Topic: Do you care?
davidben1's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:05 PM


it is easy to spot and actor and a fake, as the reason given for it's own actions will be because of a belief???

the only true reality is what actually happen, not what one surmizes will happen even before it happen???

it cannot be true reality if it is what self chase as a belief???

the greatest evidence of what be real and true self is one only seeing and saying it does what it want in each situation???

following a good belief is like following a ghost, and a ghost is always the first to profess itself be what it think is all good things???


wtf?


guess that means you don't agree, lol.....

buttons's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:08 PM
i only post in the ones i see of whom i know or like yours cause i knew you were feeling so horrible i did feel for you... some of them i miss also that i would of posted in.. and some of them i just plain miss on purpose..when they make the same ole posts whinning all the time it gets old... and i try to stay out of those threads<for my own good>laugh i dont know you.. but i felt for you... for i had mono before myself.. it was horrible.. lost my necklaugh laugh a head on shoulders and no jawline or neck! im glad you are feeling better!flowerforyou flowerforyou i especially dig the threads that are made of an illness and go 30 pages and no update? hummm...at least u popped in and your girl to give us updates.. thats why i kept reading it again and againflowerforyou

buttons's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:09 PM



it is easy to spot and actor and a fake, as the reason given for it's own actions will be because of a belief???

the only true reality is what actually happen, not what one surmizes will happen even before it happen???

it cannot be true reality if it is what self chase as a belief???

the greatest evidence of what be real and true self is one only seeing and saying it does what it want in each situation???

following a good belief is like following a ghost, and a ghost is always the first to profess itself be what it think is all good things???


wtf?


guess that means you don't agree, lol.....
No it means.. what country did you learn your english in?laugh laugh

no photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:12 PM
While I am always concerned for those who are mentioned in such forum threads, I can't say I'm distressed to the point of tears.

davidben1's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:14 PM




it is easy to spot and actor and a fake, as the reason given for it's own actions will be because of a belief???

the only true reality is what actually happen, not what one surmizes will happen even before it happen???

it cannot be true reality if it is what self chase as a belief???

the greatest evidence of what be real and true self is one only seeing and saying it does what it want in each situation???

following a good belief is like following a ghost, and a ghost is always the first to profess itself be what it think is all good things???


wtf?


guess that means you don't agree, lol.....
No it means.. what country did you learn your english in?laugh laugh


it's philosophy man, you gotta read it slooooooooooooooooooooooow, lol.......

it is designed so that if one actually read and absorb it, it envoke deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeper thought???

lol.....

peace man


misstina2's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:15 PM
Edited by misstina2 on Thu 02/12/09 09:16 PM
flowerforyou I do care just reading someone is going through something bad touches meflowerforyou I guess I'm an emotional galflowerforyou I can recall a very touching story of a regular that was here way back and she diedflowerforyou reading her story did bring me to tearsflowerforyou

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:19 PM





it is easy to spot and actor and a fake, as the reason given for it's own actions will be because of a belief???

the only true reality is what actually happen, not what one surmizes will happen even before it happen???

it cannot be true reality if it is what self chase as a belief???

the greatest evidence of what be real and true self is one only seeing and saying it does what it want in each situation???

following a good belief is like following a ghost, and a ghost is always the first to profess itself be what it think is all good things???


wtf?


guess that means you don't agree, lol.....
No it means.. what country did you learn your english in?laugh laugh


it's philosophy man, you gotta read it slooooooooooooooooooooooow, lol.......

it is designed so that if one actually read and absorb it, it envoke deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeper thought???

lol.....

peace man




Ayn Rand fan, perhaps?

davidben1's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:23 PM






it is easy to spot and actor and a fake, as the reason given for it's own actions will be because of a belief???

the only true reality is what actually happen, not what one surmizes will happen even before it happen???

it cannot be true reality if it is what self chase as a belief???

the greatest evidence of what be real and true self is one only seeing and saying it does what it want in each situation???

following a good belief is like following a ghost, and a ghost is always the first to profess itself be what it think is all good things???


wtf?


guess that means you don't agree, lol.....
No it means.. what country did you learn your english in?laugh laugh


it's philosophy man, you gotta read it slooooooooooooooooooooooow, lol.......

it is designed so that if one actually read and absorb it, it envoke deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeper thought???

lol.....

peace man




Ayn Rand fan, perhaps?


