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Topic: Are you in control of..
markc48's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:17 PM
Moving forward with extreme caution. Always have an extra pile of cash. Just in case.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:18 PM




You cannot be 100% in control

You could try the best you can

When situations arise

JMO
You can't be in control of the actions of others but you are in control of how you surround yourself and how you handle what comes at you.


I think you put it nicely Jill
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You're welcome flowerforyou

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:20 PM

Ever hear the one; Wanna' make God laugh? Just tell him your plans.
Not even the next breath is guaranteed.
I plan what I can and have goals. However, I know, I have to be open to change.
That's what's made me a survivor all these years.


I love your answer! rofl :thumbsup:

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:21 PM

I can exert more control of matters than I usually do, but that is my choice.
Having chosen this path, this adventure, and come just this far, I am cautious about committime to change too much too drastically or quickly.



so you are pretty much in that comfort zone? bigsmile

Roco's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:24 PM
Your in control of your life in so far as strategy is concerned, but not tactics. Strategy doesn't change, tactics do.

Single or not being single shouldn't effect your strategy in life.

Roco

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:27 PM

I have a child to raise. I am in control of his life as well as mine at this point. I make the most of what I have and live day to day. I do not think about what the future holds, just what we need at this moment in time.


the road becomes very clear when you have a child and that is to raise the best way you can! flowerforyou

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:29 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


I'm can't control what happens but I choose how to react to the events as they happen. I might not like what happens but I always find a positive side and find the best solution.


do you always find a solution?

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:32 PM

Moving forward with extreme caution. Always have an extra pile of cash. Just in case.


I think cash can be a solution to a lot of problems! drinks

hellkitten54's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:51 PM


I have a child to raise. I am in control of his life as well as mine at this point. I make the most of what I have and live day to day. I do not think about what the future holds, just what we need at this moment in time.


the road becomes very clear when you have a child and that is to raise the best way you can! flowerforyou


Yes, raise him to be an A-hole, just like mommy.blushing laugh :tongue:

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:54 PM

...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


I'd like to think so.


Changes, we'll see if I stick to the "well, it was here first" when the next woman tries to get me to move the pool table. laugh laugh laugh laugh

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:56 PM
Yes, and yes.

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:57 PM



I have a child to raise. I am in control of his life as well as mine at this point. I make the most of what I have and live day to day. I do not think about what the future holds, just what we need at this moment in time.


the road becomes very clear when you have a child and that is to raise the best way you can! flowerforyou


Yes, raise him to be an A-hole, just like mommy.blushing laugh :tongue:




flowers A for Admirable? flowers

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 09:58 PM

Yes, and yes.



Yesssss!

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 10:00 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


I'd like to think so.


Changes, we'll see if I stick to the "well, it was here first" when the next woman tries to get me to move the pool table. laugh laugh laugh laugh


Rack'em...I am coming over! drinker drinker

Totage's photo
Sat 01/31/09 10:01 PM

...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:



What does deing single have to do with my life direction? My life is going south, literally I'm planning on moving down south within a year.

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 10:06 PM


...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:



What does deing single have to do with my life direction? My life is going south, literally I'm planning on moving down south within a year.


say you meet someone and fell in love within this year and she doesnt want to move south, would you reconsider?

Pauland1990's photo
Sat 01/31/09 10:08 PM



...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:


I'm can't control what happens but I choose how to react to the events as they happen. I might not like what happens but I always find a positive side and find the best solution.


do you always find a solution?

I try to. Sadly there isn't always a solution and I have to deal the best i can.

Totage's photo
Sat 01/31/09 10:13 PM



...which direction your life is going? drinks


does being single cause any changes? :heart:



What does deing single have to do with my life direction? My life is going south, literally I'm planning on moving down south within a year.


say you meet someone and fell in love within this year and she doesnt want to move south, would you reconsider?


No, I'm not ready to allow myself to fall in love yet. If I felt that I was falling in love with someone, I would not stay here.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Sat 01/31/09 10:16 PM
i wasn't before... but i am now.

Shagwell's photo
Sat 01/31/09 10:46 PM

i wasn't before... but i am now.


what changed?

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