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I heard a psychiatrist say that people do things because there is a 'pay-off'. They get something out of it. It may even be unconscious, but the behavior is repeated in order to get the pay-off. When I applied this thinging to a series of failed relationships I discovered something about myself. I am not going to discuss it here, but my next relationship lasted 18 yrs. And in truth, I have needed to recheck myself as to why it ended in divorce. It wasn't all her fault. So if you keep picking loser women, take a deep hard look within yourself. You are picking them for a reason. M. Michiganman, I would like to hear more about this. No little laughing emoticons for this, Winx. I am serious as a heart attack about this. Right after I moved out of the house I connected with the same woman I have always been attracted to and guess what? It ended the same way only quicker than before. I said, "Oh no, not again" But I was coming from the same place as before, doing the same things and getting the same results. Definition of insanity... Doing the exact same thing over, and over repeatedly hoping/striving for a different outcome. |
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How many of you guys out there have this problem? It seems that just about every woman I meet starts out totally sane/completely sound. But after just a few weeks... They turn into a complete psycho! Are they all nuts? Or do I just attract the crazy ones? I want serious answers. I don't know .. i've met my quota of mental men. 
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how about if you do different things hoping for the same outcome?
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 This should be a 5 pager or more. you just love watching things unravel in the threads, dontcha!
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I heard a psychiatrist say that people do things because there is a 'pay-off'. They get something out of it. It may even be unconscious, but the behavior is repeated in order to get the pay-off. When I applied this thinging to a series of failed relationships I discovered something about myself. I am not going to discuss it here, but my next relationship lasted 18 yrs. And in truth, I have needed to recheck myself as to why it ended in divorce. It wasn't all her fault. So if you keep picking loser women, take a deep hard look within yourself. You are picking them for a reason. M. Michiganman, I would like to hear more about this. No little laughing emoticons for this, Winx. I am serious as a heart attack about this. Right after I moved out of the house I connected with the same woman I have always been attracted to and guess what? It ended the same way only quicker than before. I said, "Oh no, not again" But I was coming from the same place as before, doing the same things and getting the same results. Definition of insanity... Doing the exact same thing over, and over repeatedly hoping/striving for a different outcome. Well your question was "Why do get the same crazy woman?" You are doing the same thing too, and getting the same result, bad relationships. |
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I heard a psychiatrist say that people do things because there is a 'pay-off'. They get something out of it. It may even be unconscious, but the behavior is repeated in order to get the pay-off. When I applied this thinging to a series of failed relationships I discovered something about myself. I am not going to discuss it here, but my next relationship lasted 18 yrs. And in truth, I have needed to recheck myself as to why it ended in divorce. It wasn't all her fault. So if you keep picking loser women, take a deep hard look within yourself. You are picking them for a reason. M. Michiganman, I would like to hear more about this. No little laughing emoticons for this, Winx. I am serious as a heart attack about this. Right after I moved out of the house I connected with the same woman I have always been attracted to and guess what? It ended the same way only quicker than before. I said, "Oh no, not again" But I was coming from the same place as before, doing the same things and getting the same results. Definition of insanity... Doing the exact same thing over, and over repeatedly hoping/striving for a different outcome. Well your question was "Why do get the same crazy woman?" You are doing the same thing too, and getting the same result, bad relationships. I agree MM .. good to see you hon 
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How many of you guys out there have this problem? It seems that just about every woman I meet starts out totally sane/completely sound. But after just a few weeks... They turn into a complete psycho! Are they all nuts? Or do I just attract the crazy ones? I want serious answers. ..........maybe its YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
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Fade, its good to be seen. 
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Maybe the initial question/topic would find more resolution through a mirror thread.
Rather than the "why things go schizoid", just make a thread about "Which guys have had more happy women and many chances with truly good relationships? How did those guys end up with those women, and why did it work?" I mean, if you're building racecars, just ask the guys/women who are winners already. Learn from the successes instead of asking failures for advice. |
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As do women have testosterone when they get older.. Yes, as we get older and wiser, it's best to follow the philosphy... "If you can't beat 'em, shoot 'em.... oh no, that's not it.... "If you can't beat'em, join 'em"... hence the testosterone found in older women |
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The sad part of it... The women I pick aren't interested in me. So I usually wind up with the ones that pick me. Those are the ones that smell crazy a mile away. |
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Ohhhh... You don't know me at all. First off... Have I directly insulted you in some way? Also... I'm not just talking about love-type relationships... I'm also talking about friendships too. Wanna know a secret? I see sick people Sometimes they don't know they're sick. 
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i won't say they're all crazy...
actually, nevermind -i take that back -- -- -- -- also - the guys are totally crazy too i represent that fact |
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