Topic: Is it healthy to be around the person you're...
scorpio90's photo
Tue 02/10/09 09:51 PM
...interested in when you know they're not interested in you.:tongue:

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Tue 02/10/09 09:52 PM
Probably not, as the chance of going through unrequited love is quite high.

darkowl1's photo
Tue 02/10/09 09:54 PM
winger.....headed for a heartbreak

tngxl65's photo
Tue 02/10/09 09:55 PM
As long as you really know they're not interested. I mean the same thing breaks up marriages. It surely will break up a one-sided crush.

BrowsingM's photo
Tue 02/10/09 09:57 PM
Depends... could be potentially VERY dangerous.. I mean.. I know personally when I am in that situation.. I tend to think that the other person is going to suddenly start to be interested in me.. and I might mistake something friendly as a move.. or read it as.."im interested in you"... in which case you can horribly embarass yourself (speaking from experience) or end up hurting yourself in the end.

IF.. and by a slim chance.. you are able to be in that relationship of...being just friends and not think that there is a chance if you stick around long enough...the friendship might be a worth while one.

But to say its a healthy thing.. I would have to say no.. someone will usually end up hurt in the end. Be Careful!!!

scorpio90's photo
Tue 02/10/09 10:00 PM
Thanks for the advice ya'll. I really appreciate it.:wink:

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 02/10/09 10:19 PM
When an east bound and west bound train are on the same track heading toward one another.......



Bad things are gonna happen!

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Wed 02/11/09 01:42 AM

...interested in when you know they're not interested in you.:tongue:

No.

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 02/11/09 01:46 AM
It's not necessarily unhealthy, just painful don'tcha think? brokenheart flowerforyou

19jack69's photo
Wed 02/11/09 01:59 AM
How can you be interested after knowing they are not? Isn't that like that macrocosm of rape?frustrated

s1owhand's photo
Wed 02/11/09 02:01 AM

...interested in when you know they're not interested in you.:tongue:


as long as everyone's recently tested and you use
protection?

laugh

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Wed 02/11/09 06:22 AM
:cry: My imaginary friend said no and told me to go home. :cry:

MsCarmen's photo
Wed 02/11/09 06:53 AM

How can you be interested after knowing they are not? Isn't that like that macrocosm of rape?frustrated


Your interest might be lessened over time, but it's not like there is an automatic shut-off button. If that was the case, then you really weren't that interested in them in the first place.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 02/11/09 07:15 AM
smokin Negativesmokin

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Wed 02/11/09 07:17 AM
No... ohwell