never heard of her???

but i am a fan of all living things equally.........

buttons's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:23 PM





it is easy to spot and actor and a fake, as the reason given for it's own actions will be because of a belief???

the only true reality is what actually happen, not what one surmizes will happen even before it happen???

it cannot be true reality if it is what self chase as a belief???

the greatest evidence of what be real and true self is one only seeing and saying it does what it want in each situation???

following a good belief is like following a ghost, and a ghost is always the first to profess itself be what it think is all good things???


wtf?


guess that means you don't agree, lol.....
No it means.. what country did you learn your english in?laugh laugh


it's philosophy man, you gotta read it slooooooooooooooooooooooow, lol.......

it is designed so that if one actually read and absorb it, it envoke deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeper thought???

lol.....

peace man


pulling down my pants... omg!!! where did my thingie go to? did you just bite it off?laugh laugh

davidben1's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:38 PM
Edited by davidben1 on Thu 02/12/09 09:39 PM






it is easy to spot and actor and a fake, as the reason given for it's own actions will be because of a belief???

the only true reality is what actually happen, not what one surmizes will happen even before it happen???

it cannot be true reality if it is what self chase as a belief???

the greatest evidence of what be real and true self is one only seeing and saying it does what it want in each situation???

following a good belief is like following a ghost, and a ghost is always the first to profess itself be what it think is all good things???


wtf?


guess that means you don't agree, lol.....
No it means.. what country did you learn your english in?laugh laugh


it's philosophy man, you gotta read it slooooooooooooooooooooooow, lol.......

it is designed so that if one actually read and absorb it, it envoke deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeper thought???

lol.....

peace man


pulling down my pants... omg!!! where did my thingie go to? did you just bite it off?laugh laugh


OMG......

did i turn you on???

i am so sorry!!!

i should have told you already, i'm not gay!!!

maybe another nice gentleman will be kind enough to indulge you, lol......

eileena9's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:40 PM

flowerforyou I do care just reading someone is going through something bad touches meflowerforyou I guess I'm an emotional galflowerforyou I can recall a very touching story of a regular that was here way back and she diedflowerforyou reading her story did bring me to tearsflowerforyou


Tina, I think you are talking about NascarCutie, she joined before I did and came down with cancer. After going thru her chemo treatments and everything her life was getting back on track. Until she was hit by a drunk driver and was in a coma for almost two weeks before she passed on. I will admit, I cry when I think of this special lady. The balloons on my profile are for her.


Yes, I do care when something happens to people on here. I am on here everyday chatting with people and getting to know them, even if I never get to meet them face to face. A person's words can bring peace to you when you are in a difficult situation. I went thru a hard time the past four months and just reading kind words from people, made me feel a little bit stronger.

Even if the only time they thought about me was the few seconds it took for them to post a smiley blowing a kiss and holding a flower, it helped me. Made me feel less alone, even when surrounded by family members.

buttons's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:42 PM


flowerforyou I do care just reading someone is going through something bad touches meflowerforyou I guess I'm an emotional galflowerforyou I can recall a very touching story of a regular that was here way back and she diedflowerforyou reading her story did bring me to tearsflowerforyou


Tina, I think you are talking about NascarCutie, she joined before I did and came down with cancer. After going thru her chemo treatments and everything her life was getting back on track. Until she was hit by a drunk driver and was in a coma for almost two weeks before she passed on. I will admit, I cry when I think of this special lady. The balloons on my profile are for her.


Yes, I do care when something happens to people on here. I am on here everyday chatting with people and getting to know them, even if I never get to meet them face to face. A person's words can bring peace to you when you are in a difficult situation. I went thru a hard time the past four months and just reading kind words from people, made me feel a little bit stronger.

