see her more, the problem is I don't have one:smile:


It depends on how things are going, as long as you don't smother her, use your judgement.

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Fri 02/20/09 11:04 AM

I want to see her more, the problem is I don't have one:smile:


It depends on how things are going, as long as you don't smother her, use your judgement.

No definitely no smothering going on. She says a day off here and there is good which we had Wednesday to ourselves and last night she was ill and I wanted to stop by and cheer her up (she said she wanted me to come by), but she couldn't even get out of bed because shes dorming at her school and needs to come outside get me sign me and she lives on the second floor at the end of the hallway so it was a little much.

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Fri 02/20/09 11:04 AM
Usually, I want to see her every day for 90 days -- then I get bored and move on.

So that means if I had a gf and I saw her once a year, I could be in a relationship for 90 years....

Hmmmm....



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Fri 02/20/09 11:12 AM
what Ain't got 1.
So.....sad2

lilith401's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:17 AM
In my opinion, yes.

Start off slowly.

7z3r05's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:19 AM
if i could find one that didnt have a kid and was as smart as i am and was not as messed up as i am ud wanna see her every day. then id play her songs on my guitar and write her letters and make her fall madly in love with me. thats how i roll emeffer.

lilith401's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:20 AM

if i could find one that didnt have a kid and was as smart as i am and was not as messed up as i am ud wanna see her every day. then id play her songs on my guitar and write her letters and make her fall madly in love with me. thats how i roll emeffer.


Yeah, and make her dinner and rub her feet and make slow sweet love to her every night, right? :tongue:

mage2210's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:30 AM
4 days a week is not pushy, but you do need time apart IMO once in a while. Its good to have a guys/girls night out once a week or so

7z3r05's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:33 AM


if i could find one that didnt have a kid and was as smart as i am and was not as messed up as i am ud wanna see her every day. then id play her songs on my guitar and write her letters and make her fall madly in love with me. thats how i roll emeffer.


Yeah, and make her dinner and rub her feet and make slow sweet love to her every night, right? :tongue:
If thats what she wanted the of course.

lilith401's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:34 AM



if i could find one that didnt have a kid and was as smart as i am and was not as messed up as i am ud wanna see her every day. then id play her songs on my guitar and write her letters and make her fall madly in love with me. thats how i roll emeffer.


Yeah, and make her dinner and rub her feet and make slow sweet love to her every night, right? :tongue:
If thats what she wanted the of course.


Uh huh... you tell her, dammit! rofl

fairycatcher31's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:37 AM
4 days a week is not bad....every day is not bad but I do agree you need to have your "you" time as well!!

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Fri 02/20/09 11:43 AM

if i could find one that didnt have a kid and was as smart as i am


Yeah, that's been my whole problem, too....!!

shades


7z3r05's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:45 AM


if i could find one that didnt have a kid and was as smart as i am


Yeah, that's been my whole problem, too....!!

shades


the bane of the true romantic

Jess642's photo
Fri 02/20/09 01:31 PM
it's been four years at Easter....


absence makes the heart grow fonder is a crock of sh*te...grumble grumble


:wink: laugh

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 02/20/09 02:26 PM

How often do you want to see them? Is it needy to want to see them like 4 days a week?


If there's sea shells on the toilet and makeup in the bathroom, I'm thinking at least all day, clothing optional.

livelife68's photo
Fri 02/20/09 02:29 PM

How often do you want to see them? Is it needy to want to see them like 4 days a week?


4 days isn't bad. It still gives you time to yourself. It depends on the situation and people involved. Some people just need a little more space.

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 02/20/09 03:09 PM

How often do you want to see them? Is it needy to want to see them like 4 days a week?


How soon into the relationship are we talking?
If this is just starting well sorry 4 days a week would be a bit much for me. I work alot of hours and I need melt down time for me. 2x a week would be a great start and build up to more.

Sorry to rain on your parade a bit. If this relationship is still in the let's say 90 day period that would feel like smothering to me.

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