Topic: FEVER
drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 05:49 AM
my deal is i never had a girlfriend no lady said to me that she loved me i just want what every body else had

franshade's photo
Tue 02/10/09 05:52 AM

my deal is i never had a girlfriend no lady said to me that she loved me i just want what every body else had


yikes, be careful whatcha wish for?

I have a bicycle, does that mean you need/want a bicycle like mine???

what makes you think that because someone else has 'something' or has experienced 'something' you are entitled or due?


drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 05:57 AM
i never been loved by anyone i never had love in my life

franshade's photo
Tue 02/10/09 05:59 AM

i never been loved by anyone i never had love in my life


good luck to you drew


drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:07 AM
i like myself very much but why is it hard for someone to like me to say thay love me to say hay i like you tooo. To say how was your day or to ask how do i feel no one does that or ask me that.

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:08 AM
There is a difference between wanting something and needing something.

Need speaks of inadequecy. People are drawn to a person who is together, needs nothing, and wants their life to be enhanced. If I meet someone who comes across as needy? What I need to do at that point is walk away.

drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:12 AM
i^m not needy i have my life together all that i want is a lady in my life someone to love me and i will love her too

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:15 AM
Then maybe you should examine your communication style... what information you provide and in what manner is it conveyed.

All I can say is that several posts in this thread seem needy. My observation is objective, no reason for it to be biased or skewed in any way. It might just be possible others are picking up that same vibe.

franshade's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:23 AM

So how does this relate to making a girl feel good? Remember the golden rule that people will feel comfortable around you IF you feel comfortable yourself. Same applies to feeling good, if you feel good, then she shall feel good as well. Enjoy life, be happy and it shall be contagious. In order to make her feel good, she must be happy to be around you.



Nice little excerpt of your profile. What happened to this man? - good luck to ya flowerforyou

drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:24 AM
when i write to someone i^m very very nice i ask about there day i ask about how thay are i talk about stuff on there profile and i do talk about sex when i talk to them

franshade's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:25 AM
sweet molasses slaphead

that response was meant for???

I give up biggrin

drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:30 AM
that was when i was happy about this site i thought that since i^m new i was going to find someone but that was then this is now

drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:33 AM
when i meet someone i wont come on strong i dont want to chase them off and say go out with me now

buttons's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:36 AM
get happy, possitive and take some pictures smiling... perhaps that will help?

drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:41 AM
pics wont help i did that girls and ladys alike ALL THAY CARE ABOUT ARE LOOOKS I^M NOT A HOT GUY AND I^M NOT A SKINNY ASS GUY EITHER THATS ALL THAY CARE ABOUT

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:54 AM
You get what you give.

I'm not sure what is difficult about what we are all saying here.

You seem more determined to argue your strategies and give excuses than to look within. We are not at all trying to pick on you, but rather show you a potential for a perspective you are not seeing.

RKISIT's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:58 AM

pics wont help i did that girls and ladys alike ALL THAY CARE ABOUT ARE LOOOKS I^M NOT A HOT GUY AND I^M NOT A SKINNY ASS GUY EITHER THATS ALL THAY CARE ABOUT
one thing is you can start with a little more confidence in yourself.second is have patience try other sites,try to meet women in the outside world and don't seem desperate...women can read a desperate man:smile:

buttons's photo
Tue 02/10/09 06:58 AM

pics wont help i did that girls and ladys alike ALL THAY CARE ABOUT ARE LOOOKS I^M NOT A HOT GUY AND I^M NOT A SKINNY ASS GUY EITHER THATS ALL THAY CARE ABOUT
the way you carry yourself has nothing at all to do with looks..... someone could be the ugliest person and have a gorgeous warm smile. frown if you wish ... and if you think smiling wont make you look better inside then that is your thinking... who wants to be miserable?? better yet... who wants to be around a person who chooses to be miserable? best of luck in your ventures...

no photo
Tue 02/10/09 07:05 AM
attitude is everything... and frankly yours is one that no woman would want to see on a regular basis..people on here have given you some hints or advice and you continue to fight it.. So that leaves you with you..good luck.

drew1on79's photo
Tue 02/10/09 07:08 AM
i know but some people has it easy to meet people me i have a hard time in finding someone