ever received one of those emotionally shallow and senseless threat letters for a jealous ex gf/bf? I did one time several years ago. But I had to mess with him, you know asked him if he was coming to our wedding, offered to fly him in and such. LOL needless to say it didn't go over well and I finally had to block him.

I never recieved a letter ... but I was handed the phone one time when he was screaming at her about me.... I told him to lick my balls and that he knew where to find me cause I was staying at her house.

We never heard from him again

Nope, I haven't.... But that's hilarious Peccy!

i had my ex's husband walk up to me and try to set me straight. i'm not sure if it's the same thing, but i think it's close.

An uber-violent ex-girlfriend did it to me a while ago. She said she was dating some uber bad-ass MMA dude who was gonna "kick the living s#!t" outta me and stuff, among other things.

I told her to go ahead and send him over, which she never did.

Of course, said ex-girlfriend was a redhead, so I was kind of expecting that kind of treatment.

I had an affair with a woman and the guy called me and told me he was going to kill me. I am still waiting for him to try.

That more than qualifies, at least he had the balls to do it face to face.

I don't know if you would consider this me being jealous, but during my marriage, my husband and I separated because things weren't going so well. We got back together after a couple of months and this girl that he said "he was just friends with" kept calling him and coming to see him at work. (Keep in mind I was only about 20 years old at the time and extremely naive and stupid.)

So I sent the girl a letter and told her that if she called, went near his workplace, or had any contact with him whatsoever I would beat her a$$.

Little did I know at the time that they had been seeing each other while we were apart and he was the one that was instigating everything. He knew I was serious so to protect her, and to prevent me from finding out, he ended all contact with her.

i don't think he knew we were having sex. he slimed his way in while i was away in basic training. when i got back she was married but that didn't stop her from coming after me.
he just wanted to let me know that she was with him now.
as far as i know they're still together. good for him. better for me, i don't need a woman like that in my life anyway.

The guy is still in iraq...so mabe the iraqs could do me a soild he was realy mean to her to start with. Thats why same came to me beleave it or not

amen brother ... you are better off

Wow. Not only do you have the Uncle Fester look working for you....you are also a complete ass.

Wishing death on someone is just plain bulls*it.

thats right hate me fill the world with just a wee bit more of it with out knowing the whole story is a man who hits his girl realy fit to live?

I don't care what he does.

No man should have death wished upon him just to ease your conscience about being the one his wife uses to cheat on him.

i have no feelings of guilt. I just know he is going to do it again when he gets back and put her thought more of it so i would rather him go and her be free and i wouldnt want her to be with me i'd want her to have a normal guy and not have to worry about about any thing. It has nothing to do with me. I am out of her life.

I personaly know the man he is scum and what he dose to her isnt right he has her trained like a damn dog. My moral code judges him as unfit to serve and unfit to live in general.

But yet she stays.

Right now would be the perfect opportunity to file for a divorce. But yet...she stays and just cheats on him with you.

Sorry, dude. But that doesn't say a whole lot for either of you.

she isnt with me any more not since december and she stays with him because she told me if she leaves he will go after her and who ever she is with she is afraid and i am totaly out of her life becuase if i stayed it would of ended badly when he got back for one of us.

Judge me what you will others views on me ceased to matter a long time ago.

about 6months ago, i got this email from some guy from freecycle its a group in yahoo. and the funny part was he was looking for someone to get to know, i met him and im glad i didnt hook up with him.. any how a week or two later i get this email from this girl stating i see that your his new girlfriend. i email her back and told her no im not and for what he had told me i wouldnt want to be, aparently he had been playing with her emotions. and i ask her how she got his passcode, well he was dumb enough and gave it to her.. havent heard anything again from her, and im not worried about it..

You know, I'm not even going to address the affair issue, since the one individual thinks an affair is worse than spousal abuse.

Personally, I think spousal abuse is far far worse. I have to agree that people like that don't deserve to live and would have to support a death with on the person.

I get so sick of tired of people so just say the person should leave and think it is just that easy. They imply that a person who doesn't leave deserves to be beaten and threatened and who knows what else. It shows a complete lack of understanding of the psychology of fear and manipulation that keeps a person trapped in that place. And the police are not that effective when it comes to protecting the people that do manage to leave. If they were, there wouldn't be so many murders of women after they have left an abuser. Nor would they be as many women in jail for killing the abuser in self defense.

Moon. If you are referring to me, I didn't say that I think one is worse than the other.

I said that no one deserves death wished upon them.

Wanna beat the sh*t out of the guy?? Absolutely no argument from me.

Wanna have his ass thrown in jail??? No argument.

Want to see him dead??? There, you will get an argument from me.



Huh. That's an awful lot of stuff to read into what was a pretty simple observation.

The guy is 1000's of miles away.

Now...I don't know if they have children or not ( because I didn't ask ) but if they don't...she could pretty easily file for divorce at this point.

She's afraid he'll come after her?? I can understand that. But this would be a better opportunity for her to get away than any she is likely to run into again.