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Topic: Are you in control of..
Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:50 PM
...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:

rlynne's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:52 PM
hehehehehehe I get lost easily...even with the map gps and a competent passenger...

ljcc1964's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:52 PM
It's pretty much going forward.

and.....changes to what?

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:54 PM
yep staying under my rock

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:54 PM

It's pretty much going forward.

and.....changes to what?


are you positive it is going forward?flowerforyou

FreeToB's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:55 PM

...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


Yes. As long as you leave enough slack in your goals to vary course according to the world around you.

Being single ain't the best situation but it helps to fulfill your goals if you dont worry about someone elses too.

Although one old girlfriend long ago helped me to define mine better and get a start...so I guess it could go both ways.

23mBoredinKilleen's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:55 PM
We are all in control even when we say we aren't.

It's not an option, even if you choose not to make a choice. It's still your choice for choosing not to make it.

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:55 PM

hehehehehehe I get lost easily...even with the map gps and a competent passenger...


now you see why men dont ask for directions, we know you are lost also! tongue2 :laughing:

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:56 PM

yep staying under my rock


what's under there? huh

no photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:57 PM

...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


If there's anything I've ever learned about life, it's that no one's in control of anything. You might THINK you do, but there are too many variables present that can put a monkey wrench in your plans.

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:57 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


Yes. As long as you leave enough slack in your goals to vary course according to the world around you.

Being single ain't the best situation but it helps to fulfill your goals if you dont worry about someone elses too.

Although one old girlfriend long ago helped me to define mine better and get a start...so I guess it could go both ways.


:thumbsup:

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 01/31/09 08:58 PM


yep staying under my rock


what's under there? huh
just me


and the darkness

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:00 PM

We are all in control even when we say we aren't.

It's not an option, even if you choose not to make a choice. It's still your choice for choosing not to make it.


but is it not "not making a choice" kind of an easy way out? drinker

FreeToB's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:00 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


If there's anything I've ever learned about life, it's that no one's in control of anything. You might THINK you do, but there are too many variables present that can put a monkey wrench in your plans.


I totally disagree, for myself anyway. Being in control doesnt mean (to me) plotting a course and never veering off. Sh*t always happens. Being in control is managing the changes and still getting there.

no photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:00 PM
never lost......just misoriented!!!!!

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:01 PM
Yes, and yes...makes it far easier to stay on goals at hand, without the constant bother of whether I am doing something right or wrong.

GLG2009's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:01 PM

...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:



Control - Sure I am!


Changes - Naw, I'm just moving faster.

no photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:02 PM
My life goes the way it wants I just follow it.

ljcc1964's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:02 PM


It's pretty much going forward.

and.....changes to what?


are you positive it is going forward?flowerforyou


Mostly. But as with most things in life....there are ups and downs. My outlook on my own life does tend to flux a tad...but in general....I'm happy.flowerforyou

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:04 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


If there's anything I've ever learned about life, it's that no one's in control of anything. You might THINK you do, but there are too many variables present that can put a monkey wrench in your plans.


I am sure we can prepare for some vaiables and how we can deal with them. drinker

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