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Both. Give her space to let her do what she needs to and in the mean time check out your options. She knows that after what she has said "ie. needing time for her business" she runs the risk of losing you. Take that into consideration when you talk/meet with other women. But if this women is worth the wait AND she thinks you are as well she will come back to you when she gets a handle on her business situation. I have been too busy to date in the past, and have took "breaks" from the dating scene to put a handle on my personal business. In the end it is for the best. For one reason, when I was ready to date again, I could focus clearly on the relationship and I had a healthy grasp on my priorties/tasks.
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her biz was suffering before i came along, i was in the shop, nice, very nice but no cust. all the while i was there, about 3 hours. she said she will call. not a word yet
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her biz was suffering before i came along, i was in the shop, nice, very nice but no cust. all the while i was there, about 3 hours. she said she will call. not a word yet I've said my piece and in my mind this only confirms it. Good luck!! |
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Be cautious. It sounds suspicious. Ask her if you can help in anyway and see what her answer is....???  That might shed some insight. Sorry to sound suspicious but how do you go from hot to cold in the span of a second? Sounds suspicious. I like this thought. If you ask her and she says no. You can make a better choice. 
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Edited by
deWonderer
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Thu 02/19/09 04:51 PM
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thanks for your time and input. i think you all have great thoughts and insight in this matter. i am going to wait but keep my options open. what else can i do. i do really like her alot. can only hope she feels the same.
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thanks for your time and input. i think you all have great thoughts and insight in this matter. i am going to wait but keep my options open. what else can i do. i do really like her alot. can only hope she feels the same. I am crossing all that I can for you.... 
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Definately keep your options open, you don't want to lose out something good instead of something that might be!!
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thanks for your time and input. i think you all have great thoughts and insight in this matter. i am going to wait but keep my options open. what else can i do. i do really like her alot. can only hope she feels the same. Just don't sit around waiting for the phone to ring (although I suspect that's what you are going to do). Actively look around. You never know what else you may find. 
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If you really like her, just give her some time.
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Isn't is amazing how fast some people are quick to give someone advise to walk away and to dump someone.
just saying |
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I'd give her time. It don't cost ya nothing. But keep your eyes open if she is having financial problems she might just be looking for somebody to tap for some quick cash.
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Isn't is amazing how fast some people are quick to give someone advise to walk away and to dump someone. just saying Good Point there.... something to think about. |
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Isn't is amazing how fast some people are quick to give someone advise to walk away and to dump someone. just saying Doesn't seem like he's the one walking away does it????????? |
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Isn't is amazing how fast some people are quick to give someone advise to walk away and to dump someone. just saying Doesn't seem like he's the one walking away does it????????? feeling guilty??????????  No one is walking by what I read. She's concerned for her business which was suffering and he witnessed it. She asked for time to get her business in order. I don't see anything wrong with it. |
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I think you know what you want to do!! You are just looking for reinforcement one way or the other. The problem is this is non-biased arena, and you will get opinions pro and con. You already have pro and con floating around in your head. Write them all down on a pro and con list your fears, your hope, your impressions of the emails, etc. everything you can think of. When you are all done you will have a list to make you decision by. My best advice without taking either side of the situation, because no matter how much I argue either side for you, the ultimate decision comes down to you!! Good luck with it!!
 
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Isn't is amazing how fast some people are quick to give someone advise to walk away and to dump someone. just saying Doesn't seem like he's the one walking away does it????????? feeling guilty?????????? No one is walking by what I read. She's concerned for her business which was suffering and he witnessed it. She asked for time to get her business in order. I don't see anything wrong with it. Why would I feel guilty? I REPEAT, If she was concerned with her business why did she start up in the first place? She's realized she's taken on more than she can handle. It's a load of crap, and I'm not going to change my mind on it. |
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Oh excuse me while I get my life in order. I'm sorry I caused you to have feelings for me me if you could only give me 6 weeks or 6 months or 6 years. And oh, by the way, if a rich handsome guy happens to come along, while your waiting on my ass, so sorry you are SOL!!!
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Isn't is amazing how fast some people are quick to give someone advise to walk away and to dump someone. just saying Doesn't seem like he's the one walking away does it????????? feeling guilty?????????? No one is walking by what I read. She's concerned for her business which was suffering and he witnessed it. She asked for time to get her business in order. I don't see anything wrong with it. Why would I feel guilty? I REPEAT, If she was concerned with her business why did she start up in the first place? She's realized she's taken on more than she can handle. It's a load of crap, and I'm not going to change my mind on it. That's some nerve and a load of crap You can think how you like, how it best suits you, just as I do and will. No problem. Yet I REPEAT, it's so easy to tell another, walk away, dump him/her, she/he is not worth it, don't you realize you get what you put in a relationship, in your job, in every aspect of life. Why'd she start up? Start what? They met and got along, isn't that one of the many reasons we are all here Can't help but to think, misery loves company
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i met a woman on line, we meet, sparks fly and we see each other 3 times in 3 weeks "after a long chat to get to know each other" she lives 72 miles away. v-day weekend was great. we work well together. she owns a store in the village were she lives, the store is bearly hanging on. this past monday, she calls and says she needs to take a break from me that she can't consentrate on her store and chat with me everyday. ok she claims she likes me very much and will call when things with the shop get better. should i wait or just move on? Move on... I have a buisness and in life you are going to have setbacks.. Relationships are going to have to endure all sorts of trials... Isnt that what were looking for in a friend, lover, helpmate? de-wonderer |
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It sure as hell is not why I'm here any more.
I hope things work out for the guy, but people need to use their head in tandem with their heart. Apparently they did not get along well enough for her not to give him a semi-blow off... Let's stop. He's going to wait around on her ass anyway. |
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