Topic: I meet this wonderful girl BUT!!!
MsCarmen's photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:39 AM
Edited by MsCarmen on Thu 02/05/09 08:40 AM
You can't really be this naive can you?

I'm mean come on. You've been seeing her for 4 months, you tell her that you love her, she claims to love you but she says is "I'm everybody's gal".

If you can't tell that she is playing you then you need to just give up dating altogether! noway



Ruth34611's photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:39 AM

the question is well i guess advice im seeking is should i stop seeing her see the deal is with me is that when i talk to another girl when im with her online like on facebook she gets mad and she ask why are u talking to her instead of me and i say to her your not my girl i ask u lots of times to be so i like her alot i dont want to hurt her


Head games. frustrated Walk away. You'll get over the pain in time and then you can focus on meeting a girl who actually wants to be your girl.

drew1on79's photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:40 AM
yes oct of last year she is a nurse very her job keeps her away and im ok with that i only see her on mondays and tuesdays the rest of the week online on facebook

no photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:47 AM
You want commitment, she wants commitment from you but isn't willing to give it herself. She's dangling you on a string, keeping you around in case nothing better comes along. Choice is yours, who do you love more, you or her? Cause it's only gonna end one way. Dance, puppet boy, dance!

That last line was a bad joke but you should think about that flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:53 AM
Facebook? Why not on the phone?

Seems mighty odd to me.

drew1on79's photo
Thu 02/05/09 09:00 AM
we do talk on our cell phones but on facebook we talk and play poker and blackjack and other stuff together

lilith401's photo
Thu 02/05/09 09:01 AM
Get over the drama or walk away from it. It is your choice, but you have your answer already. Accept what you got or move on.

drew1on79's photo
Thu 02/05/09 09:12 AM
i will ask one more time if she says no then im gone

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 02/05/09 09:19 AM

i will ask one more time if she says no then im gone


Okay, this may sound harsh, but I'm going to say it anyway. You are making a fool of yourself over this girl and she undoubtedly has no respect for you. Don't ask her one more time. Just let it go. And, if she says anything to you about her being jealous, just tell her that since you two are not together she has no right to tell you who you can and cannot talk to you. Stand up for yourself, be a man. You both will have a lot more respect for you.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 02/05/09 09:30 AM
Good gawd man!!! Grow a freaking SPINE.

drew1on79's photo
Thu 02/05/09 10:10 AM
well i thank all of you who made a post on here means alot to me

lilith401's photo
Thu 02/05/09 10:13 AM


i will ask one more time if she says no then im gone


Okay, this may sound harsh, but I'm going to say it anyway. You are making a fool of yourself over this girl and she undoubtedly has no respect for you. Don't ask her one more time. Just let it go. And, if she says anything to you about her being jealous, just tell her that since you two are not together she has no right to tell you who you can and cannot talk to you. Stand up for yourself, be a man. You both will have a lot more respect for you.


Word, sistah!

Marley's photo
Thu 02/05/09 10:17 AM

the question is well i guess advice im seeking is should i stop seeing her see the deal is with me is that when i talk to another girl when im with her online like on facebook she gets mad and she ask why are u talking to her instead of me and i say to her your not my girl i ask u lots of times to be so i like her alot i dont want to hurt her



thatthatisisthatthatisnotisnotisititis

i hate punctuation too or if she truly is every guys friend you might be getting an unexpected present

buttons's photo
Tue 02/10/09 07:56 AM
contradictive threads here

franshade's photo
Tue 02/10/09 08:01 AM

contradictive threads here


yay I am not alone laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 02/10/09 08:03 AM
She's just a piece of ass, nothing more.

buttons's photo
Tue 02/10/09 08:03 AM


contradictive threads here


yay I am not alone laugh
never ! lollaugh

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 02/10/09 08:05 AM
i just got off the phone with her shocked

buttons's photo
Tue 02/10/09 08:10 AM

maybe your right maybe its time to move on but i still love her
hummmm

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 02/10/09 10:07 AM

ok i met this girl on a web site and i want to be more than just friends i ask her to be my girl but she says that she is everybodys girl she does not belong to just one guy but she says she loves me and i love her for what i see in her heart


It's a really a good idea to accept what she says at face value and move on.