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Topic: I got a good one...
countrybelle6471 Joined Fri 06/15/07 Posts: 3150	Mon 02/02/09 08:21 PM
The sad part of it... The women I pick aren't interested in me. So I usually wind up with the ones that pick me. why settle? one day you will find one that you pick and that also picks you a quote "someday someone will walk into your life & make you realize why it never worked with anybody else" nice HUH

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Mon 02/02/09 08:22 PM
I heard a psychiatrist say that people do things because there is a 'pay-off'. They get something out of it. It may even be unconscious, but the behavior is repeated in order to get the pay-off. When I applied this thinging to a series of failed relationships I discovered something about myself. I am not going to discuss it here, but my next relationship lasted 18 yrs. And in truth, I have needed to recheck myself as to why it ended in divorce. It wasn't all her fault. So if you keep picking loser women, take a deep hard look within yourself. You are picking them for a reason. M. Michiganman, I would like to hear more about this.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 02/02/09 08:22 PM
This should be a 5 pager or more.

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 02/02/09 08:22 PM
I...........LOVE..........YOU......... DO ME NOW. you...damn....Sexy.....Youuuuuu!

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Mon 02/02/09 08:23 PM
The sad part of it... The women I pick aren't interested in me. So I usually wind up with the ones that pick me. Why don't you wait it out until you find the ones that you are interested in?

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Mon 02/02/09 08:24 PM Edited by Atlantis75 on Mon 02/02/09 08:25 PM
Crazy women with estrogen are after Wraithme. ..At least she has a goal and knows what she is doing, unlike the rest. She is kinda hot if you watch it in slow motion, just needs a new hairstyle.

wraithme66 Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 1909	Mon 02/02/09 08:26 PM
The sad part of it... The women I pick aren't interested in me. So I usually wind up with the ones that pick me. Why don't you wait it out until you find the ones that you are interested in? Sometimes that happens...

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 02/02/09 08:27 PM
Seriously. Let me eat your soul.......just a little bit.

wraithme66 Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 1909	Mon 02/02/09 08:28 PM
Seriously. Let me eat your soul.......just a little bit. You know... I think this is the first time I made you angry on here?

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Mon 02/02/09 08:29 PM
How many of you guys out there have this problem? It seems that just about every woman I meet starts out totally sane/completely sound. But after just a few weeks... They turn into a complete psycho! Are they all nuts? Or do I just attract the crazy ones? I want serious answers. Okay, here's serious. We seek people at our own level of health, or lack thereof. That being said, Yes, I attract people as crazy as me. Sometimes they don't know it. Oh, and contrary to the myth that women make men crazy, they don't. They just expose our natural tendencies.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 02/02/09 08:29 PM
The sad part of it... The women I pick aren't interested in me. So I usually wind up with the ones that pick me. Why don't you wait it out until you find the ones that you are interested in? It's that instant gratification thing. Why wait when you can settle for something now?

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 02/02/09 08:30 PM Edited by ljcc1964 on Mon 02/02/09 08:30 PM
Seriously. Let me eat your soul.......just a little bit. You know... I think this is the first time I made you angry on here? You think I'm angry? Awww....that's so cute! So how about that soul? huh?

ReddBeans Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 6930	Mon 02/02/09 08:30 PM


michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Mon 02/02/09 08:30 PM
I heard a psychiatrist say that people do things because there is a 'pay-off'. They get something out of it. It may even be unconscious, but the behavior is repeated in order to get the pay-off. When I applied this thinging to a series of failed relationships I discovered something about myself. I am not going to discuss it here, but my next relationship lasted 18 yrs. And in truth, I have needed to recheck myself as to why it ended in divorce. It wasn't all her fault. So if you keep picking loser women, take a deep hard look within yourself. You are picking them for a reason. M. Michiganman, I would like to hear more about this. No little laughing emoticons for this, Winx. I am serious as a heart attack about this. Right after I moved out of the house I connected with the same woman I have always been attracted to and guess what? It ended the same way only quicker than before. I said, "Oh no, not again" But I was coming from the same place as before, doing the same things and getting the same results.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 02/02/09 08:31 PM
Seriously. Let me eat your soul.......just a little bit. You know... I think this is the first time I made you angry on here? maybe you should appoligise to her

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Mon 02/02/09 08:33 PM Edited by Winx on Mon 02/02/09 08:33 PM
Crazy women with estrogen are after Wraithme. ..At least she has a goal and knows what she is doing, unlike the rest. She is kinda hot if you watch it in slow motion, just needs a new hairstyle. You made it go in slow motion?

wraithme66 Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 1909	Mon 02/02/09 08:33 PM
The sad part of it... The women I pick aren't interested in me. So I usually wind up with the ones that pick me. Why don't you wait it out until you find the ones that you are interested in? It's that instant gratification thing. Why wait when you can settle for something now? Ohhhh... You don't know me at all. First off... Have I directly insulted you in some way? Also... I'm not just talking about love-type relationships... I'm also talking about friendships too.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 02/02/09 08:34 PM
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time...yeah, don't do it

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Mon 02/02/09 08:34 PM
I heard a psychiatrist say that people do things because there is a 'pay-off'. They get something out of it. It may even be unconscious, but the behavior is repeated in order to get the pay-off. When I applied this thinging to a series of failed relationships I discovered something about myself. I am not going to discuss it here, but my next relationship lasted 18 yrs. And in truth, I have needed to recheck myself as to why it ended in divorce. It wasn't all her fault. So if you keep picking loser women, take a deep hard look within yourself. You are picking them for a reason. M. Michiganman, I would like to hear more about this. No little laughing emoticons for this, Winx. I am serious as a heart attack about this. Right after I moved out of the house I connected with the same woman I have always been attracted to and guess what? It ended the same way only quicker than before. I said, "Oh no, not again" But I was coming from the same place as before, doing the same things and getting the same results. Wow.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 02/02/09 08:36 PM
The sad part of it... The women I pick aren't interested in me. So I usually wind up with the ones that pick me. Why don't you wait it out until you find the ones that you are interested in? It's that instant gratification thing. Why wait when you can settle for something now? Ohhhh... You don't know me at all. First off... Have I directly insulted you in some way? Also... I'm not just talking about love-type relationships... I'm also talking about friendships too. That wasn't meant to be an insult. You were talking about settling. I was commenting on why some people settle. That's all.