Even if the only time they thought about me was the few seconds it took for them to post a smiley blowing a kiss and holding a flower, it helped me. Made me feel less alone, even when surrounded by family members.
damn!!! i miss that girl!!! she was so sweet!

buttons's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:43 PM







it is easy to spot and actor and a fake, as the reason given for it's own actions will be because of a belief???

the only true reality is what actually happen, not what one surmizes will happen even before it happen???

it cannot be true reality if it is what self chase as a belief???

the greatest evidence of what be real and true self is one only seeing and saying it does what it want in each situation???

following a good belief is like following a ghost, and a ghost is always the first to profess itself be what it think is all good things???


wtf?


guess that means you don't agree, lol.....
No it means.. what country did you learn your english in?laugh laugh


it's philosophy man, you gotta read it slooooooooooooooooooooooow, lol.......

it is designed so that if one actually read and absorb it, it envoke deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeper thought???

lol.....

peace man


pulling down my pants... omg!!! where did my thingie go to? did you just bite it off?laugh laugh


OMG......

did i turn you on???

i am so sorry!!!

i should have told you already, i'm not gay!!!

maybe another nice gentleman will be kind enough to indulge you, lol......
do you shave your legs?

misstina2's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:43 PM
She must have been quite a ladyflowerforyou what a moving thread that way:cry: :cry: :cry:

misstina2's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:44 PM


flowerforyou I do care just reading someone is going through something bad touches meflowerforyou I guess I'm an emotional galflowerforyou I can recall a very touching story of a regular that was here way back and she diedflowerforyou reading her story did bring me to tearsflowerforyou


Tina, I think you are talking about NascarCutie, she joined before I did and came down with cancer. After going thru her chemo treatments and everything her life was getting back on track. Until she was hit by a drunk driver and was in a coma for almost two weeks before she passed on. I will admit, I cry when I think of this special lady. The balloons on my profile are for her.


Yes, I do care when something happens to people on here. I am on here everyday chatting with people and getting to know them, even if I never get to meet them face to face. A person's words can bring peace to you when you are in a difficult situation. I went thru a hard time the past four months and just reading kind words from people, made me feel a little bit stronger.

Even if the only time they thought about me was the few seconds it took for them to post a smiley blowing a kiss and holding a flower, it helped me. Made me feel less alone, even when surrounded by family members.
flowerforyou I can tell you are a wonderful personflowerforyou

Dan99's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:44 PM

i only post in the ones i see of whom i know or like yours cause i knew you were feeling so horrible i did feel for you... some of them i miss also that i would of posted in.. and some of them i just plain miss on purpose..when they make the same ole posts whinning all the time it gets old... and i try to stay out of those threads<for my own good>laugh i dont know you.. but i felt for you... for i had mono before myself.. it was horrible.. lost my necklaugh laugh a head on shoulders and no jawline or neck! im glad you are feeling better!flowerforyou flowerforyou i especially dig the threads that are made of an illness and go 30 pages and no update? hummm...at least u popped in and your girl to give us updates.. thats why i kept reading it again and againflowerforyou


You might have missed the most recent updates then, they are saying now that i had Hepatitis E rather than mono.

Genuine thoughts and sympathy i have no problem with, quite the opposite in fact, they are appreciated.

I must read through that thread again and see if i can spot any false sympathy!

Dan99's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:46 PM

While I am always concerned for those who are mentioned in such forum threads, I can't say I'm distressed to the point of tears.


Some people are though, so they say..

papersmile's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:49 PM
I don't think it's a matter of not caring, but rather an ability to distance yourself somewhat from someone that you don't know very well.

If I don't know the person, unless it involves a child, I usually stay away from those types of threads. Even though they are posted to the public, I always feel as though I am intruding on their personal and private grief (because I am not a friend and/or family).

misstina2's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:51 PM
flowerforyou sometimes even if you don't know the person you can still feel their painflowerforyou

74Drew's photo
Thu 02/12/09 09:51 PM

When you see a thread and someone is ill, dying, dead or whatever..do you REALLY give a damn?

I ask because i see a lot of falseness, and people PRETENDING to care.

Most often, if i am honest, i couldnt give a damn. For me it all depends on how well i know somebody. A friends son passed away very recently and i DO care, i have know her a long time and met her in person twice.

But when its someone i dont really know, which is the case for the majority of people here, or its this someone's friend, relative or budgie, it doesnt really provoke any interest or emotion in me. So what?! There is sh1t happening to people all over the world that i dont know, its not my problem and there is nothing i can do about it anyway...oh look a peanut..

So...who really does care for peoples problems when they dont know the people?


i'm like you and worse.

most of the time i don't care about the people i know. not that i'm an a$$ about it, but everybody dies and i've already accepted that. therefore, when somebody dies i don't' get all worked up over it. my life won't stop just because someone elses has. i have a hard time relating to people who have a hard time coping with loss.
i know that as part of this thing called humanity i shouldn't be like this, but it's just the way i am.